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She wasn’t denied a d and c, she left the hospital twice against medical advice. She denied herself medical care. |
She was admitted but left against doctor advice. |
Don’t even try with actual facts. Most on this thread have created a narrative, and they’re sticking to it. |
Have you had a miscarriage that far along? Brittany sat at the Catholic hospital for 8 hours waiting to be treated while staff debated whether they could do an abortion. I don't blame her for leaving. I miscarried at 11 weeks, was in a lot if pain and was waiting at the hospital for a D&C. I kept getting bumped because emergency cases kept coming in and the OR wasn't available my D&C. I was miserable. Staff said I could go home if I'd be more comfortable and they'd call me in the morning to come for the procedure. Believe you me, if I'd had to sit there was 8 hours like Brittany did while staff were dickering over whether I could get a D&C or not, I might have left like she did. That hospital failured her repeatedly. |
Because of sitting around for 8 hours while an “ethics” board dithered abiut allowing doctors to do what they should have done immediately. |
The FACTS that in any sane state at a non-Catholic hospital she would have been given a D&C immediately. Have you ever had to sit around for 8 hours in a hospital bleeding and in pain, waiting to hear if the doctors are allowed to give you the treatment you needed? If not then STFU. You don’t know what that’s like. |
Did they give her a D&C when the doctor said she needed one? Well, did they? |
Your lack of empathy and inability to put yourself in her frame of mind is duly noted |
+1 The religious nutters blocked her medical care. |
We’re you there with her when the fetus finally was expelled from her vagina? We’re you there when she fished out what SHE thought were the remains but turned out it wasn’t so how easy was it to identify the fetus. You don’t actually know what the fetus looked like. You don’t actually know of the fetus was 22 weeks. Because pregnancies are dated from a woman’s period not from the moment of conception. And some fetuses grow more slowly than others especially if there was a problem. I had twins that were sized 2 weeks apart yet they were conceived via IVF on the same day. Bottom line — You Were Not There. It’s just mind boggling how you go on and on without any actual understanding of how traumatizing it is to be bleeding and in pain for days while losing a pregnancy. I’ve been there and have so much rage for this woman. You have no idea what it’s like to go through something like this alone. And yes people try to put on a brave face during adversity. So what. Most of us with human dna understand that. You are clearly missing some kind of empathy gene. |
Good lord you typed this out in the middle of your screed and don’t even seem to realize what you are saying. Being induced for l&d which could put you at significant risk for death is NOT the same thing as getting a D&C which is fast and safer. Are you this clueless about everything? Please share with us your near death experience giving birth or miscarrying |
DP. This is true. It’s also true that the above is the other side of the story. Everyone on here immediately jumped to a certain conclusion. My reaction was, “wow this is strange and there must be more to this story.” Sure enough, there is. |
Go ahead. Dig your heels in. You are the only one that has all the facts. |
| Another way to figure out there’s more to this story is that thousands of women in Ohio have stillbirths every year. They are not prosecuted. Why this woman? Is there something unique about this case? Oh yes - she told people her dead baby was in a bucket in her backyard. |
Stop lying. According to published news reports, she WAS denied a d&c when she first went to the hospital. They knew the fetus was not viable and she had signs of an infection. Instead of immediately scheduling the d&c, they left her there while the hospital ethics committee debated whether she was sick enough to get it, since the fetus still had a heartbeat. |