| Have tried (unsuccessfully ) dating outside my type. |
| Generally I am interested in the people who are also interested in me. |
But I'm just not attracted to these guys. |
| How old are you? What is your type? |
30. Tall, skinny white guys, with dark hair, bonus if they have glasses the nerdier and more awkward they are the better. I don't restrict myself to this type. I accept dates from any guy that asks. Sometimes the dates go well and sometimes they don't. I generally allow for 2-3 dates before cutting it off if I'm not feeling it. |
| You don't need a whole type to be interested in you, just one person. |
True, but if not a sngle person of the type you are attracted to has shown interest. something has to change right? |
| Settle or die alone |
And what are you like? |
I am brown, slightly above average height for a female at 5'7" thin ( 130 lbs), and nerdy myself. |
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Of course you don't have to be interested in every guy who shows interest.
But a necessary component of what makes me interested in a guy is that he shows a glimmer of interest first. I don't online date though and I suspect that is how you ended up in this situation. |
I do both online and offline dating. |
Well this is sad. |
| Maybe your issue is that nerdy, awkward guys don't date much in general... |
| If you are looking for nerdy guys, go find and join a group that they are in. I feel you will have a better shot starting out from friends than as a tinder candidate. |