
That is giving him a second chance. No second chance means op breaks up with him the first time. If she sticks around, there will be a next time. If she doesn't want a bad relationship, she needs to find someone else. |
Ew |
You...you keep coming back. You are unrelenting in your pot stirring. I bet you believe you give as good as you get and your violence with men is among equals. Violence in any relationship is unacceptable. Cussing, yelling, insulting are precursors to violence. I think you've taken too many blows to your head. |
Why shouldn't he get a second chance? He said one swear, once, and when confronted, apologized? Who are all the perfect people posting on this thread like they've never done something stupid? Y'all are liars. |
"Cussing, yelling, insulting, are precursors to violence." says the pp who then proceeds to insult an anonymous rando on the internet. DO go on. You're quite the show! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Excellent point. This person is an equal opportunity abuser. Men, women, children, animals prob. Terrifying to know they could be our neighbors or coworkers. |
"Ew" to all the people on this thread who apparently think they should be able to say whatever without consequence, but believe that everyone else should consider their feelings and treat them with respect. Y'all are messy af. |
Disgusting. You sound like a predator. I sincerely hope you don’t have a family, lest they be in danger. |
This judgmental harpy could be your neighbor. You don't even know pp by name, but feel comfortable labeling them an abuser? Because... they disagree? You need to step back and analyze your own nastiness, creepo. Calm your life down, and recognize that people who disagree with you are allowed to exist. Your need to control everyone, label those who disagree, and ostracize anyone who doesn't lockstep with your nonsense makes you the problem. |
It’s so. So. So. Common. Please take this as a wake up call op. The only people defending this are other abusers who speak like this to their partners on a regular basis. Please don’t take that gut feeling for granted, before it’s too late. |
It is not hard to find people who don’t behave this way. |
Just a troll trying to normalize abuse. |
And you sound like the sort of idiot who'd abuse a rando online, but piss yourself if you had to say half that to my face. Do you see that you're the aggressive one in this exchange? Do you know that you're the bully? Y'all project. Hard. Take it to a damned therapist! FFS... |
For values of "this way" equalling "did something someone didn't like. once." That's literally everyone, but go off... |
It’s so obvious to people in healthy relationships. I don’t allow men to treat me this way. I’ve been with my husband for 20 years. He has never spoken to me like this. No one should put up with this. There are many many men who love and appreciate women. Do not spend a single minute more with men who show you that they hate you and do not respect you. |