Jewish boyfriend says I hate him

[Anonymous]

I think OPs post was a ruse to find an excuse to talk about the mean, uppity Jews and make us aware that they are this way...you all believed the scenario was real?
-Non Jew not falling for the okey doke

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a Jewish man. I'm a little surprised that none of the responses mentioned the impact of October 7 and Israel's response to it on romantic relationships. For some people, October 7 was just another unpleasant headline, but for some people October 7 was a defining moment.

October 7 has put major stress on some relationships. Since then, I've noticed that many people seem to react differently to me and pretty much all Jews. I sometimes feel like Jews have become the most hated ethnic group in America. I've been experiencing or observing mild antisemitism on at least a weekly and sometimes daily basis, even though I hate Netanyahu and support a two state solution. (By the way, the worst offenders are usually white progressive women, not Muslim women, who tend to be very good at having nuanced conversations about the Middle East.) I personally have felt closer to my Jewish identify since October 7 and I would not be surprised if something similar happened to OP's boyfriend. That said, I still like non-Jewish women, and I don't fault OP.

You should probably stick to your own kind. You can't have it both ways .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tale old as time. Devout parents are upset their child isn’t paired up with someone of the same [insert faith/culture]. They have used your time abroad to wheedle their son to viewing you as less than because you are not part of their esteemed group. And current events have given his dad the catalyst to get your boyfriend riled up and defensive. The stereotyping based upon your last name is the cherry on top.

Sorry, but your boyfriend is still acting like an child under his parents’ control. And in reality many 25 year old guys aren’t ready to settle down yet, so this gives him the perfect “out” where he gets to write the narrative of himself as the victim. Chef’s kiss for doing it over email when you’re halfway around the world. He really is a little chickenshit.

Enjoy your time in Japan free of this deadweight. I would not spend too much time grieving the end of a relationship with someone who could casually accuse me of anti semtism via email after years of dating. Thank goodness he showed this side of himself now.

Yes, my friend's daughter dated a guy for 5 years, getting to the point of talking about getting married in a castle in Scotland. Then he broke up with her saying his parents were not happy that she was not born a christian. His Dad is a paster, whole family were church goers, but that is pretty common. It was vile and cowardly of him to wait for 5 years to dump her using his parents as excuse. My friend was so mad for her daughter that she was going to buy a full page ad in their small town newspaper to call them out LOL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think OPs post was a ruse to find an excuse to talk about the mean, uppity Jews and make us aware that they are this way...you all believed the scenario was real?
-Non Jew not falling for the okey doke

+1
This screams troll.