How hard is dating for late thirties childless women?
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Anonymous
You keep this is a compliment about your looks. It’s a critique on how you carry yourself in the workplace. |
Anonymous
People you work with and see all the time think you have 15 years less experience than you do. You seem to be focusing on the wrong part of the message. |
Anonymous
I can’t think of a twin celebrity, maybe Jessica Simpson but very smart and classy. She is always very put together. She has a nice figure, definitely has breast implants and perfectly blown out blonde hair and always dressed. Even on a sun morning, she is all dressed up with full make up. She looks like a total cougar MILF type. |
Anonymous
Eeek. Or work on valuing the things about you that have nothing to do with your physical beauty? |
Anonymous
She does look terrible now at 44. So you look like that ? https://images.app.goo.gl/hdh36UmEmyLPASya6 |
Anonymous
| Is this a serious post? Women always have an easy time dating because men are the pursuers. |
Anonymous
Some people do genuinely look young. My daughter is in a dance class and there was a helper who I thought was a teenager. I thought she could be in high school, maybe college. The woman is married with 3-4 kids. I was shocked. I think many people were surprised when she was pregnant and even more shocked to learn she already had a few kids. I don’t know how old she is. I guess she could have been a young mom and be 25 with a few kids. You would think she is the babysitter, not the mom. I have a friend who is very petite, thin and has a young face with young style. She also could totally pass as a teenager. She is 40. When she is with her parents and elementary son, everyone assumes she is the older sister of her son. Her mom looks youthful and her dad looks old. She said most people think her dad married someone younger and had an oops baby or second marriage. |
Anonymous
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Pp again. I do think your age and when people are different ages, you really can’t tell. Someone who is 20 or 30 or even 40 may blend the same way I can’t always tell a 60 or 70 or 80 year old.
My 77 year old mother recently mistook my son’s friend’s dad as a sibling. My son is 15 and dad is almost 50. Dad is thin and not very tall and was dressed similarly to the teens and my mom assumed the dad was a friend of her grandchild. To my almost 80 year old mother, a 15 and 48 year old looked the same - young. |
Anonymous
This is my understanding of Indian men as well. My friend wasn’t Indian so he could never marry her. She of course broke it off with him and he eventually married another Indian woman. |
Anonymous
I had two books published by an actual publisher before the time I was 30–when you actually had to have talent to get a book deal. It’s pretty sad that I didn’t realize I was beautiful until I was 40. I’m allowed to have that realization. I never doubted that I was smart and accomplished, and assuming that someone’s focusing on beauty when they are older, does not mean that they don’t have anything else going for them. |
Anonymous
Men care less about women's achievements. You could have had an illustrious career by 30 that won't impress most men. They will rank your beauty and physical attributes before your career/money. |
Anonymous
Good men will be very interested in who a woman is, including her interests and careers. Beauty opens doors but it never seals the deal. |
Anonymous
Some men absolutely care about your education and career. They won’t choose an ugly woman who has a good job but I have seen many hot woman who don’t get the ring. They are good enough to date but not good enough to marry. |
Anonymous
Not the fat ugly ones. |
Anonymous
My friend has a few cousins who are below average and overweight and seem to have given up on men. They don’t care about their looks and enjoy food and travel without a man. They are late thirties. They have good enough jobs to support themselves and seem content without a man. |