Would you be okay with your daughter dating a boy from a different race?
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Anonymous
I actually find it insulting, not to mention inaccurate because not all Asians are good at math (or smart for that matter). |
Anonymous
+1000000000000 If you dig deep enough (and sometimes you don't even have to), you'll find that black men who marry white woman have some internal issues whether it be low self-esteem, self-hate and/or some need to prove "they've arrived". You'll notice that most black men who marry white woman are successful and/or educated. Why is that? Why aren't middle/upper class white woman marrying the average black guy? |
Anonymous
are you asian |
Anonymous
Not the pp (but I am a black Mom). I hope to educate my son and teach him the value of black women. I hope I am an example to him about all that is beautiful, strong and wonderful about black women. I hope that he understands that a successful black man is a great thing to be and it's even better when you find a black woman who is your equal. |
Anonymous
What difference does that make? |
Anonymous
You are either a troll or stupid as fuck because white trash is a slang term. Trash without the word "white" in front of it does not have any meaning of slang against a race of people. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/reverse%20discrimination |
Anonymous
Makes all the difference answer the question or STFU |
Anonymous
But what if your son falls in love with a white woman? The poster who said that black men who marry/date white women have low self esteem has it wrong. These posts make clear it's the black women who have low self esteem and take it personally when black men (especially their sons) fall in love with women who aren't exactly like them. I didn't marry a man exactly like my father -- that does not mean I don't love and respect my father. Get a grip. |
Anonymous
Actually it does, but you're so clueless about race relations that you still don't get it. Calling someone "white trash" is insulting not only to that person, but also to black people because the default would be that trashy people are black. I suggest you stop using terms you have no clue about. |
Anonymous
See, that's what I don't get. I hope to teach my son to value women. To find beauty and strength and wonder in women. That a successful, honest, hardworking, loving man is a great thing to be, and it's even better when you have a partner with whom to share it. I truly cannot countenance teaching children that one race is better/ preferable/ more desirable, more "equal" than another. |
Anonymous
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lol
I know many white women who dated and married Muslim men from arab countries who "seemed" Western. The men grew up in the west. Liked their "intelligence" and "passion". I'm British and I think that these women (who were a bit dumpy) liked the overt passionate displays that British men don't often give. They all claimed that their husbands were not the backwards conservative type... BULLSHIT Ten years later, their "liberal husbands" have left them for being "western sluts" and kidnapped their children to states where there is no extradition right. Read "Not Without My Daughter". I would not be okay with my daughter marrying someone Muslim. |
Anonymous
I will answer your question, but realize that telling me to "get a grip" does nothing to further the conversation and only serves to piss me off. Why the need to even go there? If my son fails in love with a white woman, it will be as I said. I will be deeply disappointed. I wouldn't express it to him (or her), but I would be. That's reality and it won't change to make you comfortable. It's clear that you are white and, as such, don't really have much "insider" knowledge to know what we are talking about when it comes to the mindset of some black men who marry white women. It's possible that you may not even see it, but I usually can guess whether a black man has a white wife without even knowing beforehand. |
Anonymous
I'm not PP. But I am sure the comment about all Asians not being good at math was not written by an Asian. All Asians believe they are smarter in math than everyone else. Take a look at TJ or MIT and you'll see all the evidence you need that they are right. So the poster who found the comment insulting was just taking a dig at Asians in general. That's the big reveal intended by PP's question/comment. |
Anonymous
Are you black? In my experience, only white people can afford to be "colorblind" and ignore race in the raising of their children. I am not teaching my son that black people are better than anyone...where did you get that from my post? My husband is teaching him pride in himself as a black man and I hope to be a living example in the beauty of black women. |
Anonymous
Um hummm, totally this. I was in love with a Saudi guy in the 1990s. He wanted to marry me (proposed out of the blue). He said his father gave him $2 million for us to get started. He was so sweet, and really good in bed. But I was in my early 20s and not ready and, frankly, terrified of marrying a Saudi. So he went home. Had an arranged marriage. On marriage #3 about 2 years later. He divorced that 1st wife and took the kids, she was screwed, married his cousin, divorced her, on to the next. I'm so glad I did not get mixed up in all that. |