Anonymous wrote:By long-term, I mean beyond one year. How many times a day was your child breastfeeding at age 1? At 18 months? If you were working, was DC still taking bottles during the day?
I know there's no such thing as "normal," really. I'm just trying to get a sense of the range out there. My son is 11 months and between breast and bottle wants breastmilk 6-7 times a day. He's not very keen on most solid foods yet, but it's definitely improving. He'll now eat around 2 ounces of solids at each meal.
I didn't read all of the responses so I'm sorry if I repeat something that's already been said. I breastfed my first son until he was 16 months old (he's 2 now). He breastfed almost constantly, I was stay-at-home so that was no issue...what was an issue was he seemed to have weight issues (as in not enough weight gain) and he too had an aversion to solids. It turns out he was just pacifying and not breastfeeding - no clue if this is what's happening with your little one - but I thought I'd share.
Also, the moment I stopped breast feeding my son's sleep issues disappeared. He was waking every two hours to breastfeed (pacify) and then started sleeping through the night almost immediately.
I now have a 3 week old and intend NOT to breastfeed so long because of these issues. I will likely only breastfeed for 9 months to a year.
Obviously, this was just my experience and is likely very different for you and may very well be different with my youngest baby...just wanted to share my experiences.
Good luck!