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You don’t know what state the fetus was in. You don’t know what it looked like after it came out. Pregnancies are dated on a generalized idea that women ovulate 2 weeks after their period starts. You don’t know whether this woman conceived exactly at this point. Some of us have irregular periods and might conceive 3 or 4 weeks after our last period. Or even longer. You don’t know whether the fetus was growing slowly and measured behind. You don’t know how long this woman had even known she was pregnant. Leave her alone you creep. |
| I think folks should already know this but I’m case not: a baby/fetus that dies in utero and spends some time in the uterus before it’s stillborn does not look like a live-born preterm baby, especially not a live-born preterm baby that has been bathed and cleaned. |
I’m attacking the religious a-holes who prevented the doctors from doing their job. Keep your religion out of medical care. You are hurting women. |
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, you didn't see what the miscarried products of pregnancy of this woman looked like. You don't know exactly what gestational age it was (no, you do not) or when it stopped growing. The fetus wasn't cleaned up and put into a blanket by some medical professional, it was in a bowl of waste material and she took out what she thought was the fetus, though it turned out not to be. That doesn't indicate that there was some easily identifiable little human being in the gunk. You are making up lies about her. And she left after the hospital DID NOT GIVE HER A D&C. Why is it so hard for you people? Have you ever sat in a hospital er for 8 hours by yourself waiting to hear if the hospital is going to give you the treatment that your doctor says you need? Lots of people would leave in that situation, when it's unclear what is going to happen.
Some of us HAVE seen a fetus at 19-20 weeks as soon as it comes out and it's not for the faint of heart. The skin, the eyes, it can look like an alien, and can be especially disturbing all covered in blood and goo. It can be frightful and someone all alone faced with trying to figure out what to do with that, I make no judgment about. You, however, I do judge for being so totally devoid of sympathy for a woman going through such a heart wrenching situation. [/quote] Women aren’t pregnant with products, they are pregnant with their baby. The baby was large enough to not flush down a toilet and every new article states that the baby was approximately 22 weeks old. That’s what the media outlets are reporting. The reason this woman was alone was because she left the hospital twice against doctor’s advice. She removed herself from the place she needed to be to get medical care. I have seen stillborn babies and experienced a late term miscarriage, you have no idea what other people have experienced. This woman was not sitting in an ER waiting room, she was in a hospital bed with an IV in her arm being monitored by medical professionals, and if she would have told her family she was pregnant and her life was in danger they could have been there with her and helped her. She refused to tell anyone. Something is wrong in her head. Don’t blather on about “trauma” because she was trying to keep a secret that almost killed her, and she is 34 years old. She is bearing down on 40 and her attorney called her a girl. [/quote] This was not a late term loss. It was 2nd trimester. Products of conception is a term used by medical professionals. Sorry that your loss did not lead you to become a more compassionate and empathetic human being. For me that has been the one saving grace of grief. There is no reason to persecute this woman for whatever she did that you perceive was bad judgment. |
This. I am glad she’s being prosecuted. The way she treated her baby and her lack of respect for life is disgusting. Can you imagine your own baby dying and putting him or her in the toilet?? If you’re defending flushing a precious baby down the toilet you should do some soul searching to see how you got to a point where you think that behavior is okay. |
Sitting around= admitted to the hospital, being monitored by medical professionals, big difference. Admitted to the hospital is not hanging out in the ER waiting room. There is a difference nobody here will admit to because it doesn’t fit their false narrative. This woman hid her pregnancy and the life threatening complications. Her life was in danger. Her baby died. Instead of accepting the treatment that would save her life, she committed to hiding a no -viable pregnancy. Emotionally it is hard but if a person decides to put their own life in danger, how can anyone help them? It has nothing to do with religion or laws because nobody is judging this woman in a religious context and the hospital had admitted her for treatment. |
What the hell is wrong with you ? Shame on you your mother raised an idiot and a uncaring uneducated sociopath How dare you judge her! How dare you bring your garbage uneducated crap to this forum. I am tired of women judging other women when it’s none of their business none zero . You have no idea what she was going through Go back to the hole you climbed out if your mother failed miserably |
She didn’t receive medical care because she left against the advice of the doctors who were treating her. No religious issues prevented her from receiving treatment, her overwhelming desire to hide her pregnancy caused her to flee from medical treatment. Notice she presented for a hair appointment but refused medical treatment. If you can show up to get your hair done, you can show up to save your life. The person that stopped her from receiving medical treatment was herself. |
Going to the hospital 3 times doesn't fit with your "hiding" complications narrative, but ok. I assume you also don't know that at 20 some odd weeks doctors can't do anything to save your pregnancy. Induction of birth = death hence why the doctors wouldn't help her despite the fact that the out come without induction could be her death too. |
A 22 week old fetus is not viable. If born at a NICU, with the highest trained experts available to IMMEDIATELY wrap in plastic, insert lines and a breathing tube, and start compressions, and use all the mediations available -- not viable. Under the best circumstances, the limits of viability are 23-24 weeks gestation. You know that, right? Or are you speaking from ignorance? |
So much gaslighting. No. Religious a-holes prevented her doctors from providing her appropriate medical care. And religious a-holes continue to persecute her because they are ignorant, judgmental jerks. I think some of you get off on the suffering of women. Go to hell. |
She couldn’t accept the treatment that would save her life — a D&C — because the hospital wouldn’t offer it to her. |
Yes, there is. You do not understand medical viability, and that shows in how you present yourself and your argument. That's a fault in both you and your case. |
Yes. |
8 hours is a long time to sit around not knowing what the hospital is going to Don Stop with your judgy yammering about her hair appointment. You really are callous. You might benefit from some empathy training. |