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Anonymous wrote:PP here.
Oh, and by the way: The OP is totally right that is creepy and angry and unfair for her DH to snoop. Email and letters and phone conversations should be private. Not EVERY single thing we feel or talk about with parents/close friends should necessarily be open book for our spouses. Jesus. Have you people NEVER had a conversation with a friend over dinner that your husband would be upset by if he heard? Never? Like bitching about him or talking about sex or whatever? If you have those chats does that mean youre a cheating evil bitch? I mean, jesus.

And this is coming from someone who is totally faithful and has nothing to hide in that department. When it comes to other men, he can read any of the emails because none are even borderline flirty! But my emails are my correspondence. They are for ME and there are some parts of me that I want to have for ME, dammit!

I think this is true. I can't understand all the people defending the husband. It sounds weird that he should read her email. I would find that extremely disturbing, even though if there were any particular emails that he strongly wanted to see, I'd let him.

My husband is actually extremely protective of his email (ie, never even leaves it open when I'm around) I find this weird, but I have chosen to trust him. If I described it here on DCUM, though you all would have him having all kinds of affairs.

Anonymous wrote:Actually, I have been to New Orleans. I was born and raised there. I've even, *GASP* gotten lost and ended up in the projects! Where there are....wait for it....BLACK PEOPLE!!! [On that note: I didn't mention anything about the race of the idiots that attacked him.] But you know what? When I was there I wasn't beaten, robbed, and stripped of my clothes!
Was it smart of him to get drunk and be by himself in a city with high crime rates? Of course not. But just because he made a (really) poor decision, that makes it okay for people to blame him?

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Anonymous wrote:OP, your "hits" all look exactly the same. Mix it up a bit, why don't you? Acquire a more sophisticate palate. Your picks are textbook.

Oh, leave them alone. So what? Stop looking at this thread if you don't like it.

I didn't say I didn't like it. I'm interested in what men think. For example, I like Smiley Guy's (or whatever his name is) picks. Interesting. 40ish attractive woman, one a redhead, one a brunette. Intriguing.