I'm saying if you got into Harvard any time before segregation was shut down and individuals of all races (the same applies to gender) were allowed to apply - you took advantage of the benefits of racism. I'm saying if you moved into a neighborhood in the 'better' parts of Los Angeles in the 1950s, housing identical to the worst parts, but a highway devalued the Mexican side and kept the white side appreciating - you took advantage of the benefits of racism. I'm saying if your forefathers were passed down a house and land from the 1800s when the American government was literally giving away plots for free and selling that land allowed you to benefit from generational wealth - you took advantage of the benefits of racism. I'm saying if your grandparents had cleaners and nannies that they were legally paying a 1/10th of the wage they'd pay for a non-POC aide - you took advantage of the benefits of racism. |
You’re entitled to your opinion, of course. But that this non-white woman was not immediately attracted to Piers, who apparently regards himself as a model of white manhood, quite likely added at least some fuel to Piers’s rage at feeling rejected. It’s possible, but it’s really hard to imagine that he would have so publicly treated, say, Chelsy or Cressida this way — or that he would not have received very public, very negative consequences for displaying similar behavior with one of these women. I’m still startled at the extent of this public ranting from a married man. Maybe he’s just unhinged. But it’s possible to be misogynistic AND unhinged AND racist, and I see nothing, so far, that suggests that Piers was not multi-tasking. |
Okay. So how would you define “Racist”? You’re making some separations that I would not — that I’m struggling to understand, here. |
| Sorry - perhaps Distinctions — would be a better word than “separations”. |
| Why do so many attribute this to racism rather than misogyny or even prejudice against Americans? Have you not seen how the British tabloids have treated many women over the years and most were not black? Are you not aware of the eye rolling and disapproving looks that any can-do tradition-defying American invites? I don’t think most Americans understand that there is a big culture gap. |
Which Royals did they do that to? |
NP here, but do you really not see PP's point? Do you think every single person that went to a single race or single sex school if that was all or the best available at the time was definitely racist or sexist? I think that's a step too far and undermines the meaning racist and sexist, at least for me. |
In my case, it’s things like the blackamoor brooch, the comments about Archie, the pointed comments that are easy to connect with racial stereotypes. I think Fergie was horribly mistreated. I think Megan was — and is — mistreated AND that there are racist overtones to the mistreatment. I’m aware of all that you have pointed out. I wonder how much you, and those who share your point of view, are actually aware of racism and how embedded it is in “normal” Western cultures. As long as we’re talking big cultural gaps, your “most Americans” includes quite a lot of diversity. One of the issues coming out might well be that those of us who see the racism in a lot of this are people who have seen and experienced it ourselves, in America as well as in other countries. There are others who may never see racism anywhere at all. Maybe watch and listen to the bit where Piers walks off his show. Listen to Alex Beresford and think about what he’s saying — and why he’s finally speaking up in that moment. |
No, I don’t see PPs point — which is why I am respectfully asking how PP defines “racist”. I am trying to understand PP’s point of view. I haven’t made any statements yet about what is or isn’t racist, in my view. For me, there’s little point in doing that without at least having some understanding of the distinction that PP is making. You, also, are saying what is NOT racist in your view, while still failing to say what you think IS racist or sexist. I’m happy to engage in the conversation— but I really don’t see much point in doing so without being somewhat clear on what we’re each talking about, we don’t need to agree upon the definitions — but it would help to be as clear as we can on what definitions we’re using. |
Let's go with the dictionary definition: "prejudiced against or antagonistic toward a person or people on the basis of their membership in a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized." Not sure why you're being such a prat about this. The point PPs were making was pretty obvious. You questioned whether there was a distinction between being racist and knowingly benefiting from society's racism. I think there is. You do you. |
“Prat”? I guess name calling is the predicable result of trying to have a rational conversation in a thread from the entertainment forum. As to the rest of it, I guess there’s little point in trying to engage even superficially with someone who believes that only their own perspectives are “obvious”. Prat indeed. Peace out. |
Right?? I would equate all of that to the psychotic, irrational and nonsensical ramblings of the QAnon cult. People truly are weak-minded. |
It wasn't dinner -- it was a 90 minute lunch. He didn't even rank high enough on her list to elicit a dinner from her, lol. He's so incredibly scuzzy and I'm thrilled to see him knocked down a few pegs. |
It was very obvious over and over what the PPs meant and you were all "I'm not telling you my opinion at all or engaging in this discussion until you offer me a definition of racist"... It was a bit weird, to put it mildly. |