School called me to clean my daughter up because of an accident.

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[Post New]10/26/2019 14:07
leaning
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Some school systems, will not clean, vomit, poop. My son was denied access to the bathroom and I the Dr wrote a letter to the School. My son say bathroom and pee pee very well, and will continue to do so until he uses the bathroom.
[Post New]10/26/2019 14:21
Anonymous
leaning wrote:Some school systems, will not clean, vomit, poop. My son was denied access to the bathroom and I the Dr wrote a letter to the School. My son say bathroom and pee pee very well, and will continue to do so until he uses the bathroom.


Um, what?
[Post New]10/27/2019 17:49
Anonymous
First of all, even if there is the slightest, teensiest minuscule chance your child was being abused, WHY WOULDNT YOU LOOK INTO IT???

No second of all.
[Post New]10/29/2019 09:26
Anonymous
This post is still a thing??? Smdh...
[Post New]10/29/2019 10:47
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:During music class my daughter had a pee and poop accident. The school called and said that she was too messy and they I would need to come clean her up and honestly it might be best if I we just took her home for her a bath. She in K. I’m really upset that I had to leave work to come get her for what is a very normal accident for a 5yr old. And just to be clear, she had extra clothes in her bag. If this happened often, I would understand, but this is the first time she had a poop accident at school.


I only read your post OP but your response is awful. I would be livid if the school did NOT call me in. I’m sure that was traumatic for your daughter and she might be sick. Poop accidents are not normal for 5 year olds. I’m sorry you had to leave work to care for your child. God forbid.
[Post New]10/30/2019 13:55
Anonymous
I JUST got a message from my son's Kindergarten teacher that he had an accident (#2) at recess and they did not ask me to come clean him up, which was surprising. He has never pooped on himself before other than when he had a stomach virus. I would like to think that he just passed gas and something more unexpectedly happened, especially if he had milk at lunch, but this post has me all paranoid that some other issue is going on.

Parenting is mentally exhausting.
[Post New]10/30/2019 13:56
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I JUST got a message from my son's Kindergarten teacher that he had an accident (#2) at recess and they did not ask me to come clean him up, which was surprising. He has never pooped on himself before other than when he had a stomach virus. I would like to think that he just passed gas and something more unexpectedly happened, especially if he had milk at lunch, but this post has me all paranoid that some other issue is going on.

Parenting is mentally exhausting.


Kids get distracted and don't want to go even if there are set bathroom times. Some teachers restrict bathroom use. It happens.
[Post New]10/30/2019 13:58
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I JUST got a message from my son's Kindergarten teacher that he had an accident (#2) at recess and they did not ask me to come clean him up, which was surprising. He has never pooped on himself before other than when he had a stomach virus. I would like to think that he just passed gas and something more unexpectedly happened, especially if he had milk at lunch, but this post has me all paranoid that some other issue is going on.

Parenting is mentally exhausting.


Well DCUM is sure your child is being abused.
[Post New]10/30/2019 17:23
Anonymous
When my babies were that age I would have jumped and ran to that school, snatched them up lovingly and took them home and loved on them for the rest of the day! What is wrong with you??? Don't you have any feelings?



[Post New]10/30/2019 19:14
Anonymous
School nurse here- we call and have parents come get the child in this type of situation. No staff member (myself included) feels comfortable undressing a kid in a locked bathroom stall, cleaning them up and sending them back to class. It is also not a school nurse's job or a teacher's job.
[Post New]10/30/2019 21:40
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I JUST got a message from my son's Kindergarten teacher that he had an accident (#2) at recess and they did not ask me to come clean him up, which was surprising. He has never pooped on himself before other than when he had a stomach virus. I would like to think that he just passed gas and something more unexpectedly happened, especially if he had milk at lunch, but this post has me all paranoid that some other issue is going on.

Parenting is mentally exhausting.


I teach at the school that my house is assigned to, and my oldest is in K. Last week, her teacher texted me to say DD had an accident, and since I was at lunch, the teacher knew I was available to come over and deal with it. I was expecting pee, but nope, it was time to impart that valuable lesson, “never trust a fart.”
[Post New]10/30/2019 22:41
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I JUST got a message from my son's Kindergarten teacher that he had an accident (#2) at recess and they did not ask me to come clean him up, which was surprising. He has never pooped on himself before other than when he had a stomach virus. I would like to think that he just passed gas and something more unexpectedly happened, especially if he had milk at lunch, but this post has me all paranoid that some other issue is going on.

Parenting is mentally exhausting.


I teach at the school that my house is assigned to, and my oldest is in K. Last week, her teacher texted me to say DD had an accident, and since I was at lunch, the teacher knew I was available to come over and deal with it. I was expecting pee, but nope, it was time to impart that valuable lesson, “never trust a fart.”


Did her teacher immediately suspect abuse??
[Post New]10/31/2019 11:30
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:When my babies were that age I would have jumped and ran to that school, snatched them up lovingly and took them home and loved on them for the rest of the day! What is wrong with you??? Don't you have any feelings?




You sound like you have enough for the both of you, crazy baby snatcher. Chill out.
[Post New]11/02/2019 13:22
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I JUST got a message from my son's Kindergarten teacher that he had an accident (#2) at recess and they did not ask me to come clean him up, which was surprising. He has never pooped on himself before other than when he had a stomach virus. I would like to think that he just passed gas and something more unexpectedly happened, especially if he had milk at lunch, but this post has me all paranoid that some other issue is going on.

Parenting is mentally exhausting.


Well DCUM is sure your child is being abused.



In OP's case, OP at the very least is emotionally abusive to her child. Don't know if the kid is being sexually abused but a 5 year old who continues to have several pee accidents within the first few weeks of school and then a Poop accident? Do you know what being anally abused does to a child's bowel movements?
[Post New]11/02/2019 19:25
Anonymous
My kids attend a private school and I'd expect this call too for my kindergartner.

My 4th grader recently had a uniform accident. Someone dumped glitter slime on her, soaking her uniform dress. Thankfully, the school found her an extra uniform and helped her out. (She obviously could change herself.)
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