What makes a man commit to being faithful?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You need to add value to his life, make his life easier and become indispensable or at least project the possibility of doing so. This assumes, of course, that you are dealing with a man of good character that wants to be in a monogamous relationship.

Absolute patriarchal horseshit.

The exact paragraph applies to men who want to catch a woman too.

[Anonymous]

No offense, but you gotta be a whore in the bedroom for sure. And make sure he eats good.

[Anonymous]

Easy going, interpret that as you will. Thin. Sexy time.

It’s about as simple as that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No offense, but you gotta be a whore in the bedroom for sure. And make sure he eats good.

Keep his bell full and his balls empty. And don’t be a nag.

It’s really as simple as that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You need to add value to his life, make his life easier and become indispensable or at least project the possibility of doing so. This assumes, of course, that you are dealing with a man of good character that wants to be in a monogamous relationship.

Absolute patriarchal horseshit.

Adding value to your partner’s life is patriarchy? Lol

To be a good loving partner not patriarchal.

To keep him being monogamous… yes that’s patriarchal.

Ok so you keeping him monogamous is matriarchal slavery?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I hate to break it to you but your post sounds pitiful. Don’t try and contort yourself for male approval. Men at the stage in life where you are, who are not yet settled down, are by and large selfish as heck. You can be as nice, docile, accommodating, and sex focused as you want….they will just take, and not offer true commitment. In the end you will feel like used crap.

A good one is a rare unicorn. The sooner you understand this, the happier you will be.

Its not selfish to not want to be married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You give him lots of sexytime, it’s about that simple for the majority of guys.

Nope. Not sufficient and you'll get the wrong kind of guy.

Yes. Sufficient for at least 90% of guys. You will get a guy who will adore you forever.

Nope.
Men still cheat while getting it at home.

Men still cheat on super models.

Men still cheat on millionaire breadwinner wives.

Men still cheat submissive SAHW/Ms.

This comes down to the man. A quality man will not cheat. Not if he doesnt get sex, not if his wife gains weight, not if she works or doesnt work.

Cheating is simply a character flaw within that person. Being a blowup sex doll does not guarantee loyalty.

You are missing the point. There are a few men like that. Most are not. “Cheat on supermodels” lol yeah a guy who can date a supermodel in the first place is the kind of guy who can cheat on her but that’s not 99.99% of guys.

Overwhelming majority of men are not alpha horndogs constantly looking for the next conquest. If they can find one and she enjoys frequent sex they will be ecstatic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Character.

This times a million. A woman, no matter what she does, is not responsible for her man's morals and character. If he doesn't have integrity, you aren't doing anything to keep him faithful. Everything else said on here is total horseshit.

[Anonymous]

What no one has also mentioned here is that marriage rates go up the higher the socio economic status. Several articles on this. This is one of them:
https://www.lbc.co.uk/article/rich-people-married-research-marriage-gap-5Hjd2W8_2/#:~:text='Only%20rich%20people%20are%20getting,'marriage%20gap'%20widens%20%7C%20LBC

Also the family values that the man has been brought up with play a huge role. Look at the man's family and you'll know a lot about him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No offense, but you gotta be a whore in the bedroom for sure. And make sure he eats good.

Keep his bell full and his balls empty. And don’t be a nag.

It’s really as simple as that.

Plenty of those men still cheat.

Cheating has nothing to do with a man’s spouse feeding or f***ing him. It’s an internal thing. Stop blaming women for men’s poor behaviour.

[Anonymous]

Character. Plus regular sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You give him lots of sexytime, it’s about that simple for the majority of guys.

Nope. Not sufficient and you'll get the wrong kind of guy.

Yes. Sufficient for at least 90% of guys. You will get a guy who will adore you forever.

Nope.
Men still cheat while getting it at home.

Men still cheat on super models.

Men still cheat on millionaire breadwinner wives.

Men still cheat submissive SAHW/Ms.

This comes down to the man. A quality man will not cheat. Not if he doesnt get sex, not if his wife gains weight, not if she works or doesnt work.

Cheating is simply a character flaw within that person. Being a blowup sex doll does not guarantee loyalty.

You are missing the point. There are a few men like that. Most are not. “Cheat on supermodels” lol yeah a guy who can date a supermodel in the first place is the kind of guy who can cheat on her but that’s not 99.99% of guys.

Overwhelming majority of men are not alpha horndogs constantly looking for the next conquest. If they can find one and she enjoys frequent sex they will be ecstatic.

I think you are the one missing the point. A woman could be a millionaire supermodel who cooks cleans and f***s like a porn star; there will still be men that would cheat on her.

Because it’s not about *her* it’s about them.

[Anonymous]

it is also what men or women want from life. If it is stability and being loyal then that's the kind of people they attract. Why men cheat - because of trust issues with themselves (not partner), no or low affection, no appreciation and sometimes self-esteem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No offense, but you gotta be a whore in the bedroom for sure. And make sure he eats good.

Keep his bell full and his balls empty. And don’t be a nag.

It’s really as simple as that.

Plenty of those men still cheat.

Cheating has nothing to do with a man’s spouse feeding or f***ing him. It’s an internal thing. Stop blaming women for men’s poor behaviour.

Nah. Women unquestionably have a strong, even decisive influence on male behavior. You control access to what he wants, as you certainly understand very well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No offense, but you gotta be a whore in the bedroom for sure. And make sure he eats good.

Keep his bell full and his balls empty. And don’t be a nag.

It’s really as simple as that.

Plenty of those men still cheat.

Cheating has nothing to do with a man’s spouse feeding or f***ing him. It’s an internal thing. Stop blaming women for men’s poor behaviour.

Nah. Women unquestionably have a strong, even decisive influence on male behavior. You control access to what he wants, as you certainly understand very well.

No Peter Pan. Time to grow up and realize that only you are responsible for the shit you do.