We are our own harshest critics sometimes. Enjoy the weight lost journey and in the meantime also enjoy some great sex !

Sounds like a highly privileged life. We are solidly middle class and nobody I know travels that much.

It’s crazy how people on here don’t think adults should celebrate birthday!

OP, let him go or her passing this year, choose another day for your celebration. And then, he has to move on. He can still grieve but your birthday should not forever be clouded by this.

Anonymous wrote:The best way to move on from spouses midlife crisis is to have your own. Best if spouse already had his/her crisis years before because then she/he can better understand the pain when they are on the other end.

As in have an affair too?

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Anonymous wrote:Road trip to South Dakota and Wyoming. All the major sites. Badlands, Custer, devils tower, Yellowstone, grand Teton. It was all pretty spectacular.

Want to do this too! How long was your trip? I have family in NW Montana so considering driving up to Glacier too but the whole thing might be too much.

Two weeks. That was a perfect amount of time for us.