Love love LOVE the practice we are going to.
My DS is also 13 mos old. Had 5 ear infections in 8 months and always seemed to have fluid in them even if they weren't infected.
Went to the practice our Ped rec'd and it seems to be like the only one out there that has specialist ENTs on staff that only do Pediatrics -- Otolaryngology Associates (
http://www.otolaryngology-assoc.com/). We saw Dr. Bahadori who is just amazing (Dr. McBride I've heard good things about). The whole staff for his initial consulation was fabulous.
We just had the tubes done Friday at the Fairfax Surgerical Center. It was such a non-event. Seriously --we got there at 710, surgery scheduled for 840am. They took him in a bit early at 830. I got to go into the operating room with him until he was put under. I left, disrobed from the operating room scrubs, walked back to my DH, was telling him about the waiting room/playroom where my DS and I hung out with other parents waiting with their kids, told him about walking into the operating room and literally before I was finished telling him about what he missed, the Dr was there telling us it was over! We saw my DS a bit later in the recovery room and made it home to Reston by 915!
My son was a bit cranky at first (and he did cry a TON in the recovery room) but when we got home, he ate a nice breakfast, slept a little and was running around by that afternoon as happy as ever (and, might I say, walking better, steadier, and faster than the day before).
Anyway - would DEFINITELY rec this practice for your second opinion (read the docs bios online -- again, one of the few practices out there that has docs who specialize in peds) and if you do have to go the route of tubes, I have to tell you, our expereince was fabulous.
Best of luck to you!!