my dad hit my 12-year old

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What I learned over my Winter Break:

Can't trust Grandad, he's crazy.

Can't trust mom either.

No, not trusting Mom would come if she told him she didn't believe it happened.

If she is giving him scads of positive reinforcement on the phone, and telling him she believes him, he can hang on until Saturday.

All of your snowflakes will just learn that Mommy will come rescue them at anytime, no matter what. Enjoy doing it into your 80s, parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd be on the next plane.

Was he violent with you growing up?

Yes, which is why I believe my son and not my dad who called him a liar.

Why would you let your son be alone with him then!??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd be on the next plane.

Was he violent with you growing up?

Yes, which is why I believe my son and not my dad who called him a liar.

Why would you let your son be alone with him then!??

You better call your sister and have her go get your son NOW. You sent your kid off with a violent person. What are you thinking???? Get on next plane and get your son today. Terrible situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd be on the next plane.

Was he violent with you growing up?

Yes, which is why I believe my son and not my dad who called him a liar.

Why would you let your son be alone with him then!??

You better call your sister and have her go get your son NOW. You sent your kid off with a violent person. What are you thinking???? Get on next plane and get your son today. Terrible situation.

You’re a little late to the party.

[Anonymous]

Op how is your son?? Did you get to him in time and get him out of that terrible situation??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, this is your child. He was hit by someone you personally know to be violent. He was/is being deprived of food and activity. His grandfather is too old to be caring for him, by your own admission.

You need to be on that plane now. And it would be best if your sister could leave immediately to get DS in the meantime. This is not a safe situation. It doesn't matter what caused your child to be hit and deprived of food/activity, it is not a safe situation for your DS.

GO. NOW.

OP just responded. She’s waiting until Saturday. Until then, she is in contact with her son by phone.

Her father is withholding food from her son because he told that he hit him. He could keep hitting him and keep withholding food. OP is a terrible parent for putting her son in this situation. What was OP thinking? What a terrible memory for this poor kid to have for his Christmas and trust me gifts won't erase this memory. Terrible.

[Anonymous]

I was put in a similar situation as a kid with a relative I was often sent to visit. OP, I'm sorry to say that I bet 5he lessons your son takes away from your decision to delay removing him from the situation likely won't be ones you wanted for him and probably won't be worth any cost savings.