Confessions

[Anonymous]

I Married the wrong man

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I Married the wrong man

Oh honey, that's 75% of adult women who are married. Didn't you know that? Hugs.

[Anonymous]

I used to have phone sex for money - out of my home, on my own, via craigslist.

[Anonymous]

Before I met my husband twelve years ago, I think I had sex with around 25-30 people, some of whose names I can't even remember. (Thank GOD I didn't get some sort of disease.) I did this because I had very low self esteem. I have no clue why.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I also masturbate more than a healthy normal person should.
I have a shopping addiction
I tell my partner I make 15k less per year so he doesnt notice my shopping addiction
I'm cheating
I wish my aunt died instead of my mother
I am ashamed of my sisters lack of class
I use a product absolutely love it and still return it to Sephora and get my money back

And your SISTER has no class?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I Married the wrong man

Oh honey, that's 75% of adult women who are married. Didn't you know that? Hugs.

Good to know I am not the only one.

[Anonymous]

I probably need anger management classes - I scream and yell and sometimes get a little too rough with my child when angry.

I am not attracted to my husband anymore. It doesn't help that he isn't doing much about it - it is all well and good to go to the gym, but drinking beer and eating nothing but crap negates ALL of that.

I hide purchases from my husband. I currently have a bag in my trunk and just hid a raincoat for our daughter way back in the closet where he likely won't find it.

[Anonymous]

I think most DCUMs are self-important bitches and long-winded pricks, but I still come here to read posts every single day. And enjoy it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think most DCUMs are self-important bitches and long-winded pricks, but I still come here to read posts every single day. And enjoy it.

Ditto, we all do! And my confession is that I always use "private browsing" because I'm embarrassed and I think my husband would think I'm doing this all day and not watching our baby. Because he has no idea how it is to stay home.

My other confession is that maybe I"m one of the bitches! Many of us friendly reasonable ladies are because the forum is .....anonymous. And being a bitch is often fun and stress relieving....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I Married the wrong man

Oh honey, that's 75% of adult women who are married. Didn't you know that? Hugs.

Good to know I am not the only one.

Oh, good God no. I married him because I was sick of dating and he was ready. I stayed with him because I wanted kids. That's it. If I could afford to go it alone, I'm sure I would.

[Anonymous]

I have a few.

I worry that my child's first word will be motherf*cker or douchebag because i say those words in traffic more often than I'd like.

Sometimes when I'm too tired to make up my bed again after stripping it for laundry day, I sleep in a sleeping bag on top of the mattress pad. I did this for two days earlier this week. It made me appreciate my sheets so much more.

I totally overspent for a MacLaren umbrella stroller because my friend bought one and I thought it was cool and trendy and I was tired of being thrifty and sensible and borrowing all my other gear or buying stuff cheap on Craigslist. I love it, so it's probably worth it.

I'm considering a boob job because my already small boobs got smaller after pregnancy and now I really hate them. But I also really hate the idea of my daughter someday asking why I have big boobs and she doesn't.

I secretly think my baby is cuter than my sister's baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Before I met my husband twelve years ago, I think I had sex with around 25-30 people, some of whose names I can't even remember. (Thank GOD I didn't get some sort of disease.) I did this because I had very low self esteem. I have no clue why.

You did it because of alcohol, probably. A lot of women I know - myself included - had sex with more people than we ever intended to. It nearly always seemed like a good idea at the time - things just happened naturally! Alcohol helped w/ the comfort level.

For me, and maybe for you, I would start dating someone I liked, and things would progress to sex after a few dates or a couple months of dating. Then the relationship would fizzle and a few months later I'd be like, "why did I have sex with him?" or "why did i even date him?" But it made perfect sense at the time. If you meet people pretty easily and you're reasonably cute, you can rack up quite a number if you're single for a few years, even if you're dating monogamously and not acting particularly "slutty."

in my case, I did get a disease - herpes - but ironically, not from a casual encounter or short-term boyfriend, but from the guy i considered marrying. it was really annoying. here i'd been SO careful about protection and the first guy I trust enough to eventually stop using condoms, i get an STD? really shook me!

(sorry to digress from the chat - this one just spoke to me for some reason!)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes when I'm too tired to make up my bed again after stripping it for laundry day, I sleep in a sleeping bag on top of the mattress pad. I did this for two days earlier this week. It made me appreciate my sheets so much more./quote]

Hahaha! I do that too! When I'm to tired to do laundry and I've already stripped the bed we just sleep on whatever. The laundry room is so far away...... I think about these things and how I never saw my mom so this. She always had things together... I need to get better before my daughter is old enough to notice...

[Anonymous]

The days before my husband's paycheck comes through we often do not have a dollar to our names, not even for an emergency $10 cab ride, any kind of emergency. I mean looking around the apartment for change to get things we need. It makes me feel guilty because we have a baby. And there is nothing I can do about it.

[Anonymous]

ditto on the paycheck. i'm still asking my parents for money to buy groceries some months. and we live in a one bedroom, with no car etc...there is isn't much we can do about it.