What is sex like with your spouse after an affair?

[Anonymous]

I have never had an affair and I cannot imagine being with someone other than my husband. What is it like to have sex with an affair partner and then have sex with your spouse?

Do you feel...gross? bored?

[Anonymous]

My ex didn’t seem to have a problem. Still multiple times a week in all varieties, speed, kinks. So nasty and violating when I found out about the affair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have never had an affair and I cannot imagine being with someone other than my husband. What is it like to have sex with an affair partner and then have sex with your spouse?

Do you feel...gross? bored?

Yes and yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My ex didn’t seem to have a problem. Still multiple times a week in all varieties, speed, kinks. So nasty and violating when I found out about the affair.

That’s men for you. They compartmentalize. They can have sex with an AP and turn off like she doesn’t exist as soon as they leave the hotel.

Most women can’t do the same.

It also follows that women are generally unhappy in their marriages and looking for an exit. Men just variety.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My ex didn’t seem to have a problem. Still multiple times a week in all varieties, speed, kinks. So nasty and violating when I found out about the affair.

That’s men for you. They compartmentalize. They can have sex with an AP and turn off like she doesn’t exist as soon as they leave the hotel.

Most women can’t do the same.

It also follows that women are generally unhappy in their marriages and looking for an exit. Men just variety.

That’s why massage parlors, prostitutes/escorts are a lucrative business. Men are different.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My ex didn’t seem to have a problem. Still multiple times a week in all varieties, speed, kinks. So nasty and violating when I found out about the affair.

That’s men for you. They compartmentalize. They can have sex with an AP and turn off like she doesn’t exist as soon as they leave the hotel.

Most women can’t do the same.

It also follows that women are generally unhappy in their marriages and looking for an exit. Men just variety.

That’s why massage parlors, prostitutes/escorts are a lucrative business. Men are different.

So the women in poly relationships are forced to be in a poly variety loving relationship?

[Anonymous]

At the beginning of my affair, I was horny 24/7, so I actually enjoyed having sex with my husband. I also got off on being with AP during the day and H at night. But after a couple months of that, the nonstop horniness subsided and the differences between their bodies and skills became glaring. AP's equipment was much larger and he knew my body better after a few months than H did after 20 years. H became revolting to me. Hes now my ex-H and I'm still having the most incredible sex with my AP/boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:At the beginning of my affair, I was horny 24/7, so I actually enjoyed having sex with my husband. I also got off on being with AP during the day and H at night.[b] But after a couple months of that, the nonstop horniness subsided and the differences between their bodies and skills became glaring. AP's equipment was much larger and he knew my body better after a few months than H did after 20 years. H became revolting to me. Hes now my ex-H and I'm still having the most incredible sex with my AP/boyfriend.

Nasty for your husband. Way to expose him to diseases

[Anonymous]

I had a hall pass and a lot of times I'd spend the night with my AP. It could get confusing for those first few seconds waking up until I realized whose bed I was in.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:At the beginning of my affair, I was horny 24/7, so I actually enjoyed having sex with my husband. I also got off on being with AP during the day and H at night. But after a couple months of that, the nonstop horniness subsided and the differences between their bodies and skills became glaring. AP's equipment was much larger and he knew my body better after a few months than H did after 20 years. H became revolting to me. Hes now my ex-H and I'm still having the most incredible sex with my AP/boyfriend.

Was the size difference that noticeable?

[Anonymous]

I felt like I was cheating on my AP the one time I had sex witch my ex H. Yes it was gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My ex didn’t seem to have a problem. Still multiple times a week in all varieties, speed, kinks. So nasty and violating when I found out about the affair.

That’s men for you. They compartmentalize. They can have sex with an AP and turn off like she doesn’t exist as soon as they leave the hotel.

Most women can’t do the same.

It also follows that women are generally unhappy in their marriages and looking for an exit. Men just variety.

How do you know the spouse was a man? Talk about typical man hating. It's sad to read.

[Anonymous]

Sex with the cheating spouse is forever contaminated, angry and rare. Think twice cheaters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I felt like I was cheating on my AP the one time I had sex witch my ex H. Yes it was gross.

I guarantee your AP did not feel the same way. Men are different. No matter what he told you, he was boning his wife.

As a wife, it was absolutely DISGUSTING to find out my Ex was boning someone when we were still having sex multiple times per week. NASTY.

[Anonymous]

We were still having sex regularly and she often initiated. Looking back, she did get more interested in doing other things and became more vocal, fun in bed. Once I found out about the affair (not her first) we separated.