Ladies: When did you give up on finding a husband?

[Anonymous]

Approaching 37 and ready to throw in the towel, and accept tit's not going to happen for me.

[Anonymous]

You are in your PRIME.

Well, you're never gonna find it
If you're looking for it won't come your way
Well, you'll never find it
If you're looking for it

[Anonymous]

At 29, two months before I met my husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are in your PRIME.

Well, you're never gonna find it
If you're looking for it won't come your way
Well, you'll never find it
If you're looking for it

Doesn't feel like it. I'd thought I'd be married and a mum by now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
At 29, two months before I met my husband.

You were ridiculous. 29 is a baby and you still met someone by 30 and were no doubt married with kids by 33 like everyone else.

[Anonymous]

I was never ever looking. Totally fine without one. I met someone when I was 46 & we've been happily married for 20 years. But I would be perfectly fine if it had turned out otherwise, too.

Enjoy what you have, and make sure that you're not giving off the vibe of quiet desperation.

[Anonymous]

My DD is getting married for the first time at 48. She met him during the pandemic. I was married at 48 for the first time too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was never ever looking. Totally fine without one. I met someone when I was 46 & we've been happily married for 20 years. But I would be perfectly fine if it had turned out otherwise, too.

Enjoy what you have, and make sure that you're not giving off the vibe of quiet desperation.

Considering I have made it 37 years, nearly 2 decades of that as an adult, single I know very well that I'm perfectly fine single. Is it so wrong to want a life partner though and be a bit frustrated that it's not happened for you yet? It isn't that I don't enjoy life or that I'm desperate, it's the frustration and being completely baffled by what I am doing wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
At 29, two months before I met my husband.

You were ridiculous. 29 is a baby and you still met someone by 30 and were no doubt married with kids by 33 like everyone else.

At the time, I felt so old.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DD is getting married for the first time at 48. She met him during the pandemic. I was married at 48 for the first time too.

How old were you when you had your daughter? Did you become a single mother by choice? I struggle with this because I want to be a mom too and I have thought about going at it alone, but I'm not certain that's the right choice for me so motherhood is pretty much off the table for me now. I really don't know if I can cope with another decade of dating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
At 29, two months before I met my husband.

You were ridiculous. 29 is a baby and you still met someone by 30 and were no doubt married with kids by 33 like everyone else.

At the time, I felt so old.

Lol. You weren't. But I felt the same way not realizing nearly a decade later I'd still be single.

[Anonymous]

Somewhere in my 20's. I'm 44 now. I've been on exactly one date, when I was 14 (I didn't put out, he never called me again).

I kind of can't imagine being married now. My life is SO very me-focused.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Somewhere in my 20's. I'm 44 now. I've been on exactly one date, when I was 14 (I didn't put out, he never called me again).

I kind of can't imagine being married now. My life is SO very me-focused.

Though I have been on more than one date ( not much more 5 dates with 3 guys) I feel this is my future.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Somewhere in my 20's. I'm 44 now. I've been on exactly one date, when I was 14 (I didn't put out, he never called me again).

I kind of can't imagine being married now. My life is SO very me-focused.

Though I have been on more than one date ( not much more 5 dates with 3 guys) I feel this is my future.

Real question (and not trying to be mean/snarky): why so few dates?

I actually didn't date or kiss anyone until I was a senior in college so I empathize with late bloomers and the overlooked!

[Anonymous]

I have two friends who are single moms by choice and both had their babies at 40, so I would assume that's around when they gave up.