Where to find non-immature single men in their 30s?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DC has the highest number of women vs men with 112 per 100 according to the census bureau.

There is just no refuting the fact there are many more available women here who are open to relationships that expand beyond the traditional marriage model including short term dating, open relationships, fuck buddies, etc.

It also explains why DC is a buyer's market for men.

This is a myth that's been perpetuated since 1942. The truth is that there are many men are as interested in relationships as women out there. OP just has to find one right for her. She may in fact find several compatible men if she just looks around a bit.

How is the census data a myth?

And lets not forget of those 100 men, many more of them than in other jurisdictions are gay - as DC has one of the highest rates of male homosexuality in the country on a per capita basis.

Lots of lesbian women too here.

[Anonymous]

i hear this stuff often, yet i'm a black woman who gets asked out pretty often. i feel like if i can have pretty decent options in DC, other women should too. i hear reports that black professional men are an endangered species, yet i'm constantly seeing them everywhere i go. most guys i've dated, regardless of race, have had IT/engineering backgrounds, if that helps.

op, assuming you're a white woman looking for white men, i'd say your best bet is to hang in the tyson's and dulles corridor. the ratio of single professional men to women is certainly in your favor. i usually find that the black men looking for black women in these areas FLOCK to black professionals events. keep in mind that our numbers are pretty low in those areas. if i can find em, so can you!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Give online a try again but keep in mind that you aren't looking for your twin. You all do not need to have the same interest. I met my 32 year old man online. Great career, no kids, stable, handsome, mature, etc. We are completely opposite in every way. Don't have the same taste in music, he loves social settings, I like intimate settings, he drinks, I don't, he hates the outdoors and I love it.

THis sounds exactly like someone my neighbor was dating for a while ... until she recently found out she was not the only woman in his life ...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Give online a try again but keep in mind that you aren't looking for your twin. You all do not need to have the same interest. I met my 32 year old man online. Great career, no kids, stable, handsome, mature, etc. We are completely opposite in every way. Don't have the same taste in music, he loves social settings, I like intimate settings, he drinks, I don't, he hates the outdoors and I love it.

THis sounds exactly like someone my neighbor was dating for a while ... until she recently found out she was not the only woman in his life ...

so what are you saying - that it is very important that interests match?

i believe that young people tend to overestimate the importance (and longevity) of their interests. this is because they don't have families and things like music, books, movies etc are a very importnat part of their lives and identities. however, as family life starts to unfold, those things tend to lose their importance rapidly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't wear heels. Professional men in NYC are shorter than say Chicago, but they are still taller than in DC. More MBAs in NYC vs law degrees in DC (men who go to law school seem to be shorter than MBAs).

Most of the white professional men in DC are well under 5'10. Lots of guys in the 5.6 to 5.9 zone. As someone who is five seven or eight, I am fine with dating guys 5.7 or taller.

I would love to know the ratio of white, professional single men to women in DC. Or just college educated, regardless of race.

Match has way more women than men in this category in this area.

Eh, you might be right that DC guys are shorter than NYC. I doubt it's an average of 5'7, but NYC has those finance guys who played football or lax in college that DC doesn't. NYC also has many Italians and Jews that lower the heights somewhat. Maybe I should get to DC a lot more...

I'm sure that info is available re white professionals, etc. Maybe some census fiddling.

Come to think of it, when I've been in DC I seemed to get a lot more female attention than in NYC.

[Anonymous]

Take an immature man and work with him. Mold him into the mature man you want.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Take an immature man and work with him. Mold him into the mature man you want.

the worst advice ever.

[Anonymous]

they're all over the place

[Anonymous]

I find it funny that this thread was started two days after this one:

"attractive professional women at 30 with no bf/husband"

I wonder if the two OP's met each other - that would've been the best solution.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Take an immature man and work with him. Mold him into the mature man you want.

the worst advice ever.

+1000
I agree. The only person you can change is YOU. Changing a guy (or thinking you can) will only lead to divorce (should you trick him into marrying you.)