Whether you’re divorced, single, etc. What is it like for you? As easy to find younger women as many seem to say it is? Or is it a challenge? |
Young women with choices aren't that much into older men, unless they are gold diggers or out of options.
A friend just got married to someone 15 year younger who was looking forward to get a green card and have a luxurious life. He had a heart attack with months and during testing for a cardiac bypass, they found liver cancer. She seems puzzled about becoming a caregiver or getting divorce. |
If you can't afford a home care nurse, you can't afford a sugar baby. |
He can but still lots of responsibility for someone who just emigrated. |
*and most of his assets are in a trust for his kids. |
The real reason old men aren’t worth it. |
Such an attractive mindset |
No one wants to spend the last 15 of their remaining good years taking care of someone who will not take care of them, either personally or financially. If you’re not going to be there in person AND you’re not going to leave money for that eventual purpose, you are simply mining a younger woman for resources you will never repay. It’s different if you’re married and the remaining spouse has the remaining joint assets to provide for them. |
Kind of ironic, coming from a gold digger. |
Au contraire. I have millions. That is because I am not stupid. |
It’s not golddigging to refuse to provide caretaking to someone who won’t return the act in any form. |
Who refused “any form”? |
DP— what form do you propose if time travel is out of the question? He’s not caring for her in her old age (men statistically don’t even care for their spouses when they fall seriously ill), so if he is not contributing resources to do so, what are you suggesting he brings to the table? |
Yes, I too am a smart, happy, multimillionaire hanging out in the Relationship Forum. Bon jour. |
Men or women, everyone needs companionship in old age, dating people with no long term goal could or gold digging goal can be fun for a while but will stop you from finding a true partner you'll spend your old afe with. |