Why are some people so LOUD?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm an Italian from NYC. I'm loud and so is my entire family. DH is not Italian but he is from NYC and very loud as well. Our children were born and raised here and they are louder than us. We constantly tell them to use inside voices but realize they come from many generations of loud people on both sides. We have social skills and are not screaming at work. We have lived here for almost 20 years and think it's more about people not being direct and to the point since everyone is always trying to be so politically correct. I think the way we still speak comes across as loud, or rude, to some D.C. natives. There is a regional difference.

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Tell us, surely you must find the natives whiny and weak? LOL.

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Anonymous wrote:OP have you been screened for Asperger's? Not being snarky. I understand sensitivity to noise is just one factor.

Still wondering, OP?

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OP?

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OP, you need to have an Professional assessment, for the sake of yourself (and your children, who may inherit the trait or gene or genetic attribute). Most normal people don't walk around covering their precious little ears. You know this is not normal adult behavior, right? I'm not loud, but some of my good friends are. They are the most passionate, accomplished people I know. I wouldn't have it any other way. Neither would they, or the people who love them.

The casual consensus here (as good as any random sample I suppose, partly in jest) indicates that most people are not bothered by people who talk louder than them. It is just not something normal people concern themselves with. Could you at least consider (probably not) that you are being persnickety and petty and looking for fault (where none exists)? Again, probably not. I would not expect you to be self aware. You seem hyper critical. Again another indication of deep self hatred.

You might want to look at your own self hate. Dig deep down inside yourself, and stop worrying about other people so much, OP.

You're an armchair psychologist at best, a nut job at worst. WTH are you talking about? By my count OP has posted twice here. You can glean all you've said from OP's brief posts? Nothing indicates she needs a "professional assessment."

Weirdo.

+1,000. Nut job is right.

Because you sound normal? Normal people don't care what other people sound like, OP. Let's face it, you are not normal. Just guessing here, anyone that does not sound like you is ostracized? Guess what? I am betting they don't care one iota what you do or do not do. You don't affect them. You can never make other people be uptight, nasal, mousy and lacking like you. Clearly it is not working for you. Get over it.

NP here. My god you are such a hater. What is WRONG with you? How do you live?

Enjoy screaming your inane thoughts in other people's ears. I'm sure you do.

Enjoy no one caring what you have to say. Just because someone doesn't talk out of their nose (or arse, more accurately) does not mean they are loud. It is hard to respect someone who is timid; not so someone who is louder than you. Own what you are, and don't worry so much about other people. You might learn something. NAH.

Clearly you came here to pick a fight, and troll on someone you don't like. I am not loud, but I would never condemn the fascinating people in my life who are. My God. You have problems.

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Anonymous wrote:OP have you been screened for Asperger's? Not being snarky. I understand sensitivity to noise is just one factor.

Still wondering, OP?

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OP?

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OP, you need to have an Professional assessment, for the sake of yourself (and your children, who may inherit the trait or gene or genetic attribute). Most normal people don't walk around covering their precious little ears. You know this is not normal adult behavior, right? I'm not loud, but some of my good friends are. They are the most passionate, accomplished people I know. I wouldn't have it any other way. Neither would they, or the people who love them.

The casual consensus here (as good as any random sample I suppose, partly in jest) indicates that most people are not bothered by people who talk louder than them. It is just not something normal people concern themselves with. Could you at least consider (probably not) that you are being persnickety and petty and looking for fault (where none exists)? Again, probably not. I would not expect you to be self aware. You seem hyper critical. Again another indication of deep self hatred.

You might want to look at your own self hate. Dig deep down inside yourself, and stop worrying about other people so much, OP.

You're an armchair psychologist at best, a nut job at worst. WTH are you talking about? By my count OP has posted twice here. You can glean all you've said from OP's brief posts? Nothing indicates she needs a "professional assessment."

Weirdo.

+1,000. Nut job is right.

Because you sound normal? Normal people don't care what other people sound like, OP. Let's face it, you are not normal. Just guessing here, anyone that does not sound like you is ostracized? Guess what? I am betting they don't care one iota what you do or do not do. You don't affect them. You can never make other people be uptight, nasal, mousy and lacking like you. Clearly it is not working for you. Get over it.

NP here. My god you are such a hater. What is WRONG with you? How do you live?

Enjoy screaming your inane thoughts in other people's ears. I'm sure you do.

Enjoy no one caring what you have to say. Just because someone doesn't talk out of their nose (or arse, more accurately) does not mean they are loud. It is hard to respect someone who is timid; not so someone who is louder than you. Own what you are, and don't worry so much about other people. You might learn something. NAH.

Clearly you came here to pick a fight, and troll on someone you don't like. I am not loud, but I would never condemn the fascinating people in my life who are. My God. You have problems.

Let's see... persnickety, petty, hyper critical, timid, self hater. These are all words you have used to describe someone you don't know, whose only question was why some people always talk in loud voices. And yet you accuse others of trying to pick fights.

Someone said it before, and I will repeat it: you are a nut job. With transference problems. Talk to the person you're really hating on. You need to get this out in real life.

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Transference problems - LOL. This gets better. And the fact that you think there is one person responding is even better. Are you always this paranoid? And (in your own words) persnickety, petty, hyper critical, timid and self hating.......

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Anonymous wrote:It's hilarious about how all the loud people are coming on here defending themselves. They know they're rude and annoying; they of course won't cop to it. It's all about them. Other people be damned.

Not true! I'm a loud talker and mortified because of it. I'm hard of hearing and try very hard to modulate but am rarely successful. I envy people who have soft voices even though I can't hear much of what they're saying.

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Anonymous wrote:It's hilarious about how all the loud people are coming on here defending themselves. They know they're rude and annoying; they of course won't cop to it. It's all about them. Other people be damned.

Not true! I'm a loud talker and mortified because of it. I'm hard of hearing and try very hard to modulate but am rarely successful. I envy people who have soft voices even though I can't hear much of what they're saying.

THANK YOU for being self aware. But you have an entirely valid reason for being loud.

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I'm from a West Indian family, and when we get together, we're loud. Argue loudly, laugh loudly, etc. Was never aware of this until my husband, who was raised in England and comes from a reserved family, starting coming home for the holidays and commenting on it. Oh well.

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Lets just agree the introverts need to stay in their cubes with earphones.

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I see two groups of people.

The loud people think quiet ones are weak, suspicious, sneaky, timid, lacking in social skills, low social status, weird, and not worthy of respect. Loud people think they themselves are worthy of respect (due to the volume of their voices), high social status, more interesting, more fun to be around, more socially skilled, more confident, more successful.

The quiet ones think loud people are rude, overbearing, annoying, irritating, lacking in empathy, self centered, superficial, and lacking in self awareness. The quiet ones think they themselves are more intelligent, more sensitive, more empathetic, more aware, more introverted, more observant.

People shouldn't be judged based on their skin color, religion, sexual preferences, height, weight, fashion sense, social status, looks, economic status, or volume of their voices. Can't we all just get along?

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Anonymous wrote:OP have you been screened for Asperger's? Not being snarky. I understand sensitivity to noise is just one factor.

Oh hey Rosie O'Donnell had no idea you were on DCUM

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Anonymous wrote:I see two groups of people.

The loud people think quiet ones are weak, suspicious, sneaky, timid, lacking in social skills, low social status, weird, and not worthy of respect. Loud people think they themselves are worthy of respect (due to the volume of their voices), high social status, more interesting, more fun to be around, more socially skilled, more confident, more successful.

The quiet ones think loud people are rude, overbearing, annoying, irritating, lacking in empathy, self centered, superficial, and lacking in self awareness. The quiet ones think they themselves are more intelligent, more sensitive, more empathetic, more aware, more introverted, more observant.

People shouldn't be judged based on their skin color, religion, sexual preferences, height, weight, fashion sense, social status, looks, economic status, or volume of their voices. Can't we all just get along?

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How old are you, OP? Who else do you hate?

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Anonymous wrote:OP have you been screened for Asperger's? Not being snarky. I understand sensitivity to noise is just one factor.

Oh hey Rosie O'Donnell had no idea you were on DCUM

I don't watch Rosie O'Donnell, so I don't understand the reference.

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if they know they are? It's grating at best. Super annoying.

If you're loud and realize it, have you tried to modulate your voice?

OP, tell us - who loudly told you off in McLean Giant?

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Anonymous wrote:OP have you been screened for Asperger's? Not being snarky. I understand sensitivity to noise is just one factor.

Oh hey Rosie O'Donnell had no idea you were on DCUM

I don't watch Rosie O'Donnell, so I don't understand the reference.

Rosie just accused Barron Trump of having aspergers.

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP have you been screened for Asperger's? Not being snarky. I understand sensitivity to noise is just one factor.

Oh hey Rosie O'Donnell had no idea you were on DCUM

I don't watch Rosie O'Donnell, so I don't understand the reference.

Rosie just accused Barron Trump of having aspergers.

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I wouldn't accuse any child of having anything. But adults who who can't cope with those around them, truly are emotionally stunted, among other things.