My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
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Anonymous
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My girlfriend lives hours away so she comes and stays with me about 2 weeks at time. When she’s here she does clean up behind herself but that’s it. She left today and I texted her asking her if she could start helping me clean before she leaves. This for some reason ticked her off.
How was I wrong here? |
Anonymous
| 3PM on a Monday is a weird time to start s**t online. |
Anonymous
| Are you hosting her? Or is living with you. Those are two different things. |
Anonymous
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Is she leaving it dirtier than when she arrived?
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Anonymous
School’s out! |
Anonymous
I am hosting her. She stays for a bit then goes back home because we live about 3 hours away from each other. |
Anonymous
So you're the host. You're in charge of cleaning or hiring someone to clean. |
Anonymous
How? She’s an adult and stays here frequently. |
Anonymous
| You said she cleans up after herself. What more do you expect from a house guest? |
Anonymous
| She needs to pick up after herself, but shouldn't be scrubbing toilets, mopping, dusting, vacuuming, etc. |
Anonymous
| Shes a guest. So shes cleaning up after herself which is sufficient. |
Anonymous
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Do you ever go and stay with her? And do you help her clean her place while you're there?
I think if you do that it's reasonable to ask for reciprocation. But, if she does all the traveling to you, and cleans up after herself, then you look like a douche asking her to clean up your place. |
Anonymous
Sweep, mop, laundry, etc. - any of those. |
Anonymous
| From one guy to another, you’re an idiot Sir. |
Anonymous
She's not doing her own laundry? You want her to do your laundry? |