Had 4 date options on Sat in my mid 40s. Everyone who says 40swomen can't get male interest is crazy

[Anonymous]

I am just saying. I am just commenting to try to dispel the myth that a woman would not get interest from men if they are divorced and over 40. It is just not true. And the men are not losers. (I am still not really interested though). I just wanted to share this info because everyone assumes it is hard for women later...and it is very far from the truth. It is not 20 years ago, and I think many people have not caught up to the way things are now.

[Anonymous]

I’m 47 f and have a very sexy 42 year old lover. I’ve found dating to be fun, for the most part. Good for you OP! Single life has been 100% better than my miserable marriage to an actively abusive alcoholic!

[Anonymous]

Good for you and I’m in the same boat as you being 43. I’m pleased in that all of the interest is with guys in their 40’s or even younger. I was very wary about dating at first because you do have to put yourself out there and there are some strange guys around but they are the exception.

[Anonymous]

Man here, also 40s, I am not surprised. The dating market is still very good for 40+ women. Finding the right one is tough but that's true for men too.

Good luck out there!

[Anonymous]

I am 58 and have a lover who is 50. The sex is amazing.

My best friend is a guy I dated a couple years ago, but we just didn't work out romantically.

[Anonymous]

Hey! Unicorn, Loch Ness Monster, and Bigfoot thread!
Kool!! LOL!!

[Anonymous]

I’m doing fine dating in my 40’s but I know it really helps that my profile includes that I’m both a fitness trainer and a licensed massage therapist.

[Anonymous]

Wait and see if they ghost you after you have sex before you feel too triumphant.

[Anonymous]

I just read a study where 60% of people on dating sites are men. The odds are in our favor!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hey! Unicorn, Loch Ness Monster, and Bigfoot thread!
Kool!! LOL!!

Go back to 4Chan

[Anonymous]

I'm 60 and have a 38 year old lover! the sex is amazing! I'm so glad I divorced my husband.

[Anonymous]

No one is saying that.

The difficulty is for those men and women who seek long-term partners, marriage and perhaps children, in their 40s. That is a much more challenging proposition.

You are unbelievably stupid if you confuse the two.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one is saying that.

The difficulty is for those men and women who seek long-term partners, marriage and perhaps children, in their 40s. That is a much more challenging proposition.

You are unbelievably stupid if you confuse the two.

+1 read the thread about lonely young men.

It's easy for women, even 40s women to find a man who wants to have sex with them. Trying to find someone great to have a LTR, maybe kids/marriage, that's a lot harder.

[Anonymous]

The odds are good but the goods are

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wait and see if they ghost you after you have sex before you feel too triumphant.

OP here. I have not had men ghost me after I have sex. This has been true since I divorced and true in my 20s. It literally has never happened to me. Not concerned. Most men want a relationship…opposite of ghosting. I am also not one to have sex right away.