How attractive do you think men would rate you on a scale of 1-10?

[Anonymous]

Strangers, probably a 4. I get plenty of attention for my body, especially when I'm wearing workout clothes, but I'm overall pretty meh. My husband, on the other hand, would rate me a 10. He's a bit delusional but i'll take it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think women would rate me a 9 and men maybe a 7. I’m 46 and tall with an hourglass shape. I’m too tall for a lot of men and I think I come across as too liberal/feminist/outspoken for some men who prefer a petite midwestern girl next door vibe.

I thought it was my own preference to see taller women as gorgeous and not even register petite women but like you say, men will notice the petite women. *I mean as a straight woman just noticing a beautiful woman.* I wonder what kind of man other men admire in looks but are not attracted to.

[Anonymous]

For me, I’d say I’m average as far as my face and hair go…so 5? However, I’ve always had an athletic/curvy body and stayed fit over the years. Plus I have nice skin. So maybe much higher on the body - my booty gets a lot of interest. I’m also very social and have never had an issue attracting guys.

[Anonymous]

Looks 7, overall 8. I’ve always been very outgoing, upbeat and easy to talk to and people always seem willing to tell me more about themselves and their lives than to many others. My husband says I should have been a shrink. I use to travel a lot for business and my outgoingness led some men to think I was a potential ONS so after that I became very corporate.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd rate myself an 8 now, in my mid-40s, because I've taken care of myself and look pretty great relative to my peers. Probably a 6 in my teens and 20s. Everybody's hot at that age.

Same. I have more money to look polished now too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Looks 7, overall 8. I’ve always been very outgoing, upbeat and easy to talk to and people always seem willing to tell me more about themselves and their lives than to many others. My husband says I should have been a shrink. I use to travel a lot for business and my outgoingness led some men to think I was a potential ONS so after that I became very corporate.

I love how you gave yourself points for a great personality (seriously).

[Anonymous]

My husband of many years thinks I’m beautiful and that’s all that matters. And, his eye sight is pretty good.

[Anonymous]

If a supermodel is the scale, then face was a 10 in my 20s and 30s, 8 in my 40s. Body was a 8 in my 20s, 7 in my 30s, 3 in my 40s.

[Anonymous]

OP. Love the responses and the lack of snark. This group is a lot kinder than the money board.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A solid 1 at any stage of life. Boys actually barked at me in high school.

I'm in shape (size 2/4) but have "obvious issues" like a big nose. After 51 years I have lost the ability to care about this.

Good for you! F them.

[Anonymous]

Now a 4 maybe. In my 20s, an 8. I need to lose weight, working on it

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is a funny question because I think men would rate me anywhere from 6-8.5 with my clothes on (I am a very specific type) again just compared to other women my age.

I think other women would put me at 5-7 max. I am definitely one of those women who is more attractive to men than other women.

I have terrible stretch marks and a wonky c-section scar so with no clothes on probably a 3.

I don’t know, I think a lot of men don’t care that much. My children were both walking and talking before my husband noticed my stretch marks. He said “hey, what’s going on there?” As if they had not been there for many years!

After my second c-section I ended up with a little fold of skin that won’t go back. I hate it. My husband is generally just happy to see me naked and definitely doesn’t complain but since I am not willing to have it fixed surgically I am resigned to having a kind of ugly stomach

I know this isn't the thread, but I had that and it's actually very easy to fix. A plastic surgeon did it for me, scar revision, $2000, took 1 hour and I was awake the whole time. The "ledge" is gone. Just a PSA. He said "I can't believe you lived with something so easily fixable. It was causing internal problems, so I was more motivated.

For the thread, I was probably a 6/7 with a good body, but then at age 18, i got a nose job and became a 10 literally overnight. Very very strange experience. Now that I'm in my 40s, probably back down to an 8? Still a size 2, get lots of warmth and attention from men, husband seems happy.

[Anonymous]

I was a duck who turned into a swan thanks to my husband. I’m 5’7”, 120 lbs, fit, bikini body but I had no sense of style. I was a tom boy growing up so fashion wasn’t something I ever had an interest in. Thankfully, my husband who’s and 8 or a 9 didn’t let that stop him. At 35, after two babies, he said I was beautiful but I’d be awesome if I worked on it so I hired a stylist for a makeover. She almost set fire to my closet and she dumped most of make up etc. Long story made short she really transformed me in a way that I really liked. I like to be comfortable and casual and I’m still that way but everything works and I love it. I’m pretty sure when people saw that years Christmas card they thought that my husband had a new wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was a duck who turned into a swan thanks to my husband. I’m 5’7”, 120 lbs, fit, bikini body but I had no sense of style. I was a tom boy growing up so fashion wasn’t something I ever had an interest in. Thankfully, my husband who’s and 8 or a 9 didn’t let that stop him. At 35, after two babies, he said I was beautiful but I’d be awesome if I worked on it so I hired a stylist for a makeover. She almost set fire to my closet and she dumped most of make up etc. Long story made short she really transformed me in a way that I really liked. I like to be comfortable and casual and I’m still that way but everything works and I love it. I’m pretty sure when people saw that years Christmas card they thought that my husband had a new wife.

How did you find a stylist?