Are men ugly or am I bi?

[Anonymous]

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At the same time I found myself often checking out good looking, proportional women at my gym’s changing room. Much higher number of women appear attractive to me. I look at them and want to touch their hair or privates, kiss them. I didn’t have these desires before.

This is odd wording.

I don’t want to be too explicit here

No- wanting to touch a strangers hair is disturbing. Please get help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was with you until you said that you look at women in changing rooms and look you want to touch their hair or privates, and kiss them.

You are just a creepy perverted woman. You shouldn’t be allowed into women changing rooms anymore.

You need help.

I’m not making any moves or even talking to them. Lesbian women surely have thoughts when they see attractive naked women . Doesn’t mean they jump anyone or touch others in changing room. I’m just sharing my thoughts on anonymous forum

[Anonymous]

Yes most men are disgusting. Especially once they’re 35+.

[Anonymous]

You’re bi

[Anonymous]

mid 40's? your in peri which is reverse puberty so sometimes this mean you will start feeling they have cooties again or are otherwise gross and non-doable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:mid 40's? your in peri which is reverse puberty so sometimes this mean you will start feeling they have cooties again or are otherwise gross and non-doable.

How come I don’t feel same way about women ? My L is very high btw

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The wanting to touch and kiss them has me at yep you are into women. But you are comparing pumpkins to apples here by your physical descriptions.

Ignore PP, you are allowed to not be attracted to gross dudes.

I didn't say she needed to be attracted to gross dudes anymore than a fit dude needs to be atracted to a gross women. I said that being interested in women doesn't you need to think all men are ugly. Do you think all gay men think all women are hideous and ugly? You can be attracted to who you want, without putting down an entire sex.

OP here: I find unattractive most fit men as well. My exH was very fit, he did martial arts. It’s the facial expressions, egocentrism, the way he communicated, smelled (sone aggressive chemical smell after workouts) in combination of that made me not want him.
I’m turned off by sweaty fit men in the gym. Sweaty women in sauna make want to touch them….

What does it matter to you ?
You can be attracted to whoever, but they have to be attracted to you too.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I was with you until you said that you look at women in changing rooms and look you want to touch their hair or privates, and kiss them.

You are just a creepy perverted woman. You shouldn’t be allowed into women changing rooms anymore.

You need help.

I’m not making any moves or even talking to them. Lesbian women surely have thoughts when they see attractive naked women . Doesn’t mean they jump anyone or touch others in changing room. I’m just sharing my thoughts on anonymous forum

Would you be comfortable in a changing room with a man who look at women in changing rooms, want to touch their hair, privates, and kiss them?
He is just standing there, looking at them, not making any moves, not talking to them.
Would you be comfortable? I don’t know any woman who would be.

You are no different than this man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The wanting to touch and kiss them has me at yep you are into women. But you are comparing pumpkins to apples here by your physical descriptions.

Ignore PP, you are allowed to not be attracted to gross dudes.

I didn't say she needed to be attracted to gross dudes anymore than a fit dude needs to be atracted to a gross women. I said that being interested in women doesn't you need to think all men are ugly. Do you think all gay men think all women are hideous and ugly? You can be attracted to who you want, without putting down an entire sex.

OP here: I find unattractive most fit men as well. My exH was very fit, he did martial arts. It’s the facial expressions, egocentrism, the way he communicated, smelled (sone aggressive chemical smell after workouts) in combination of that made me not want him.
I’m turned off by sweaty fit men in the gym. Sweaty women in sauna make want to touch them….

What does it matter to you ?
You can be attracted to whoever, but they have to be attracted to you too.

You are making banal obvious statements. I do go on dates with men who would be perceived attractive by most women. They all dated much younger women. I don’t find myself attracted to them at all. I currently see a sports magazine looking man, we have sex. But the number of men I would find myself wanting sex with is may 1–3 per year. Whereby with the women, I find many of them sexually attractive and would want yo sleep with them

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was with you until you said that you look at women in changing rooms and look you want to touch their hair or privates, and kiss them.

You are just a creepy perverted woman. You shouldn’t be allowed into women changing rooms anymore.

You need help.

I’m not making any moves or even talking to them. Lesbian women surely have thoughts when they see attractive naked women . Doesn’t mean they jump anyone or touch others in changing room. I’m just sharing my thoughts on anonymous forum

Would you be comfortable in a changing room with a man who look at women in changing rooms, want to touch their hair, privates, and kiss them?
He is just standing there, looking at them, not making any moves, not talking to them.
Would you be comfortable? I don’t know any woman who would be.

You are no different than this man.

So you are proponent of separate gay changing rooms ? You can suggest it to our leadership they might be receptive and direct some of mental heath funding to it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was with you until you said that you look at women in changing rooms and look you want to touch their hair or privates, and kiss them.

You are just a creepy perverted woman. You shouldn’t be allowed into women changing rooms anymore.

You need help.

I’m not making any moves or even talking to them. Lesbian women surely have thoughts when they see attractive naked women . Doesn’t mean they jump anyone or touch others in changing room. I’m just sharing my thoughts on anonymous forum

Would you be comfortable in a changing room with a man who look at women in changing rooms, want to touch their hair, privates, and kiss them?
He is just standing there, looking at them, not making any moves, not talking to them.
Would you be comfortable? I don’t know any woman who would be.

You are no different than this man.

So you are proponent of separate gay changing rooms ? You can suggest it to our leadership they might be receptive and direct some of mental heath funding to it

Nice try! Op is being inappropriate. And also offensive by assuming lesbians go to change rooms to get their jollies. Op I don't know if you are bi or whatever sort that out on your own time and not in the gym.

[Anonymous]

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You’re bi

Nope. OP is switching teams.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was with you until you said that you look at women in changing rooms and look you want to touch their hair or privates, and kiss them.

You are just a creepy perverted woman. You shouldn’t be allowed into women changing rooms anymore.

You need help.

I’m not making any moves or even talking to them. Lesbian women surely have thoughts when they see attractive naked women . Doesn’t mean they jump anyone or touch others in changing room. I’m just sharing my thoughts on anonymous forum

Would you be comfortable in a changing room with a man who look at women in changing rooms, want to touch their hair, privates, and kiss them?
He is just standing there, looking at them, not making any moves, not talking to them.
Would you be comfortable? I don’t know any woman who would be.

You are no different than this man.

So you are proponent of separate gay changing rooms ? You can suggest it to our leadership they might be receptive and direct some of mental heath funding to it

Nice try! Op is being inappropriate. And also offensive by assuming lesbians go to change rooms to get their jollies. Op I don't know if you are bi or whatever sort that out on your own time and not in the gym.

Inappropriate in what sense - having sexual thoughts, when nobody around is involved or even suspect that ? I don’t stare or pursue anyone but obviously you end up around naked people in the changing rooms.

[Anonymous]

I'm guessing you are just in much better shape and take care of yourself more than guys your age or older.

What about younger guys?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm guessing you are just in much better shape and take care of yourself more than guys your age or older.

What about younger guys?

The ages of 3 men I dated in the last 4 years were 44, 51, 58. They were all good looking/nice bodies/ took a good care of their routines and were active . My attraction is not determined by age - to both women or men