
See we have different opinions about helping girls. I think doing everything your parents say isn’t that healthy. I see a weird dynamic between Taylor and her parents. I also see someone who blames her exes and others in her music and isn’t able to gain real perspective about herself. Because of this lack of perspective, introspection and independence in her music, I see her as a hindrance to young women as she is myopically focused on herself and her feelings. I also question how much she and not her business minded razor sharp dad masterminds her deals. I think considering her dad tells her boyfriend where to stand and wait for her, always yours with her and wrote that email about being “a DAD” this is fairly reasonable to question. |
DP. I don't know where Taylor had dinner last night or any night because I'm not looking for that information. My daughter could probably tell you. If this is a problem for you, maybe you need to get your news and information from other sources that isn't celebrity focused. |
Other celebs do get papped in NYC. I don’t understand how you’re seeing so many pics of Taylor unless you buy tabloids or follow Swifties on social media. |
All I see is a woman who loves her parents and parents who support their daughter. It’s perfectly normal to ask parents for advice. There is no evidence Taylor always listens to her parents or that her parents have an outsized role in her life. On the South America leg of the tour, Taylor was hugging her dad first after each show. Her dad let Travis have his place once. You somehow twisted that thoughtful gesture into her dad orchestrating her life. |
I’ve personally seen the Clintons, the Obamas, Salmon Rushdie, Britney Spears and Lindsay Lohan (at their heights), Liz Hurley and yes, Madonna, eating dinner out in NYC without so much as a whiff of the paparazzi anywhere nearby. Because their people didn’t call the paparazzi in. DUH!!!! I don’t buy tabloids, but I would love to look at the NY Post online without having to steer clear from yet another article about Taylor’s upcoming holiday plans and details about her night out. It’s annoying and unnecessary and points to type of person she is. And no. |
All of those people were at the height of their fame pre-social media. Everyone has a camera now. Most of the photos of Taylor are from social media, posted by her own friends or the general public. |
I seriously can't imagine expending this much mental energy over some singer you don't like. She is living beyond rent-free in your head. Let it go for crying out loud. There are so many artists I don't care for, and you know what I do? Ignore them. You should try it. And yes, it's possible, even with Taylor Swift. Just stop engaging with her press and you'll get less of it. I see stories of her and I scroll right on by. It's possible. I promise. |
You have to be kidding me. I do not read the stories. Believe me, I do scroll past. But she is everywhere, like the prophetic Weird Al parody about her. I turn on the evening news and there she is. It ridiculous! She’s not worthy of being on the freaking evening news. She’s not a world leader. Other celebrities aren’t on the evening news. Dolly Parton isn’t on my evening news, why oh why is Taylor? There are many artists I don’t care for either, but they are very easy to ignore and turn off. To turn Taylor off, you have to stop watching tv and go completely offline. She’s like an invasive species. That is why the OP started this thread. It’s a place for people who don’t like her to vent about how awful and omnipresent she is. Why do we live rent free in your mind? Can’t YOU just scroll past and ignore this one teeny tiny thread? |
Her dad is around all the time. Goes to football games with her, dinner with her on the South American leg, etc. Also did you read that email in the lawsuit? It is bonkers. |
I am app to whom you replied and agree she does lamlot of good for empowering both women and artists - I don’t enjoy her music much but really appreciate her gutsy fearlessness and standing up for herself and other artists. |
The email from almost 20 years ago? I didn’t read it. Don’t care. Attending football games and dining out with a parent are completely normal activities. |
This. She 100% drives the attention including ESPECIALLY the attention on her personal life-- romances, friendships, etc People will point to her private behavior with Joe Alwyn but (1) he is very private, lives in the UK, and didn't want the attention, and (2) their relationship spanned Covid when there was a bit of a break from this activity. But what we are seeing now is her return to form. Pre-Alwyn, she did this stuff constantly to sell her relationships and personal life to the press and fans. She knows it's part of her appeal and she happily participated in the circus. Make of that what you will. Some people won't care and that's fine. And if you pay no attention to celeb news it will have no impact on you. But it's incredibly naive and blind not to understand that the attention on her is cultivated by Taylor and her team. |
I’m a fan, would even consider myself a swiftie, and only see Taylor news if I’m actively looking for it. Maybe the times person of the year and concert success makes national news. That’s like 2-3 news stories this year. What are you watching that you see daily stories about her? |
Seems like an easy formula to follow for wannabe starlets. Why isn’t everyone doing it with the same success? |
So your argument is that she shouldn’t date so that people like you don’t have to see articles about her personal life. Seems totally reasonable and not at all unhinged! |