"Don't Text Me So Early!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thats what my SIL responded with when I sent a note inquiring about her availability for my DS's HS graduation party. I sent it at 6:51 AM today.

My feeling is if you don't want alerts going off, then you silence your phone or set up Do Not Disturb. It's not like I was banging on her door. She has always been snotty so this is par for the course but I also sent it to others

Just gut checking myself here- there aren't time limits for texting, right?

Isn't it up to the receipient to control their own quiet time?

That text could have waited

Yes a graduation RSVP is not an emergency that requires a pre 9 am text..
I was taught never to call before 9 am or after 10 pm unless it's an emergency or urgent situation. I think the same can apply to texts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're in the wrong. Period.

+1. Op is wrong. Nothing more, nothing less.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She sounds like a jerk but also do not text before 8:00 am.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:PPs saying learn to silence your phones are clueless about real life with teens and elderly parents. Calls and texts can come from any number in an emergency. Enjoy your years of having the luxury to silence your phones or choose phone numbers that can break through. That is not real life with teens and elderly parents. Or maybe you don’t care if you are reachable in an emergency. I which case, be my guest and silence your phones.

In this case, SIL could silence notifications from OP. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:PPs saying learn to silence your phones are clueless about real life with teens and elderly parents. Calls and texts can come from any number in an emergency. Enjoy your years of having the luxury to silence your phones or choose phone numbers that can break through. That is not real life with teens and elderly parents. Or maybe you don’t care if you are reachable in an emergency. I which case, be my guest and silence your phones.

In this case, SIL could silence notifications from OP. Problem solved.

Op should not send text at inappropriate times unless emergency. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:PPs saying learn to silence your phones are clueless about real life with teens and elderly parents. Calls and texts can come from any number in an emergency. Enjoy your years of having the luxury to silence your phones or choose phone numbers that can break through. That is not real life with teens and elderly parents. Or maybe you don’t care if you are reachable in an emergency. I which case, be my guest and silence your phones.

In this case, SIL could silence notifications from OP. Problem solved.

She can moving forward. She probably thought it was a good idea to be able to receive texts from her in case her sibling had an emergency and didn't realize that op was is an inconsiderate ogre

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're in the wrong. Period.

+1. Op is wrong. Nothing more, nothing less.

Strongly disagree. There are no limits on texts, only calls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:PPs saying learn to silence your phones are clueless about real life with teens and elderly parents. Calls and texts can come from any number in an emergency. Enjoy your years of having the luxury to silence your phones or choose phone numbers that can break through. That is not real life with teens and elderly parents. Or maybe you don’t care if you are reachable in an emergency. I which case, be my guest and silence your phones.

In this case, SIL could silence notifications from OP. Problem solved.

She can moving forward. She probably thought it was a good idea to be able to receive texts from her in case her sibling had an emergency and didn't realize that op was is an inconsiderate ogre

Who is texting someone in a true emergency??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're in the wrong. Period.

+1. Op is wrong. Nothing more, nothing less.

Strongly disagree. There are no limits on texts, only calls.

You’re wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I work 7p-7a. I realize I'm the odd one out so keep my texts 8a-9p. She could have handled this better, but you really shouldn't text so early, especially for family members who probably have your numbers on the list of contacts to go around the DND

Who keeps their SIL as a break through emergency contact?

I do. Because she helps care for my elderly in laws and my DH and I both want to know right away if there’s an emergency w his parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're in the wrong. Period.

+1. Op is wrong. Nothing more, nothing less.

Strongly disagree. There are no limits on texts, only calls.

You can disagree all you want to you are wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're in the wrong. Period.

+1. Op is wrong. Nothing more, nothing less.

Strongly disagree. There are no limits on texts, only calls.

No one wants unlimited texts at all hours of the day and night including yourself.
You’re a hypocrite and rude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're in the wrong. Period.

+1. Op is wrong. Nothing more, nothing less.

Strongly disagree. There are no limits on texts, only calls.

You can disagree all you want to you are wrong.

You can disagree all you want, you are wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:PPs saying learn to silence your phones are clueless about real life with teens and elderly parents. Calls and texts can come from any number in an emergency. Enjoy your years of having the luxury to silence your phones or choose phone numbers that can break through. That is not real life with teens and elderly parents. Or maybe you don’t care if you are reachable in an emergency. I which case, be my guest and silence your phones.

In this case, SIL could silence notifications from OP. Problem solved.

She can moving forward. She probably thought it was a good idea to be able to receive texts from her in case her sibling had an emergency and didn't realize that op was is an inconsiderate ogre

Who is texting someone in a true emergency??

Everyone.

You're wrong.
Op was wrong.
Stop you're trolling and what ifs and deflecting.
Learn from this and do better

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. She doesn't like you.
2. It's too early.

+1
This is a b_ _tch eating crackers situation. I don't mind getting a good morning text from someone I like, someone I don't like, it feels like an imposition when they insist I think about them first thing in the morning, doesn't start off the day well.