Drafted letter to other woman’s husband

[Anonymous]

Would you send via email or certified letter (signature required)? It was a multi-year affair, unprotected sex. He deserves to know.

[Anonymous]

Why do you assume he doesn't already know?

[Anonymous]

Gross
But hey misery loves company

[Anonymous]

Both.

[Anonymous]

You look weak doing it. He is not your problem. What he deserves is not up to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Both.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do you assume he doesn't already know?

She’s had multiple and is a pathological, manipulative liar. He’s clueless. She plans to divorce him and make him think it’s his fault.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You look weak doing it. He is not your problem. What he deserves is not up to you.

Who cares about "looking weak"?

I'd want to know.

[Anonymous]

I would stay out of it. Why bring another person's problems into your life? But if you must, then sure certified mail

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You look weak doing it. He is not your problem. What he deserves is not up to you.

Who cares about "looking weak"?

I'd want to know.

I think ethically it’s the right thing to do. Weak is burying your head in the sand, not this.

I’d want to know too.

[Anonymous]

You’ll look pathetic. This won’t be the dramatic moment you’re looking for. Have you left yet, or still making excuses on why you can’t?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would stay out of it. Why bring another person's problems into your life? But if you must, then sure certified mail

She brought herself into OP’s life.

[Anonymous]

OP, cheaters will tell you not to do this. It’s the right thing to do. Read “surviving infidelity” and “betrayed wives” blogs. They advise doing this.

[Anonymous]

Don’t do it. Looks pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Can you do it anonymously?