Dating around and "having fun" in your 20s is pointless. I should have settled down

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Anonymous wrote:I drank my ass off in my 20s and am a better dad because of it. I got married at 30 and had kids at 32. I've never felt restless as a father because I got it out of my system in my 20s. I know that I'm not missing anything by being domestic.

Only women, men should marry at 35 to 25 year old woman. Man can make sperm into their late 40s. Woman was designed to make babies up until early 30s.

Those who drink and do drugs earlier and then "settle down", don't think you got "it" out of your system.

You didn't. The heavy drugging and alcohol damage your bodies so badly, you will make sick babies and be sick parents yourselves.

You are full of shit. I drank my face off 5 days a week for three years (and less heavily but still significantly for another four). My kids are healthy, happy, and as smart as you'll find.

I wouldn't advocate drinking like I did for anyone. But the fear tactics of "live a moral life or you'll pay in the future" are obnoxious.