Brother in law and His girlfriend proclaim DH’s family racist this on social media.

[Anonymous]

Did something recently happen? I know we’ve all lost track of time during the pandemic but Halloween was almost 5 months ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op again-I will apologize to her but I truly didn’t dress up like tiger king and Carol to promote racist views. It was a pop culture thing and we had the stuff in our closet so it was an easy outfit. Halloween really should be banned.

Oh yeah I see why she might not like you. BAN HALLOWEEN because someone didn't approve of my costume. Oh you poor precious thing. Gag.

Look, if I were in your shoes (I loved that trainwreck doc and didn't know he was racist), I would approach her now and say I am really sorry. I had no idea about the racism. I should have done my research when you mentioned it, but I didn't and that was a mistake. " Don't make excuses. Do tell her you want to be friends. Then leave the ball in her court.

Are there other incidents? If not, hopefully she's willing to move on for the sake of family unity.

I don’t want to be friends with her. We aren’t friends. She lives in San Francisco and has never met my two children who are 11 and 7. My children have met their uncle twice and only the second time because we flew him out to his Moms birthday Pre covid and girlfriend did not come. She has never once visited us or the family. She never calls, emails or asks or inquired about our lives. Only in March last year when they started the group chat with the entire family to try to communicate. My mother in law wished everyone a Happy Easter and she then wrote to everyone that this was insensitive of my mil because not everyone celebrated Easter and she should acknowledge this. Everyone on the thread was raised catholic including her but whatever and there were countless woke moments like these throughout the year which led to the ultimate Tiger king Halloween incident. They have asked us for money twice in the last few years because they are starving artists but they are both 40 now so it’s pretty pathetic at this point and we said no the last year and that caused issues.
Im angry that she flames the family on social media for these incidents as hateful and violent-which they are not.

Clearly this goes way beyond the tiger king costumes. Just unfriend her in social media and move along.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op again-I will apologize to her but I truly didn’t dress up like tiger king and Carol to promote racist views. It was a pop culture thing and we had the stuff in our closet so it was an easy outfit. Halloween really should be banned.

Oh yeah I see why she might not like you. BAN HALLOWEEN because someone didn't approve of my costume. Oh you poor precious thing. Gag.

Look, if I were in your shoes (I loved that trainwreck doc and didn't know he was racist), I would approach her now and say I am really sorry. I had no idea about the racism. I should have done my research when you mentioned it, but I didn't and that was a mistake. " Don't make excuses. Do tell her you want to be friends. Then leave the ball in her court.

Are there other incidents? If not, hopefully she's willing to move on for the sake of family unity.

I don’t want to be friends with her. We aren’t friends. She lives in San Francisco and has never met my two children who are 11 and 7. My children have met their uncle twice and only the second time because we flew him out to his Moms birthday Pre covid and girlfriend did not come. She has never once visited us or the family. She never calls, emails or asks or inquired about our lives. Only in March last year when they started the group chat with the entire family to try to communicate. My mother in law wished everyone a Happy Easter and she then wrote to everyone that this was insensitive of my mil because not everyone celebrated Easter and she should acknowledge this. Everyone on the thread was raised catholic including her but whatever and there were countless woke moments like these throughout the year which led to the ultimate Tiger king Halloween incident. They have asked us for money twice in the last few years because they are starving artists but they are both 40 now so it’s pretty pathetic at this point and we said no the last year and that caused issues.
Im angry that she flames the family on social media for these incidents as hateful and violent-which they are not.

Clearly this goes way beyond the tiger king costumes. Just unfriend her in social media and move along.

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Op, you are clearly just looking to get sympathy. I was somewhat sympathetic until I read this - you think you are superior because you have more money and live a more traditional life. I don’t know if you are racist but you are clearly small-minded.