I never saw the show and don't know much about her, but sort of agree that men in Hollywood have done this forever. I don't know why women are forever pulling other women down. I think Adam Driver is handsome. Not my type but an interesting looking guy.

p.s. Fitflop makes a nice Teva style with a little bit of platform. Surprisingly nice and comfortable.

Maybe a nicer Teva style like Suicoke or Sandy Laing X Salomon Mary Jane.

Jil Sander and Proenza Schouler also do a nicer 'birkenstock'.

P.S. Like the Alaia pointy wedge but there are brands that don't cost as much.

I would wear them with wedge slides or a block heel sandal.

I think being healthy is most important. It being intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, approachability. I've been married forever but when young I never had problems getting dates. No dating apps existed so it may have helped. I think it was because I was approachable and nice, could carry on a conversation, was fun, had an interesting job. I think women think all men want models and I don't think true. I wasn't over weight but not model thin at all. It works both ways. So many men say all women want rich men and I don't think that's true either. Also think women are more critical of themselves than men are critical of women. I've gained a few and my husband doesn't care at all.

I don't understand celebrity hate. If I don't care for someone I don't read about them or watch them.

Lives are out in the open. I'm guessing in old times our parents didn't know about the personal lives of Rock Hudson or The Beatles.

I think it's a fair question. So much of his base is Christian MAGA. I hope they will finally see who he really is.

As for the religious family member who deemed him the antichrist, they may be on to something.

I grew up fairly religious. Now consider myself spiritual.

This is one time there should be no separation between church and state.

The guy is insane and unfit. He is dangerous. I'm hoping this is what it takes to have him removed from office.

I hope the pope comes out and says that. I can't fathom why the people behind him are not working to have him removed.

I'm sorry the visit didn't well. It can be a lot of time and effort hosting family. When they don't interact/converse, or you feel you could be anyone it stings. It sounds like he may have some issues around self-worth. Only talking about his position/wealth and not about feelings. Also his need to take food. I would give yourself time to get back to your own routine. Maybe next visit is shorter. There is an old saying good thing you can choose your friends because you can't choose family. Sounds like you are a wonderful and generous host who had a house guest that wasn't.

Thanks everyone. No I won't tell them. Hopefully it's a very long time from present day.

I don't even know why she shared with me.

Her money, her choice. This isn't something I would discuss with anyone, hence posting here.

Thank you all for your response. I appreciate that.

I totally agree, her business. It truly isn't about the money. For example, she could leave my kids $50. It's about them just being left out. The parents (my siblings) of nieces and nephews do make less than we do but we are totally not wealthy. It's not about me, to me it's about the kids feelings.

I am not going to say anything. You are right it 100% her business. I respect that.

You know what it may be a little about money for me now that I'm purging my feelings. She owes me money and I've never expected it back. I'm the person who has always been 'her person' taken her to surgeries, helped heal (we do for each other), the only one who gives her gifts for birthday, Xmas, etc.. I'm just surprised. Maybe it is her way of making up with my siblings -treating their kids nicely. Thanks everyone.

I have six nieces and nephews. My oldest sister never had kids. We are super close. By far the closest in the family. In fact she doesn't talk to other two siblings. She is closest with my kids, especially my eldest.

She just said she is making up her will and splitting it between the six nieces and nephews (two of them she doesn't even know. Not sure they ever met. She is not leaving anything to my kids. I said "It's not my business but Janey and Johnny are close with you it may hurt their feelings." She feels they don't need the money.

We are solidly middle class. My other nieces and nephews are from more modest families, that is true.

Would this bother you? I think I'm just surprised by the conversation given how close we are and how close she is with my kids. It stung a little. Not about the money, about leaving them out completely.

I think there are a few trolls on this thread. BL is a beautiful woman with a wonderful family. From the outside she has a seemingly perfect life (I know no one does). If you don't like someone move along, but how can there ever be peace in the world when women continue to tear other women down. Insulting someone says a lot more about you than it does about her.