Anonymous wrote:I'm a bit spoiled/high maintenance and happily married (no problem dating before). I have always had a good career and been able to afford my own stuff but I have expensive taste and grew up without money being a concern.
The most high maintenance thing about me is that I need a lot of sleep (8-9 hours every night, 10 on weekends) and 90 minutes a day for exercise to be cheerful and happy. He facilitates that, and in exchange gets an enthusiastic, fun partner who is in great shape, makes good money, and still loves jumping into bed with him multiple times per week. I also care about having high quality products, but in my experience it hasn't been an issue for men because I can afford them myself and don't have the expectation that they will pay my way through life.
From what I have seen, the men who are attracted to women who are spoiled in a materialistic way - high end designer clothes, jewelry, luxury vehicles - expect the trade off to be that they have the upper hand in the relationship OR are really 'givers' and like to take care of someone.
Exactly. It's not really spoiling if indeed it has the price of submissiveness.
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