SAHMs: Stop complaining to me about how busy you are

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh look. Another whiny WOHM.

OP, you can't handle working and parenting then quit.

Oh I can handle it fine. I just can't handle listening to SAHMs who have school aged kids complain they are busy. Especially when it's to get out of helping out on things like school functions or girl scout activities.

There it is!!! You’re mad because the SAHMs aren’t providing as much free labor as you would like them to.

Guess what? Nobody owes you free labor regardless of work status. Grow up OP. Read some threads about how so many people hate school functions and room parents make insane demands for class parties, don’t even get me started on the PTA...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh look. Another whiny WOHM.

OP, you can't handle working and parenting then quit.

Oh I can handle it fine. I just can't handle listening to SAHMs who have school aged kids complain they are busy. Especially when it's to get out of helping out on things like school functions or girl scout activities.

There it is!!! You’re mad because the SAHMs aren’t providing as much free labor as you would like them to.

Guess what? Nobody owes you free labor regardless of work status. Grow up OP. Read some threads about how so many people hate school functions and room parents make insane demands for class parties, don’t even get me started on the PTA...

+1000000

[Anonymous]

OP you are ridiculous. The SAHMs are saying they’re busy to get you to leave them alone. Take a hint. It’s the polite way of saying nobody wants to volunteer for your school functions.

Are you on the spectrum or something? Most people aren’t this socially clueless.

[Anonymous]

The title of this thread should be:

Why are SAHMs not doing what I tell them to? And how can I get them to understand that it’s their job to provide unpaid labor anytime I ask?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh look. Another whiny WOHM.

OP, you can't handle working and parenting then quit.

Oh I can handle it fine. I just can't handle listening to SAHMs who have school aged kids complain they are busy. Especially when it's to get out of helping out on things like school functions or girl scout activities.

You're NOT handling it fine if you are lashing out like this. Maybe these other moms can sense the toxicity and want to distance themselves from you. Maybe you need a break.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
OP you are ridiculous. The SAHMs are saying they’re busy to get you to leave them alone. Take a hint. It’s the polite way of saying nobody wants to volunteer for your school functions.

Are you on the spectrum or something? Most people aren’t this socially clueless.

THIS.

[Anonymous]

OP, it’s not your place to decide what other people do with their time. If they’re busy, they’re busy. You don’t get to say what they do and don’t have to do. Once you accept this you may become a happier person.
- Full-time WOHM

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You'd have a lot more time on your hands if you weren't so busy judging everyone's life choices.

Mic drop

Shut up, OP. You sound ridiculous and immature.

So does anyone who types the words "mic drop".

Agree...a lot of ultra-defensive busy SAHM’s here

[Anonymous]

I’ve got 4 kids under 5 and yes I’m legitimately busier than you and yet somehow less stressed. I don’t complain because we set up our lives this way on purpose and I’m extremely thankful for the life I have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You'd have a lot more time on your hands if you weren't so busy judging everyone's life choices.

Mic drop

Shut up, OP. You sound ridiculous and immature.

So does anyone who types the words "mic drop".

Agree...a lot of ultra-defensive busy SAHM’s here

Ha! Sorry everyone is “too busy” to volunteer for your busywork

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You'd have a lot more time on your hands if you weren't so busy judging everyone's life choices.

Mic drop

Shut up, OP. You sound ridiculous and immature.

So does anyone who types the words "mic drop".

Agree...a lot of ultra-defensive busy SAHM’s here

Ha! Sorry everyone is “too busy” to volunteer for your busywork

They know she’s a judgmental bitch so they avoid her.

[Anonymous]

Op, if they don’t complain to you, then they will just post about how busy they are on fb or create memes about it on instagram

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
OP you are ridiculous. The SAHMs are saying they’re busy to get you to leave them alone. Take a hint. It’s the polite way of saying nobody wants to volunteer for your school functions.

Are you on the spectrum or something? Most people aren’t this socially clueless.

Such an ableist jab. We can have this convo without slipping in this kind of language

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve got 4 kids under 5 and yes I’m legitimately busier than you and yet somehow less stressed. I don’t complain because we set up our lives this way on purpose and I’m extremely thankful for the life I have.

Cool story bro

[Anonymous]

I think SAHMs don’t have as helpful of husbands as working women so they have to make up for it. Leading them to be busier. I’m shocked at what my sahm friends let their husbands get away with. One man hadn’t ever changed a diaper, another hadn’t ever read a book to his kid ever.