Any men attracted to spoiled women?

[Anonymous]

This thread is the epitome of the bottom of the barrel worst of DCUM - and society, for that matter. Sons, run, don't walk!

These byotches have you claiming bankruptcy, maybe ten times over, in no time! What kind of "life" if that??

AWFUL.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

High standards when it comes to everything. I’m not insufferable, though, and am very grateful and positive. I attract men who are natural providers and are happy to spoil me. I think there’s a large swath of men who wouldn’t like my standards.

Example: my ex-husband took me to Italy when we were dating. My ex-boyfriend took me to Bermuda. Just yesterday my current boyfriend bought me an iPhone (smaller example, but my point is - they just do these things. I don’t ask, and I don’t *have* to ask.)

So you are materialistic. There's plenty of materialistic couples, OP.

It’s not just that (though yes, I am). I don’t respond in kind. I don’t get them extravagant gifts. THEY treat ME.

Yes, but being materialistic does not equal high standards. Women have had sugar daddies since the dawn of time, nothing unique or special about that.

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Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

High standards when it comes to everything. I’m not insufferable, though, and am very grateful and positive. I attract men who are natural providers and are happy to spoil me. I think there’s a large swath of men who wouldn’t like my standards.

Example: my ex-husband took me to Italy when we were dating. My ex-boyfriend took me to Bermuda. Just yesterday my current boyfriend bought me an iPhone (smaller example, but my point is - they just do these things. I don’t ask, and I don’t *have* to ask.)

So you are materialistic. There's plenty of materialistic couples, OP.

It’s not just that (though yes, I am). I don’t respond in kind. I don’t get them extravagant gifts. THEY treat ME.

Yes, but being materialistic does not equal high standards. Women have had sugar daddies since the dawn of time, nothing unique or special about that.

I agree that there’s nothing unique or special about having a sugar daddy. I am not a sugar baby.

I’m a divorced mom in my thirties with a master's degree and my own money. My exes and my current are men with whom I share(d) real commitment.

I still have high standards which are met (and exceeded) regularly. I don’t just mean financially/materially: also in terms of looks, character, education, career, intellect, humor, and sexual performance.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Based on what I have observed: they are absolutely attracted, long term relationship or marriage no, that schtick gets old

I’m extremely spoiled and high maintenance and got married 3 times before marrying my husband of 10 years. And now more spoiled than ever.

I think the secret is spoiled women who are also grateful and happy are gratifying. Compare to women I know who, when they get a gift from their husbands, complain about how the money could have been used better on something more practical. A woman who wants to be spoiled but also makes spoiling her a rewarding and pleasant experience is fun to date/marry. Of course a woman for whom nothing is ever good enough would get old quick.

Fourth time is the charm!

Omg typo. PROPOSED TO not married.

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Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

High standards when it comes to everything. I’m not insufferable, though, and am very grateful and positive. I attract men who are natural providers and are happy to spoil me. I think there’s a large swath of men who wouldn’t like my standards.

Example: my ex-husband took me to Italy when we were dating. My ex-boyfriend took me to Bermuda. Just yesterday my current boyfriend bought me an iPhone (smaller example, but my point is - they just do these things. I don’t ask, and I don’t *have* to ask.)

So you are materialistic. There's plenty of materialistic couples, OP.

It’s not just that (though yes, I am). I don’t respond in kind. I don’t get them extravagant gifts. THEY treat ME.

Yes, but being materialistic does not equal high standards. Women have had sugar daddies since the dawn of time, nothing unique or special about that.

I agree that there’s nothing unique or special about having a sugar daddy. I am not a sugar baby.

I’m a divorced mom in my thirties with a master's degree and my own money. My exes and my current are men with whom I share(d) real commitment.

I still have high standards which are met (and exceeded) regularly. I don’t just mean financially/materially: also in terms of looks, character, education, career, intellect, humor, and sexual performance.

And yet you seem so empty.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

High standards when it comes to everything. I’m not insufferable, though, and am very grateful and positive. I attract men who are natural providers and are happy to spoil me. I think there’s a large swath of men who wouldn’t like my standards.

Example: my ex-husband took me to Italy when we were dating. My ex-boyfriend took me to Bermuda. Just yesterday my current boyfriend bought me an iPhone (smaller example, but my point is - they just do these things. I don’t ask, and I don’t *have* to ask.)

So you are materialistic. There's plenty of materialistic couples, OP.

It’s not just that (though yes, I am). I don’t respond in kind. I don’t get them extravagant gifts. THEY treat ME.

Yes, but being materialistic does not equal high standards. Women have had sugar daddies since the dawn of time, nothing unique or special about that.

I agree that there’s nothing unique or special about having a sugar daddy. I am not a sugar baby.

I’m a divorced mom in my thirties with a master's degree and my own money. My exes and my current are men with whom I share(d) real commitment.

I still have high standards which are met (and exceeded) regularly. I don’t just mean financially/materially: also in terms of looks, character, education, career, intellect, humor, and sexual performance.

And yet you seem so empty.

And yet you’re a loser trolling a stranger on a website meant for women

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Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

High standards when it comes to everything. I’m not insufferable, though, and am very grateful and positive. I attract men who are natural providers and are happy to spoil me. I think there’s a large swath of men who wouldn’t like my standards.

Example: my ex-husband took me to Italy when we were dating. My ex-boyfriend took me to Bermuda. Just yesterday my current boyfriend bought me an iPhone (smaller example, but my point is - they just do these things. I don’t ask, and I don’t *have* to ask.)

So you are materialistic. There's plenty of materialistic couples, OP.

It’s not just that (though yes, I am). I don’t respond in kind. I don’t get them extravagant gifts. THEY treat ME.

Yes, but being materialistic does not equal high standards. Women have had sugar daddies since the dawn of time, nothing unique or special about that.

I agree that there’s nothing unique or special about having a sugar daddy. I am not a sugar baby.

I’m a divorced mom in my thirties with a master's degree and my own money. My exes and my current are men with whom I share(d) real commitment.

I still have high standards which are met (and exceeded) regularly. I don’t just mean financially/materially: also in terms of looks, character, education, career, intellect, humor, and sexual performance.

And yet you seem so empty.

And yet you’re a loser trolling a stranger on a website meant for women

The site is not meant for women. The very first thing you listed as showing you had standards was materialistic stuff. You just come across as empty who uses men and things to feel a void.

[Anonymous]

Men love these type of women bc it usually means they come from wealthy families.

I call bs on anything else.

[Anonymous]

I think men who get a rush from showing off their wealth on their partner do. They see these women as fancy things they can afford and often talk pretty openly about the things they buy for the women they are seeing.

Most men are not like this but some are. These types of men and women tend to find each other fairly easily.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men love these type of women bc it usually means they come from wealthy families.

I call bs on anything else.

I don’t care about the money part. I want a woman who actually knows how to dress for an event, isn’t intimidated by nice things/places, has some standards when they aren’t out in public, can walk into any situation a feel comfortable. These are typically woman with self confidence.

[Anonymous]

High maintenance is fine as long as she is worth it. What does "worth it" mean? She brings to the relationship enough value to merit being high maintenance.

If you look like Minka Kelly, keep yourself in shape, be loyal, be a great wife, etc I don't care if you're high maintenance.

[Anonymous]

The hot, bratty sex kitten thing is a turn on. But it's a very specific kind of "spoiled" and it doesn't have much staying power.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

High standards when it comes to everything. I’m not insufferable, though, and am very grateful and positive. I attract men who are natural providers and are happy to spoil me. I think there’s a large swath of men who wouldn’t like my standards.

Example: my ex-husband took me to Italy when we were dating. My ex-boyfriend took me to Bermuda. Just yesterday my current boyfriend bought me an iPhone (smaller example, but my point is - they just do these things. I don’t ask, and I don’t *have* to ask.)

So you are materialistic. There's plenty of materialistic couples, OP.

It’s not just that (though yes, I am). I don’t respond in kind. I don’t get them extravagant gifts. THEY treat ME.

Yes, but being materialistic does not equal high standards. Women have had sugar daddies since the dawn of time, nothing unique or special about that.

I agree that there’s nothing unique or special about having a sugar daddy. I am not a sugar baby.

I’m a divorced mom in my thirties with a master's degree and my own money. My exes and my current are men with whom I share(d) real commitment.

I still have high standards which are met (and exceeded) regularly. I don’t just mean financially/materially: also in terms of looks, character, education, career, intellect, humor, and sexual performance.

you have money, but you expect people who sleep with you to 'spoil' you without reciprocation. Sugar baby is a kind word for it, really it's no different from any other woman turning tricks on the side

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is the epitome of the bottom of the barrel worst of DCUM - and society, for that matter. Sons, run, don't walk!

These byotches have you claiming bankruptcy, maybe ten times over, in no time! What kind of "life" if that??

AWFUL.

I think they are legends in their own mind. "I attract a lot of men". Who? Where? Some guy give you the time of day on a supermarket line and you are being hit on? Phleeeze.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

High standards when it comes to everything. I’m not insufferable, though, and am very grateful and positive. I attract men who are natural providers and are happy to spoil me. I think there’s a large swath of men who wouldn’t like my standards.

Example: my ex-husband took me to Italy when we were dating. My ex-boyfriend took me to Bermuda. Just yesterday my current boyfriend bought me an iPhone (smaller example, but my point is - they just do these things. I don’t ask, and I don’t *have* to ask.)

So you are materialistic. There's plenty of materialistic couples, OP.

It’s not just that (though yes, I am). I don’t respond in kind. I don’t get them extravagant gifts. THEY treat ME.

Yes, but being materialistic does not equal high standards. Women have had sugar daddies since the dawn of time, nothing unique or special about that.

I agree that there’s nothing unique or special about having a sugar daddy. I am not a sugar baby.

I’m a divorced mom in my thirties with a master's degree and my own money. My exes and my current are men with whom I share(d) real commitment.

I still have high standards which are met (and exceeded) regularly. I don’t just mean financially/materially: also in terms of looks, character, education, career, intellect, humor, and sexual performance.

And yet you seem so empty.

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No one is that hot. Plus, the guy ends up paying for all this "maintenance" - it's draining - literally, emotionally and physically draining.