Anonymous wrote:I was at Trader Joe's last night and bought some champagne and got carded. I'm 41 and 6-7 years ago when my kids were little, people on the street would often think I was the nanny because I "looked too young to have kids."
But of late I'm starting to get some lines around the eyes and lips, so I was wondering if the guy was obligated to ask or if this was a nice holiday present. (DH usually buys the liquor so I have no frame of reference).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Christian here. There is only one God. Christians worship him. Others try to worship him but fall into varying degrees of error.
I was raised Christian and my DH is a practicing Christian and so are my children, but this is SO OFFENSIVE! How do you know others "fall into varrying degrees of error?" I know your church tells you so and I'm sure you do really believe this but it's central to what I am offended by with all religions! Why don't you just focus on your own belief without worrying about others being "in error." The "they TRY to worship him" is so offensive! Like its some kind of competition. Whatever people who belong to a formal religion think...if there is a god that god is the god of everyone and everyone can worship "him." God will find a way to everyone regardless of what religion you practice. This exclusive smug assurance represents everything I dislike about organized religion. Every religion thinks it has its own special monopoly on god and that just can't be!
Well, lets see what the Bible says on this issue:
John 14:6
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man comes to the Father, but by me.
So Christianity is very clear on this - there is only one God, and there is only one way to reach Him, which is through Jesus Christ.
God will not find a way regardless of the religion you practice. The Aztecs ripped the hearts out of live infants. That was their religion. So don't give me this crap about all religions are equally valid, because that is clearly b.s.
Anonymous wrote:Making out just leads to sex. So I avoid it at all costs when I'm exhausted, which is quite often.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What do you guys do before you have sex? no kissing?
Sex is a chore, something else to check off my list of things to do. No, there's no kissing. I want it to be as quick as possible.
I also don't want to be kissed like that anymore because DH will always want more. He can't just kiss with getting rock hard expecting me to put out. I resist his kissing because of this reason.
Sad... I know.
on behalf of your DH,.. Ouch!
I disagree. If he ever kissed her just for the sake of kissing and not to get laid, maybe they would both get more of what they want. Maybe she wouldn't feel like he only touches her to get what he wants from her.
Anonymous wrote:ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:Anonymous wrote:You're both fucking idiots, then. You'd divorce someone for not giving a blowjob?
And what about her needs? If she has told you that she doesn't like it or simply changed her mind she must go on with it b/c you can't live with regular sex?
If you have an otherwise good marriage and partnership and this is truly just about not getting a BJ then, yes, you're an idiot.
It not about just not getting a BJ.
It's about if you lied to me about this one thing, then what lese have you lied to me about. Or also if you were willing to do something that you hated to manipulate me into marraige, then what else are you capable of. That is not the basis of a good marriage.
You seem kind of paranoid. Don't you think that women's sexual preferences can change over time without it being a diabolical bait and switched? I also really loved going to bars and staying up till 2 watching real world marathons--those are not my favorites now either.