Are men ugly or am I bi?

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Lisa Ling is 51. No one is mistaking her for a late 30s woman. Constance Wu is 43 and could pass for 35. Ali Wong looks about her age.

Great. Can dcum guess the age of the pictured woman ?

https://imgur.com/a/CoEzipi

I guess about 70. She has bad bunions and disformed toes.

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Our facial structure changes as we age. There is no fitness routine that can prevent jowls, smile lines and the widening of the lower jaw.

Actually all these come from weight gain/loss, hormonal imbalance (not taking HRT on time), lack of skin elasticity and daily skin routines like massage, creams, sun screen etc. I can’t place my photo here but I can post my mother as she doesn’t have any online presence and lives in a different country now. She had none of it up until her late 60s.

No, they don't. They come from a loss of bone density in your face.

https://www.rodeoderm.com/surprising-thing-face-loses-aging-bone/

Ok you are right on that, so am I. Hormones imbalance, lack of exercise, needed vitamins lead to loss of bone everywhere not just in the face jawline.

This is inevitable. Poor lifestyle choices can accelerate the appearance of aging but there is nothing you can do short of surgery to stop your mandible from expanding. Even celebrities with millions of dollars to invest in their looks are betrayed by expanding jawlines and neck wrinkles.

Of course it happens sooner or later but for those who take care of themselves it happens much later hope we agreed on that

Lisa Ling and Constance Wu are rich and their livelihoods depend on their appearance. Even they look their age. People need to get over this delusion that they look 10-15 years younger. These people probably think that because they are comparing themselves to their peer group. A visit to a bar full of young people is a quick reality check.

They still look sexy and well maintained for their age. I can name many actresses though who look way younger for their age. Not sure why you selected Asian

Sexy and well maintained for their age is not the same as looking 12 years younger. Does anyone here really think they can walk into a nightclub being 40+ and convince a bunch of 20 somethings that you guys are the same age?

There's even a big difference between a 25 year old and the average college student. And that's an age gap of only a few years.

As someone who works at a university, I can attest to this.

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Our facial structure changes as we age. There is no fitness routine that can prevent jowls, smile lines and the widening of the lower jaw.

Actually all these come from weight gain/loss, hormonal imbalance (not taking HRT on time), lack of skin elasticity and daily skin routines like massage, creams, sun screen etc. I can’t place my photo here but I can post my mother as she doesn’t have any online presence and lives in a different country now. She had none of it up until her late 60s.

No, they don't. They come from a loss of bone density in your face.

https://www.rodeoderm.com/surprising-thing-face-loses-aging-bone/

Ok you are right on that, so am I. Hormones imbalance, lack of exercise, needed vitamins lead to loss of bone everywhere not just in the face jawline.

This is inevitable. Poor lifestyle choices can accelerate the appearance of aging but there is nothing you can do short of surgery to stop your mandible from expanding. Even celebrities with millions of dollars to invest in their looks are betrayed by expanding jawlines and neck wrinkles.

Of course it happens sooner or later but for those who take care of themselves it happens much later hope we agreed on that

Lisa Ling and Constance Wu are rich and their livelihoods depend on their appearance. Even they look their age. People need to get over this delusion that they look 10-15 years younger. These people probably think that because they are comparing themselves to their peer group. A visit to a bar full of young people is a quick reality check.

They still look sexy and well maintained for their age. I can name many actresses though who look way younger for their age. Not sure why you selected Asian

Sexy and well maintained for their age is not the same as looking 12 years younger. Does anyone here really think they can walk into a nightclub being 40+ and convince a bunch of 20 somethings that you guys are the same age?

There's even a big difference between a 25 year old and the average college student. And that's an age gap of only a few years.

Where did I say I was only attracted to younger or thought I was looking 20 years younger than my age? Why are we even discussing age ?

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I think most old people are ugly, which is normal. I mean look at the young: the vitality, the energy. You don't have to be "pretty" to be beautiful when young. The worst old people are the ones who think they look 15 years younger or are super youthful.

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

No.

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lol trust me ladies all you look exactly your age without the going-out makeup on

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Our facial structure changes as we age. There is no fitness routine that can prevent jowls, smile lines and the widening of the lower jaw.

Hair also changes in older age. At 30, you might have 90% of the hair density and thickness you had in college. At 40, that's virtually unheard of. Male celebs with great hair like Adrien Grenier and Roger Federer don't have anything close to the luscious locks they had in their 20s.

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Lisa Ling is 51. No one is mistaking her for a late 30s woman. Constance Wu is 43 and could pass for 35. Ali Wong looks about her age.

There are definitely celebrities who look 10+ younger than their age and can be better examples. For example, Martina’s wife, Yulia.

To me she looked like early 30s in her mid 40s and before all the surgery:

https://www.thecut.com/2014/11/beauty-secrets-from-a-russian-skin-care-expert.html

JLo looks in her mid 50s like an early 40s or even late 30s American woman (of course, there is good cosmetic surgery involved)

https://brightside.me/articles/dermatologist-reveals-4-real-reasons-why-jennifer-lopez-53-doesnt-age-and-its-more-than-plastic-surgery-or-products-811333/

Vanessa Trump can pass for a late 30s when she’s not overusing Botox. She’s a stunningly well maintained woman (after 5 kids!)

https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/celebrity/who-is-vanessa-trump-tiger-woods-b1216774.html

I meet many women like that who use sports, cosmetic surgery and skills to look great for their age. Men? Not really.

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Lisa Ling is 51. No one is mistaking her for a late 30s woman. Constance Wu is 43 and could pass for 35. Ali Wong looks about her age.

There are definitely celebrities who look 10+ younger than their age and can be better examples. For example, Martina’s wife, Yulia.

To me she looked like early 30s in her mid 40s and before all the surgery:

https://www.thecut.com/2014/11/beauty-secrets-from-a-russian-skin-care-expert.html

JLo looks in her mid 50s like an early 40s or even late 30s American woman (of course, there is good cosmetic surgery involved)

https://brightside.me/articles/dermatologist-reveals-4-real-reasons-why-jennifer-lopez-53-doesnt-age-and-its-more-than-plastic-surgery-or-products-811333/

Vanessa Trump can pass for a late 30s when she’s not overusing Botox. She’s a stunningly well maintained woman (after 5 kids!)

https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/celebrity/who-is-vanessa-trump-tiger-woods-b1216774.html

I meet many women like that who use sports, cosmetic surgery and skills to look great for their age. Men? Not really.

Those women don't look 10 years younger even with surgery, filters and photoshop. The best you could say is that they look good for their age.

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Our facial structure changes as we age. There is no fitness routine that can prevent jowls, smile lines and the widening of the lower jaw.

Actually all these come from weight gain/loss, hormonal imbalance (not taking HRT on time), lack of skin elasticity and daily skin routines like massage, creams, sun screen etc. I can’t place my photo here but I can post my mother as she doesn’t have any online presence and lives in a different country now. She had none of it up until her late 60s.

No, they don't. They come from a loss of bone density in your face.

https://www.rodeoderm.com/surprising-thing-face-loses-aging-bone/

Ok you are right on that, so am I. Hormones imbalance, lack of exercise, needed vitamins lead to loss of bone everywhere not just in the face jawline.

This is inevitable. Poor lifestyle choices can accelerate the appearance of aging but there is nothing you can do short of surgery to stop your mandible from expanding. Even celebrities with millions of dollars to invest in their looks are betrayed by expanding jawlines and neck wrinkles.

Of course it happens sooner or later but for those who take care of themselves it happens much later hope we agreed on that

Lisa Ling and Constance Wu are rich and their livelihoods depend on their appearance. Even they look their age. People need to get over this delusion that they look 10-15 years younger. These people probably think that because they are comparing themselves to their peer group. A visit to a bar full of young people is a quick reality check.

They still look sexy and well maintained for their age. I can name many actresses though who look way younger for their age. Not sure why you selected Asian

Sexy and well maintained for their age is not the same as looking 12 years younger. Does anyone here really think they can walk into a nightclub being 40+ and convince a bunch of 20 somethings that you guys are the same age?

There's even a big difference between a 25 year old and the average college student. And that's an age gap of only a few years.

Where did I say I was only attracted to younger or thought I was looking 20 years younger than my age? Why are we even discussing age ?

Sometimes posts take on a life of their own. Everyone, except you apparently, thinks attraction has a physical component and age affects physicality.

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Lisa Ling is 51. No one is mistaking her for a late 30s woman. Constance Wu is 43 and could pass for 35. Ali Wong looks about her age.

There are definitely celebrities who look 10+ younger than their age and can be better examples. For example, Martina’s wife, Yulia.

To me she looked like early 30s in her mid 40s and before all the surgery:

https://www.thecut.com/2014/11/beauty-secrets-from-a-russian-skin-care-expert.html

JLo looks in her mid 50s like an early 40s or even late 30s American woman (of course, there is good cosmetic surgery involved)

https://brightside.me/articles/dermatologist-reveals-4-real-reasons-why-jennifer-lopez-53-doesnt-age-and-its-more-than-plastic-surgery-or-products-811333/

Vanessa Trump can pass for a late 30s when she’s not overusing Botox. She’s a stunningly well maintained woman (after 5 kids!)

https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/celebrity/who-is-vanessa-trump-tiger-woods-b1216774.html

I meet many women like that who use sports, cosmetic surgery and skills to look great for their age. Men? Not really.

Those women don't look 10 years younger even with surgery, filters and photoshop. The best you could say is that they look good for their age.

I know dcum like to trash any linked photos, examples or uploads. But you can google “average US mid 50s woman” and will see many examples how AVERAGE aging women look like. Very, very different from the listed examples. For example, see this article (I repost as women already agreed to be featured publicly elsewhere):

https://www.mamamia.com.au/life-over-fifty/

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Lisa Ling is 51. No one is mistaking her for a late 30s woman. Constance Wu is 43 and could pass for 35. Ali Wong looks about her age.

There are definitely celebrities who look 10+ younger than their age and can be better examples. For example, Martina’s wife, Yulia.

To me she looked like early 30s in her mid 40s and before all the surgery:

https://www.thecut.com/2014/11/beauty-secrets-from-a-russian-skin-care-expert.html

JLo looks in her mid 50s like an early 40s or even late 30s American woman (of course, there is good cosmetic surgery involved)

https://brightside.me/articles/dermatologist-reveals-4-real-reasons-why-jennifer-lopez-53-doesnt-age-and-its-more-than-plastic-surgery-or-products-811333/

Vanessa Trump can pass for a late 30s when she’s not overusing Botox. She’s a stunningly well maintained woman (after 5 kids!)

https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/celebrity/who-is-vanessa-trump-tiger-woods-b1216774.html

I meet many women like that who use sports, cosmetic surgery and skills to look great for their age. Men? Not really.

Those women don't look 10 years younger even with surgery, filters and photoshop. The best you could say is that they look good for their age.

I disagree: they look very young for their age. I would have mistaken the age by at least 7-10 years based on the photos.
At the same time, there are other celebrities who look very old in their 30s.

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Lisa Ling is 51. No one is mistaking her for a late 30s woman. Constance Wu is 43 and could pass for 35. Ali Wong looks about her age.

There are definitely celebrities who look 10+ younger than their age and can be better examples. For example, Martina’s wife, Yulia.

To me she looked like early 30s in her mid 40s and before all the surgery:

https://www.thecut.com/2014/11/beauty-secrets-from-a-russian-skin-care-expert.html

JLo looks in her mid 50s like an early 40s or even late 30s American woman (of course, there is good cosmetic surgery involved)

https://brightside.me/articles/dermatologist-reveals-4-real-reasons-why-jennifer-lopez-53-doesnt-age-and-its-more-than-plastic-surgery-or-products-811333/

Vanessa Trump can pass for a late 30s when she’s not overusing Botox. She’s a stunningly well maintained woman (after 5 kids!)

https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/celebrity/who-is-vanessa-trump-tiger-woods-b1216774.html

I meet many women like that who use sports, cosmetic surgery and skills to look great for their age. Men? Not really.

Those women don't look 10 years younger even with surgery, filters and photoshop. The best you could say is that they look good for their age.

I know dcum like to trash any linked photos, examples or uploads. But you can google “average US mid 50s woman” and will see many examples how AVERAGE aging women look like. Very, very different from the listed examples. For example, see this article (I repost as women already agreed to be featured publicly elsewhere):

https://www.mamamia.com.au/life-over-fifty/

That's more realistic. These women look no better or worse than their male counterparts.

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Lisa Ling is 51. No one is mistaking her for a late 30s woman. Constance Wu is 43 and could pass for 35. Ali Wong looks about her age.

There are definitely celebrities who look 10+ younger than their age and can be better examples. For example, Martina’s wife, Yulia.

To me she looked like early 30s in her mid 40s and before all the surgery:

https://www.thecut.com/2014/11/beauty-secrets-from-a-russian-skin-care-expert.html

JLo looks in her mid 50s like an early 40s or even late 30s American woman (of course, there is good cosmetic surgery involved)

https://brightside.me/articles/dermatologist-reveals-4-real-reasons-why-jennifer-lopez-53-doesnt-age-and-its-more-than-plastic-surgery-or-products-811333/

Vanessa Trump can pass for a late 30s when she’s not overusing Botox. She’s a stunningly well maintained woman (after 5 kids!)

https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/celebrity/who-is-vanessa-trump-tiger-woods-b1216774.html

I meet many women like that who use sports, cosmetic surgery and skills to look great for their age. Men? Not really.

Those women don't look 10 years younger even with surgery, filters and photoshop. The best you could say is that they look good for their age.

I disagree: they look very young for their age. I would have mistaken the age by at least 7-10 years based on the photos.
At the same time, there are other celebrities who look very old in their 30s.

J-Lo definitely looks 50. You need to Google her unfiltered photos.

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Anonymous wrote:Older men don't seem motivated to take care of themselves and seem to think this is attractive somehow.

Where are all of these well-maintained older women? The way some of you sound it's like most cities are crawling full of Gabrielle Unions and Salma Hayeks.

Or maybe find a stock internet photo of what you're seeing out there. Cuz I'm not seeing it.

A well maintained older woman in her 40-early 50s would look like a late 30s woman. You won’t realize the true age.

Lisa Ling is 51. No one is mistaking her for a late 30s woman. Constance Wu is 43 and could pass for 35. Ali Wong looks about her age.

There are definitely celebrities who look 10+ younger than their age and can be better examples. For example, Martina’s wife, Yulia.

To me she looked like early 30s in her mid 40s and before all the surgery:

https://www.thecut.com/2014/11/beauty-secrets-from-a-russian-skin-care-expert.html

JLo looks in her mid 50s like an early 40s or even late 30s American woman (of course, there is good cosmetic surgery involved)

https://brightside.me/articles/dermatologist-reveals-4-real-reasons-why-jennifer-lopez-53-doesnt-age-and-its-more-than-plastic-surgery-or-products-811333/

Vanessa Trump can pass for a late 30s when she’s not overusing Botox. She’s a stunningly well maintained woman (after 5 kids!)

https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/celebrity/who-is-vanessa-trump-tiger-woods-b1216774.html

I meet many women like that who use sports, cosmetic surgery and skills to look great for their age. Men? Not really.

Those women don't look 10 years younger even with surgery, filters and photoshop. The best you could say is that they look good for their age.

People still have Golden Girls in their mind. I swear no one has a consistent modern idea of what 30, 40, or 50 looks like.