Are men ugly or am I bi?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman and not attracted to women at all (I can find them attractive but aren’t attracted to them). It’s rare that I find a man attractive enough to find him sexually desirable, but it does happen every now and then. So my guess is you’re probably bi. Sexuality is a spectrum.

But how come I didn’t feel that way about women before divorce ? Is it because my sex choices were limited in my 20s? Never thought much of better understanding myself sexually ? I haven’t really dated. Married my second partner. To my horror, I find how P. tastes better than the c…k. I mean, my own but I badly want to try another woman’s…

If you are at the point where you are extremely aroused by the thought of “going down” on another woman, that’s a pretty decent tell. No harm in trying.

[Anonymous]

I think you’re probably bi or gay.

As a typical middle aged woman, I find myself really drawn to and attracted to lesbians. It’s because a) they’re hot and b) I’m tired of man babies and misogyny. But my body is not with me, on a fundamental level. I can tell. It’s a nice fantasy and I am sure I could have a good time having sex with women, but it’s not the same as my (or what was my) drive to have sex with men.

[Anonymous]

I believe women fond most men unattractive anyways
. But it doesn't mean they won't date or marry them. I am not saying women don't care about attractiveness they just don't to the same degree men do. For example straight men don't wear make up, many don't spend time finding clothes that fit them properly or enhance their looks etc. women on the other hand do. So naturally their standard of sanity and attractiveness is high and most men don't meet those standards

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think you’re probably bi or gay.

As a typical middle aged woman, I find myself really drawn to and attracted to lesbians. It’s because a) they’re hot and b) I’m tired of man babies and misogyny. But my body is not with me, on a fundamental level. I can tell. It’s a nice fantasy and I am sure I could have a good time having sex with women, but it’s not the same as my (or what was my) drive to have sex with men.

I’m certainly aroused watching gay porn with two women, or threesomes . The question is where do I find an attractive woman to try? Do people go to gay clubs for that ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman and not attracted to women at all (I can find them attractive but aren’t attracted to them). It’s rare that I find a man attractive enough to find him sexually desirable, but it does happen every now and then. So my guess is you’re probably bi. Sexuality is a spectrum.

But how come I didn’t feel that way about women before divorce ? Is it because my sex choices were limited in my 20s? Never thought much of better understanding myself sexually ? I haven’t really dated. Married my second partner. To my horror, I find how P. tastes better than the c…k. I mean, my own but I badly want to try another woman’s…

How long is your neck?

[Anonymous]

I dont think the DC ugly dating scene makes you bi or gay. It's real, people are less attractive here than elsewhere.

[Anonymous]

Also, maybe other women are attracting the better looking guys somehow or the places you are looking arent good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman and not attracted to women at all (I can find them attractive but aren’t attracted to them). It’s rare that I find a man attractive enough to find him sexually desirable, but it does happen every now and then. So my guess is you’re probably bi. Sexuality is a spectrum.

But how come I didn’t feel that way about women before divorce ? Is it because my sex choices were limited in my 20s? Never thought much of better understanding myself sexually ? I haven’t really dated. Married my second partner. To my horror, I find how P. tastes better than the c…k. I mean, my own but I badly want to try another woman’s…

How long is your neck?

I used my finger to try (out of curiosity) as I had these invasive thoughts of other women’s . Turned out it tastes berry, pretty good actually better than the c..k

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman in mid 40s. Slim, pretty face, get plenty of dates with professional men and almost everyone wants to see me again. However, I’m having trouble even to decide whom I like or attracted enough at least to sleep with. Men tell me at dates they were dating 20-30 yo women before, but they look ugly and totally un..able to me. Big bellies, sweaty etc. When I look at profiles of men on dating apps 90% look repulsive and ugly to me. I do go out and sleep now with a man who is 58 and is very fit (“ripped” biker).

At the same time I found myself often checking out good looking, proportional women at my gym’s changing room. Much higher number of women appear attractive to me. I look at them and want to touch their hair or privates, kiss them. I didn’t have these desires before.

What’s going on? Am I bisexual? Gay? I was married for 19 years, never slept with a woman. Closer to the end of my marriage I didn’t want to sleep with exH. His smell was repelling, even the leather seats in his car after his jogging workouts.

I wonder if other women in their 40s also find most middle age men sexually repulsive. What’s going on with me ? Can middle age hormonal changes make a woman gay or bisexual ?

Yeah, you’re a dyke

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

At the same time I found myself often checking out good looking, proportional women at my gym’s changing room. Much higher number of women appear attractive to me. I look at them and want to touch their hair or privates, kiss them. I didn’t have these desires before.

This is odd wording.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Also, maybe other women are attracting the better looking guys somehow or the places you are looking arent good.

I thought of it - but in any common public place I don’t see men I would want to sleep with. Like, Whole Foods etc.

[Anonymous]

I was with you until you said that you look at women in changing rooms and look you want to touch their hair or privates, and kiss them.

You are just a creepy perverted woman. You shouldn’t be allowed into women changing rooms anymore.

You need help.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know if you are straight or bi or what. I do know you sound incredibly vain and that in and of itself is unattractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

At the same time I found myself often checking out good looking, proportional women at my gym’s changing room. Much higher number of women appear attractive to me. I look at them and want to touch their hair or privates, kiss them. I didn’t have these desires before.

This is odd wording.

I don’t want to be too explicit here

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was with you until you said that you look at women in changing rooms and look you want to touch their hair or privates, and kiss them.

You are just a creepy perverted woman. You shouldn’t be allowed into women changing rooms anymore.

You need help.

+1

That is beyond being attracted to someone.