If you're bothered by your kids entering the master bedroom, why?

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

That’s why people leave them inside their bedrooms. Are you locking up your vibrator in a gun case in the closet after each use?

It's not a joke, google "exposing a child to harmful materials" many cases related to sex toys.

You think a judge is going to put someone away because some grade schooler snooped through a neighbors master bedroom and found a vibrator? You think that’s what that law refers to? It refers to molestation and sexual abuse. Not nosy 2nd graders rifling through their friends moms bedside drawer.

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

It’s not a crime to leave a non-prescription bottle of laxatives out on your nightstand. If your brat comes into my bedroom without permission, after being told to stay out, and downs six Dulcolax, best of luck to you. I’ll turn him out in the front lawn, and you can come deal.

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Anonymous wrote:I came into this thread thinking it was about parents who didn't want their kids ever coming into the bedroom (which I thought was a little weird but hey, whatever works for your family), and I find it's about guest kids coming into the bedroom -- and some people are defending that! What.

My parents never explicitly told me not to go into adult bedrooms when I was a guest, but yet I still knew. Bedrooms are private and you don't go in unless invited. If was I over for a playdate then yes, I'd go into my friend's bedroom because she invited me there. I didn't go into a sibling's bedroom unless invited because that is a sibling's private space. Same for adult bedrooms.

People shouldn't even have to justify it with stating what's in there that's inappropriate or not. It could be pin straight out of better homes & gardens with no personal items whatsoever, it's still my private space.

Can't believe it's a question.

No kidding. Can you even imagine a grown adult thinking it's appropriate for their child to hang out in another adult's bedroom uninvited and unwanted?

I can't believe it's a question either.

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I don’t mind and never have. I keep inappropriate things put away. We leave our door open. My MB is open as well.

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

It’s not a crime to leave a non-prescription bottle of laxatives out on your nightstand. If your brat comes into my bedroom without permission, after being told to stay out, and downs six Dulcolax, best of luck to you. I’ll turn him out in the front lawn, and you can come deal.

You forbid your kid from your room because of laxatives?

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Anonymous wrote:Because my jewelry is in there, and some expensive handbags and shoes, and my more precious breakable items, such as a small lamp that has been in my family for generations.

I don’t want kids who are not my own in my room. My kids definitely know not to touch the lamp, for example. They’ve been given the rules not to touch my jewelry without asking me first, whereas another kid might be allowed to get in her mother’s jewelry.

My house, my rules. Why do you care about my preferences for my home?

Couldn’t you say that about a living room or a den?

I don’t have sex nightly in my den and I don’t keep my personal medical supplies in my den. If you can’t tell the difference between walking into someone’s den and walking into the closed master bedroom when you’re visiting someone’s home, I can’t help you.

But you do have breakables in the den, your reason for not letting someone in there

Why not say I have cum stains on my bed and I don’t want people to see them if that’s the reason… why say you have breakables.

Also medication you are afraid kids will condume sure should be locked up.

It’s in the medicine cabinet IN THE MASTER BEDROOM, so no, I don’t expect my 3rd graders friends to be playing in there and discussing my vitamin regimen. If you think this is somehow appropriate and not rude beyond all belief, again, I can’t help you. A den or a family room is normal to enter while visiting a home. The master bedroom, and the medicine cabinet in this example, are not.

OMG! Are you crazy. You have not taught your children to stay out of peoples dens? That is where they keep important papers! I’m appalled you have not taught your children that.

P.S. vitamins? We know you meant Xanax

You really are having a hard time with the concept of “Public” and “private” areas of a home when you visit. I don’t know anyone in real life this boundary challenged.

And since when is taking certain medications something to be used as an insult? It’s 2021. Do you also still describe things as “gay”?

No I’m not! My den has important papers and my living room has priceless art.

You are having a hard time understanding I have boundaries and you are too invasive and rude to understand them.

Then if you told me I was not to enter these rooms when I came into your home, I wouldn’t, and same with my kids (unlike the post this is based on where the kid continues to enter the bedroom after being told not to). But walking into someone’s living room is not typically considered an invasion of privacy and to liken it to opening medicine cabinets in the master bedroom is laughable

You are low-class and I’d have nothing to do with you.

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

I’m not leaving my bottle of lube “out for children” it’s in my bedside table drawer. If your 8 year old opens up that drawer and finds it, that’s on her and on you, not on me.

An attorney would argue that it should be locked up. Again see the laws on exposing a child to harmful materials

Omg no attorney is going to argue that Mrs Smith having drugstore lube that you don’t even have to be 18 to purchase , in her bathroom cabinet, is a crime. You are taking your bizarre argument too far with this one. Time to retire from the debate team.

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

It’s not a crime to leave a non-prescription bottle of laxatives out on your nightstand. If your brat comes into my bedroom without permission, after being told to stay out, and downs six Dulcolax, best of luck to you. I’ll turn him out in the front lawn, and you can come deal.

Your poor kids. Don’t call any kid a brat.

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Anonymous wrote:I came into this thread thinking it was about parents who didn't want their kids ever coming into the bedroom (which I thought was a little weird but hey, whatever works for your family), and I find it's about guest kids coming into the bedroom -- and some people are defending that! What.

My parents never explicitly told me not to go into adult bedrooms when I was a guest, but yet I still knew. Bedrooms are private and you don't go in unless invited. If was I over for a playdate then yes, I'd go into my friend's bedroom because she invited me there. I didn't go into a sibling's bedroom unless invited because that is a sibling's private space. Same for adult bedrooms.

People shouldn't even have to justify it with stating what's in there that's inappropriate or not. It could be pin straight out of better homes & gardens with no personal items whatsoever, it's still my private space.

Can't believe it's a question.

No kidding. Can you even imagine a grown adult thinking it's appropriate for their child to hang out in another adult's bedroom uninvited and unwanted?

I can't believe it's a question either.

People are talking about their own child. Not friends notvv be adult, their own children.

[Anonymous]

Keep all questionable items in a safe. We have safes they are cheap and effective.

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

It’s not a crime to leave a non-prescription bottle of laxatives out on your nightstand. If your brat comes into my bedroom without permission, after being told to stay out, and downs six Dulcolax, best of luck to you. I’ll turn him out in the front lawn, and you can come deal.

You forbid your kid from your room because of laxatives?

Nope. MY KIDS mind. So MY KIDS don’t fiddle with medicine bottles, prescription or not. Your brat enters my bedroom, even after being asked not to. Come and fetch him. Clean-up on the front lawn.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

It’s not a crime to leave a non-prescription bottle of laxatives out on your nightstand. If your brat comes into my bedroom without permission, after being told to stay out, and downs six Dulcolax, best of luck to you. I’ll turn him out in the front lawn, and you can come deal.

You forbid your kid from your room because of laxatives?

I also forbid my kids from the bathroom while I’m pooping. Do you not understand privacy?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

It’s not a crime to leave a non-prescription bottle of laxatives out on your nightstand. If your brat comes into my bedroom without permission, after being told to stay out, and downs six Dulcolax, best of luck to you. I’ll turn him out in the front lawn, and you can come deal.

Your poor kids. Don’t call any kid a brat.

Any kid who doesn’t mind an adult is a brat. If they are disabled to the point where they can’t mind, they can’t come visit without your supervision.

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

It’s not a crime to leave a non-prescription bottle of laxatives out on your nightstand. If your brat comes into my bedroom without permission, after being told to stay out, and downs six Dulcolax, best of luck to you. I’ll turn him out in the front lawn, and you can come deal.

You forbid your kid from your room because of laxatives?

Nope. MY KIDS mind. So MY KIDS don’t fiddle with medicine bottles, prescription or not. Your brat enters my bedroom, even after being asked not to. Come and fetch him. Clean-up on the front lawn.

Since the minors was under your car you'd be charged

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Anonymous wrote:I think this has been answered on this thread very well and I'm not sure why some people still can't get it.

Here's a list of things that we have (or could have) in our bedroom:
* prescriptions
* jewelry
* weapons
* sex toys
* gifts

Plus, like the other decent parents on this thread, we are raising our kids to be respectful of other people and to have basic manners.

Our kids know they can't come into the master unless they have permission to get something quickly or we're in there (in which case they know to wait at the door and check that it's okay to come in before they enter).

Our toddler still comes in whenever but from the age of 3 or so the kids are expected to respect the rules. They also can't go into each other's rooms without permission.

This is really basic parenting, IMO.

Your kids are too stupid to stay away from items you don’t want them to touch so you gave to forbid them from your bedroom.

There's something wrong with you.