What makes a man commit to being faithful?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a male married over 30 years who has been faithful it’s pretty simple. I still love my wife and we have a great sex life. In addition, integrity means a lot to me and if I cheated my children would lose respect for me. That is way too high a price to pay.

Do you find it weird that the majority of men don't think this way? Don't even want to be married or have kids?

I was like this in my previous relationship but she just let herself go when felt comfortable. Gained a lot of weight, no interest in sex, snappy because she was unhappy with her looks at the age of 43 and expecting financial support all the time. I left her before I cheat and preserved my sanity.

I think you made the right decision, PP. Looks like she didn't care for what she have and now she can decide on what she values.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a male married over 30 years who has been faithful it’s pretty simple. I still love my wife and we have a great sex life. In addition, integrity means a lot to me and if I cheated my children would lose respect for me. That is way too high a price to pay.

Do you find it weird that the majority of men don't think this way? Don't even want to be married or have kids?

I have always been faithful and committed, but my SAHW was not. I will never get married again, too much risk for no benefit.

[Anonymous]

Maturity and discipline simple answer. Most men just don't know what they want or just monkey minded

[Anonymous]

Men that are faithful because they have no options. If you're tall, handsome, successful with money, and have interesting hobbies, why would you want to commit to just one woman when you can have as many as you want. It is just common logic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a male married over 30 years who has been faithful it’s pretty simple. I still love my wife and we have a great sex life. In addition, integrity means a lot to me and if I cheated my children would lose respect for me. That is way too high a price to pay.

Do you find it weird that the majority of men don't think this way? Don't even want to be married or have kids?

I have always been faithful and committed, but my SAHW was not. I will never get married again, too much risk for no benefit.

My exH was banging a sahw. She knew the ropes as a serial cheater on the apps.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Single (35/F). I’ve noticed many of the men I meet aren’t interested in being in a faithful/committed relationship.

Of course, I’m looking for marriage with the right person and before we can be monogamous of course it starts with baseline of being in a relationship.

what am I missing? Do some men just not want to commit? Or what does it take for single men to settle down? I hate to think all men cheat.

Being a committed Christian is a good start.

Fidelity from the white Christian male crowd LOL Trump married 3 times, the only president to do so. Pete Hegstaff married 3 times, Tony Timberholt mr bible thumper rep from Texas married 5 times and committed DV, Clay Higgins married 4 times, ..... so many many more Christian men cheating on their wives. Matt Schlapp married how ever loves to have affairs with men.....

Cool stories. Now list names of millions of Christian men who never cheat.

And then we'll get to the millions of Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist, Hindu and atheist men who never cheat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men that are faithful because they have no options. If you're tall, handsome, successful with money, and have interesting hobbies, why would you want to commit to just one woman when you can have as many as you want. It is just common logic.

Because they want stability of ONE relationship, ONE home. Some people appreciate variety, others prefer to eat their favorite jam whole life. Has nothing to do with attractiveness. In fact, I've seen very handsome and successful men not being interested in the endless brunches jumping. If you have a great career, you need stability, not changing partners