Any men attracted to spoiled women?

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Anonymous wrote:My sister is a SAHM and has a full time nanny and maid who comes in every week to clean the house. She gets someone to cook 2-3 times a week also!

She is quite beautiful and she spends hours working out and taking good care of her looks.

I always envy her when we visit them.

This sounds so incredibly boring to me. Different strokes for different folks though

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Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

High standards when it comes to everything. I’m not insufferable, though, and am very grateful and positive. I attract men who are natural providers and are happy to spoil me. I think there’s a large swath of men who wouldn’t like my standards.

Example: my ex-husband took me to Italy when we were dating. My ex-boyfriend took me to Bermuda. Just yesterday my current boyfriend bought me an iPhone (smaller example, but my point is - they just do these things. I don’t ask, and I don’t *have* to ask.)

So you are materialistic. There's plenty of materialistic couples, OP.

It’s not just that (though yes, I am). I don’t respond in kind. I don’t get them extravagant gifts. THEY treat ME.

Yes, but being materialistic does not equal high standards. Women have had sugar daddies since the dawn of time, nothing unique or special about that.

I agree that there’s nothing unique or special about having a sugar daddy. I am not a sugar baby.

I’m a divorced mom in my thirties with a master's degree and my own money. My exes and my current are men with whom I share(d) real commitment.

I still have high standards which are met (and exceeded) regularly. I don’t just mean financially/materially: also in terms of looks, character, education, career, intellect, humor, and sexual performance.

Then why the divorce then?

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Men do tend to link "petiteness" with "femininity." I think that the element of dependence is very attractive to certain kinds of men. It reflects status in the same way that leaving a huge tip does in an expensive restaurant. There is beauty in frivolity and superfluity (case in point: the beauty industry). Having a wife who never gets Palmolive hands is a sign of success.

The real question is whether the petted princess wives have, on average, better sex lives than the rest of us. I imagine they do.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is ignoring the fact that everyone has different love languages and different dynamics in their relationships. To assume someone is “jealous” because they aren’t spoiled is silly and myopic. But I expect no less than this from DCUM.

+1000. Some people treat either giving or receiving gifts as a love language. Other people couldn't care less and need acts of service or verbal affirmation or physical touch. When a woman whose love language is gifts pairs up with a man whose love language is physical touch, and they both meet each other's needs, it's not freaking prostitution. It's a healthy balance and they should both be thrilled. Of course it's also not true that a woman whose love language is not gifts is "not hot enough" or enough of a sex kitten or whatever to get what she deserves out of a man. So the women bragging about being spoiled as if they're superior are missing the point just as much as the replies calling them sugar babies.

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Anonymous wrote:American divorce rates explained partially in this thread.

Lol

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

Sure, if our 10k sqft house and live in housekeeper are MC then we are MC.

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

Sure, if our 10k sqft house and live in housekeeper are MC then we are MC.

You sound Ohio rich

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

Sure, if our 10k sqft house and live in housekeeper are MC then we are MC.

You sound Ohio rich

We live in Great Falls.

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Anonymous wrote:High maintenance here and have always attracted a lot of men. I don’t think men are necessarily attracted to the high maintenance aspect as they are to my self-confidence. I’m also hot and fun, so that helps.

In what ways are you high maintenance?

High standards when it comes to everything. I’m not insufferable, though, and am very grateful and positive. I attract men who are natural providers and are happy to spoil me. I think there’s a large swath of men who wouldn’t like my standards.

Example: my ex-husband took me to Italy when we were dating. My ex-boyfriend took me to Bermuda. Just yesterday my current boyfriend bought me an iPhone (smaller example, but my point is - they just do these things. I don’t ask, and I don’t *have* to ask.)

Oh come on. Your pu$$y is asking for things.

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

Sure, if our 10k sqft house and live in housekeeper are MC then we are MC.

You sound Ohio rich

LOL!

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

Sure, if our 10k sqft house and live in housekeeper are MC then we are MC.

You sound Ohio rich

LOL!

Lol lol lol! Ohio rich!

[Anonymous]

If my guy buddies are any indication: they are extremely attracted to a woman who presents herself as well put-together. Hair always 'done', manicured nails, always dressed to show off her figure rather than for comfort.

Then when they get together, the sex is apparently great for a while, but soon they start complaining about how high maintenance she is. Wears heels to a picnic in the park and then complains about having trouble walking in the grass. Expects them to always carry her luggage if they go on a trip. Demands at least an hour to get ready before they can go out anywhere, even just a neighborhood restaurant for a weeknight dinner.

They don't seem to get the correlation between these two things. You can be physically attracted to someone but not be a good personality match. But if you keep going for the same type and keep getting the same result, you might want to look at why that is.

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Anonymous wrote:If my guy buddies are any indication: they are extremely attracted to a woman who presents herself as well put-together. Hair always 'done', manicured nails, always dressed to show off her figure rather than for comfort.

Then when they get together, the sex is apparently great for a while, but soon they start complaining about how high maintenance she is. Wears heels to a picnic in the park and then complains about having trouble walking in the grass. Expects them to always carry her luggage if they go on a trip. Demands at least an hour to get ready before they can go out anywhere, even just a neighborhood restaurant for a weeknight dinner.

They don't seem to get the correlation between these two things. You can be physically attracted to someone but not be a good personality match. But if you keep going for the same type and keep getting the same result, you might want to look at why that is.

There is a difference in high maintenance and spoiled.

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

Sure, if our 10k sqft house and live in housekeeper are MC then we are MC.

What is the purpose of your post? You want to brag to random strangers? Kudos! You have a man! You have kids! You have housekeeper! Congrats! (PS you do realize a good percentage of people posting here have all these things? Like PP said maybe not in Ohio, but this DMV)