| I think a bit of level setting might be in order. These practices are at teaching hospitals when a patient is already going to have a pelvic procedure like a cancer treatment. Same with the prostate example. I am clearly ANTI both of these practices but, for example, if you go in for an upper GI, no, your vagina will not be investigated. Still, doesn't make it right but some context. Personally, I think it is criminal both the person doing it, all of the witnesses, and the medical center that lets it go on. |
The thread was about that but then took a turn against male doctors in general and male OB/GYNs in particular. I do think the practice discussed in the OP is heinous. |
Correct. If the attending were going to need to a pelvic exam pre-procedure, the residents may also do one, as they are learning how. It's not as assault like as this thread is making it sound, although the patient herself may not understand what she has actually consented to, pre-operatively. Nurses often handle the consenting process, however it is the MD responsiblity, ultimately. |
Oh, it's not like, my child is going in to have ear tubes put in, so I need to be totally panicked and talk to the female nurses ahead of time, etc. etc. etc."??? |
Just ask ahead of time, as per earlier in this thread. Review the recommendations, and make sure you trust your providers. Are you going to a teaching hospital, or a private hospital? Go over the surgical/treatment consents carefully. Ask who (and why!!) will be present in the room and touching you. Be specific and advocate for yourself. Tell your nurses your concerns. This is a relatively simple procedure, and your doctor probably already knows your anatomy. |
It is a private hospital, as far as I know (Inova). Yes, my doctor knows me and I trust him. My husband will also be there, insofar as he can advocate for me. Usually I am the opposite of an alarmist person but I am already on edge about this procedure so it’s just a little unsettling. |
| The comment about medicine being so hostile that other doctors can't blow the whistle is BS. Silence is complicity. |
My male OB is by far the best doctor I've ever had. I also totally disagree with this logic- does an oncologist have to have cancer to be a good dr? Of course not- that is ridiculous. I say this as an RN. |
Your doctor is counting on your trust. Open your eyes a bit more, and keep them open. |
As an RN I don't look at it like this at all. OB is generally a "happy medicine"-- women are giving birth and women generally take good care of themselves. I work in cardiac critical care and my patients are generally old and have many comorbidities. It gets pretty depressing to see people not take care of themselves and see their conditions worsen. Sometimes I think about switching to OB purely for the fact that people in the hospital for OB reasons are generally there for happy life events, not death and disease. I think that physicians choose their specialties in a similar manner. |
Pssst. You sound like a troll. |
Same troll? |
I'm the 4th year med student from above. I agree 100%. This is not happening (in my experience) EVER in a non-gynecological procedure. I don't think its assault per se, but I was uncomfortable doing it because I was not sure if the patient had been explicitly consented about a med student (me) doing a pelvic exam. Whereas in the office when the patient was awake they agreed to let me do it. |
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Just ask questions if you are not willing to be part of learning (which is fine) and be cautious where you get treated. I realize I am more practical then most, but when I had a LEEP at VHC there was a young Dr planning to become a surgeon who accompanied my OB as part of his rotations. Yes I felt a little weird when he was asking questions about my sexual history because quite frankly he was really cute. But I knew he was there to learn and become a good Dr and future surgeon, and my OB is an excellent one to learn with. I am sure he participated in some way in my surgery, and yes maybe they showed him my body and why it looks the way it looks (scars from sever childbirth tearing) the different parts and how to look at them using different scopes. I am totally fine with it. I was informed it was a learning hospital and a student would be present. I recognize many may not be, so just educate yourselves about where you are being treated and advocate for yourself. (as an aside, I feel I received far better treatment and care at VHC despite it being a teaching hospital
then I ever did at INOVA) |
exactly, how is this not rape |