
Ok I hate my husband. He looks at porn and lies about it knowing my feelings are hurt. We only have sex when I start it and I can never get off in the 2 min it takes him. He has turned me completly against men and I wish I would have stayed with my old girlfriend. I want to be held, talked to, and just LOVED by an adult and I cant ind it. Im starting to cry and this just makes me so depressed every day is a blur. |
My husband likes....ummm... "okra," but I'm not into him eating it. We might be the only straight couple alive where he's into going down and she's like... zzzzzzzz, get over here where I can see you.
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I'm so sorry. Get a vibrator quick! It won't hold you, but it will go as long as you want it to. If I were you, I'd pop in the porn and the vibrator right in front of him. |
Maybe he's not doing it right. |
He is. I've never liked it from anyone. And with my husband, EVERYTHING else works great, as in multiple, screaming, my neighbors revere him as a god because of the sounds I'm making through thin walls, holy shit what was I missing for the first 30 years of my life great. Great. I just don't like getting my Okra steamed. Never have. |
The porn is on the internet under his log in which he only knows. Saw it the other day when he left the computer open and I checked the history. He denied it and said I was making things up. I have a toy and it gets old. I want to talk to someone, have fun, feel loved and so much more that I am lacking here. He has done everything to break me by be littleing me, ignoring me, hitting occasionaly, and even lied and tried to have me thrown in jail. I would run back to my old GF in a hurry but its been years and she has moved on. The question I have is I WANT to find someone, for lunch, talk to build a friendship maybe more preferably a woman but dont know where to find her. I dont feel comfortable putting an ad on craigslist either. |
Any of you folks ever think about getting a dog? |
clearly i have married one ![]() |
I constantly stare or look at my ex-bf's FB profile and not sure why? Sick I know!
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I'm very sorry to hear that. |
ppp-the lady who is still into ladies, I think your DH knows you are still into women so maybe that is the reason???
hummmmmmm it doesn't sound fair to him either. Why the hack you staying with him, please leave! You are obviously still in love with your x-girlfriend! Also, you can put ads maybe in the lesbian sites. Not thing wrong with what you are feeling, you are w/ the wrong person and sex. |
I am welcome to leave anytime, but it has been made clear I can not take my children. My husband does not even know I have been with women or my X. |
Have you spoken with an attorney? Your husband doesn't get to decide whether your children go with you. The law decides. You said that he has hit you. This is relevant to his fitness as a parent. There is a presumption of joint custody, so the maximum time that you would lose with them would be 1/2, but in point of fact, your circumstances (not your sexual orientation, but the marriage and his behavior) would most likely mean far more time with you. Both Maryland and DC have sexual orientation non-discrimination laws. Virginia does not. Where are you? Check with a lawyer. |
Oh geez. I feel kinda bad posting this after the last few postings (pp, I am very, deeply sorry for your pain and I pray your situation improves dramatically). I confess that I want to get peed on. I haven't thought about it in a really, really long time but the adult baby thread made me think about it again. I asked DH to do it to me in the shower when we first got married but he shot me down and I haven't thought of it since then (like 9 years.) Maybe he'd be interested now? |
Go to the beach and tell someone you were stung by a jellyfish. |