Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?

[Anonymous]

I went over my boyfriends house and went over to his dresser to get the cellphone charger, when I noticed two movie tickets from last month. I didn't go with him... Should I let this go? Should I ask him who he took to the movies? I'm actually feeling a bit uneasy about this. I didn't think I had to worry about him seeing someone else, as he brought up marriage, we are looking for rings, and I'm going to be moving in with him soon.

[Anonymous]

I would, in a polite, nonaccusatory way. Do it in person.

You could also go the "I really want to see x movie" route and so if he volunteers that he went.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would, in a polite, nonaccusatory way. Do it in person.

You could also go the "I really want to see x movie" route and so if he volunteers that he went.

+1

It could have been a friend, but I am suspicious that he has both tickets. Did you find a receipt? If he paid for it then I can't imagine a senario involving paying for a friend. Sorry OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would, in a polite, nonaccusatory way. Do it in person.

You could also go the "I really want to see x movie" route and so if he volunteers that he went.

+1

It could have been a friend, but I am suspicious that he has both tickets. Did you find a receipt? If he paid for it then I can't imagine a senario involving paying for a friend. Sorry OP.

You can't? My friends and I do this all the time. We take turns buying movie tickets, lunches, drinks out. What kind of movie was it, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would, in a polite, nonaccusatory way. Do it in person.

You could also go the "I really want to see x movie" route and so if he volunteers that he went.

+1

It could have been a friend, but I am suspicious that he has both tickets. Did you find a receipt? If he paid for it then I can't imagine a senario involving paying for a friend. Sorry OP.

You can't? My friends and I do this all the time. We take turns buying movie tickets, lunches, drinks out. What kind of movie was it, OP?

Interesting. No, I've never paid for a friend's movie and vice versa. In fact I've never gone to a movie with a friend since moving to DC.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would, in a polite, nonaccusatory way. Do it in person.

You could also go the "I really want to see x movie" route and so if he volunteers that he went.

+1

It could have been a friend, but I am suspicious that he has both tickets. Did you find a receipt? If he paid for it then I can't imagine a senario involving paying for a friend. Sorry OP.

You can't? My friends and I do this all the time. We take turns buying movie tickets, lunches, drinks out. What kind of movie was it, OP?

OP here. The movie, about last night. I can't see him paying for a friends movie and he knew I wanted to see that movie.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would, in a polite, nonaccusatory way. Do it in person.

You could also go the "I really want to see x movie" route and so if he volunteers that he went.

+1

It could have been a friend, but I am suspicious that he has both tickets. Did you find a receipt? If he paid for it then I can't imagine a senario involving paying for a friend. Sorry OP.

You can't? My friends and I do this all the time. We take turns buying movie tickets, lunches, drinks out. What kind of movie was it, OP?

OP here. The movie, about last night. I can't see him paying for a friends movie and he knew I wanted to see that movie.

That's a romantic comedy. Yeah I would say he's very possibly cheating. Check his wallet for a dinner receipt.

[Anonymous]

If I am meeting a friend at the movie theater and I get there first, I'll usually buy the tickets and ask them to buy the popcorn. Just like we'll take turns buying rounds of drinks at the bar.

If he were cheating on you, he would have thrown the tickets and receipts out at the movie theater so he wouldn't get caught.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would, in a polite, nonaccusatory way. Do it in person.

You could also go the "I really want to see x movie" route and so if he volunteers that he went.

+1

It could have been a friend, but I am suspicious that he has both tickets. Did you find a receipt? If he paid for it then I can't imagine a senario involving paying for a friend. Sorry OP.

You can't? My friends and I do this all the time. We take turns buying movie tickets, lunches, drinks out. What kind of movie was it, OP?

OP here. The movie, about last night. I can't see him paying for a friends movie and he knew I wanted to see that movie.

That's a romantic comedy. Yeah I would say he's very possibly cheating. Check his wallet for a dinner receipt.

Sorry, but I agree. Two guys wouldn't normally go see this movie. I'd do the casual mention pp mentioned to see his reaction.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would, in a polite, nonaccusatory way. Do it in person.

You could also go the "I really want to see x movie" route and so if he volunteers that he went.

+1

It could have been a friend, but I am suspicious that he has both tickets. Did you find a receipt? If he paid for it then I can't imagine a senario involving paying for a friend. Sorry OP.

You can't? My friends and I do this all the time. We take turns buying movie tickets, lunches, drinks out. What kind of movie was it, OP?

OP here. The movie, about last night. I can't see him paying for a friends movie and he knew I wanted to see that movie.

That's a romantic comedy. Yeah I would say he's very possibly cheating. Check his wallet for a dinner receipt.

I am 14:43. I did not realize this was a romantic comedy (new baby and no cable--haven't been paying attention to movies lately). Does he have a sister or mother in town?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would, in a polite, nonaccusatory way. Do it in person.

You could also go the "I really want to see x movie" route and so if he volunteers that he went.

+1

It could have been a friend, but I am suspicious that he has both tickets. Did you find a receipt? If he paid for it then I can't imagine a senario involving paying for a friend. Sorry OP.

Really, I've gone out with friends to the movie and been running late, one person gets dropped off at the curb and buys the tickets while the other gets parking and then pays them back with cash, or one person buys the tickets one heads to concession.

I don't see anything unusual about someone who is not married, engaged or living with someone going to a movie with a friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would, in a polite, nonaccusatory way. Do it in person.

You could also go the "I really want to see x movie" route and so if he volunteers that he went.

+1

It could have been a friend, but I am suspicious that he has both tickets. Did you find a receipt? If he paid for it then I can't imagine a senario involving paying for a friend. Sorry OP.

Really, I've gone out with friends to the movie and been running late, one person gets dropped off at the curb and buys the tickets while the other gets parking and then pays them back with cash, or one person buys the tickets one heads to concession.

I don't see anything unusual about someone who is not married, engaged or living with someone going to a movie with a friend.

OP here. But he would have told me. Hey, it's cool if I take Susie to the movies or would that bother you? I feel really hurt by this and it feels like I have my answer so why approach him.

[Anonymous]

Have you figured out the date? Was it a weeknight or a weekend? Any recollection of where you thought he was, or where you were?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you figured out the date? Was it a weeknight or a weekend? Any recollection of where you thought he was, or where you were?

It was 2/16. Around v day obviously around 7:30. I'm pissed inside. I want to go off but I'm keeping my cool because I don't want to over react. I'm naturally a very jealous person.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Have you figured out the date? Was it a weeknight or a weekend? Any recollection of where you thought he was, or where you were?

It was 2/16. Around v day obviously around 7:30. I'm pissed inside. I want to go off but I'm keeping my cool because I don't want to over react. I'm naturally a very jealous person.

Go back through your texts and emails and see where he told you he was that night.