
I confess I did not marry my DH because he is smart (though he is), or caring (though he is), or funny (though he is). I had many smart, caring, and funny suitors. No, what tipped the scales, what was really the sole determining factor I confess - was his race. He is Asian. I am white. I grew up in Hawaii, and always thought the Hapa children (mixed race) were unspeakably beautiful. Everything worked according to plan, as my Hapa children are otherwordly handsome and beautiful. I love my husband now. But I did not when we married. I confess. |
My husband and I earn 160K per year and we are about 2 weeks away from foreclosure on our house. |
Sorry to hear it, pp! Good luck! |
16:24, you should call NeighborWorks or another community housing organization to see if they can help you work with your lender. Groups like NeighborWorks have set up units to help people in your situation. |
I married my husband because he loved me. |
I confess that my sex life is so boring that I think about cheating all the time. The sex is so boring that it actually kills my libido. I would never, ever cheat though. I love DH dearly and we have an amazing friendship-based life together. I just really wish we could make it spicy but after 13 years together, it seems ridiculous to discuss (tho sadly, I've tried a few times.) |
Have you tried tying him to the bed? Tease him until he can stand it no more and then have your way with him. Sounds like its high time for drastic measures. |
Really? What if DH laughs at me? I was a total kink in my hayday - which is what makes my boring sex life just that much worse now - but DH is pretty vanilla. You know, before we got married I just thought he was 'shy' and that he'd get over it after we got married. Wroooong. |
If he laughs at you, smack him with one of those dominatrix hand smackers, blind fold him and and tell him to shut up. Then have your way with him. OMG I am LMAO as I type this. |
You certainly made me smile, that's for sure. I also cracked myself up picturing my 7-month pregnant body in a nighty that rides up over my belly, trying to defile my straight-laced hubby. Hey, it you can't make fun of yourself... right? |
I confess that I am a nanny and I HATE my DB with a fiery passion. He has ruined this position for me. And he is ruining his childrens' and wife's lifes. His children will end up in therapy or totally fucked up because of him. And the worst part of it is he's totally clueless, you can tell him a million times what he is doing is wrong and why, and it just doesn't register, or change his behavior.
I absolutely love the mom and the kids and I hope for her sake (and the kids) she divorces DB because then everyone would be much better off. |
I love my dh, we are happy in love, dd#2 on the way, but I love his penis most of all. If it weren't for his big cock, we wouldn't be as happy as we are. He keeps me happy which makes me keep him happy in return-my ex boyfriends had tiny ones and I was always a nasty bitch. I thank my lucky stars every day! |
Good grief, I could cop to about half the things on here.
How about, I had an abortion at 24 when I was dating the love of my life. Now I am 32 and in a loveless marriage with Mr. Wrong raising a disabled (but wonderful) 2 year old. Totally the universe getting me back. |
You are wrong *Hugs* |
My ex from my early 20s still makes my heart go aflutter. |