If you're bothered by your kids entering the master bedroom, why?

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Anonymous wrote:Because my jewelry is in there, and some expensive handbags and shoes, and my more precious breakable items, such as a small lamp that has been in my family for generations.

I don’t want kids who are not my own in my room. My kids definitely know not to touch the lamp, for example. They’ve been given the rules not to touch my jewelry without asking me first, whereas another kid might be allowed to get in her mother’s jewelry.

My house, my rules. Why do you care about my preferences for my home?

Couldn’t you say that about a living room or a den?

I don’t have sex nightly in my den and I don’t keep my personal medical supplies in my den. If you can’t tell the difference between walking into someone’s den and walking into the closed master bedroom when you’re visiting someone’s home, I can’t help you.

But you do have breakables in the den, your reason for not letting someone in there

Why not say I have cum stains on my bed and I don’t want people to see them if that’s the reason… why say you have breakables.

Also medication you are afraid kids will condume sure should be locked up.

It’s in the medicine cabinet IN THE MASTER BEDROOM, so no, I don’t expect my 3rd graders friends to be playing in there and discussing my vitamin regimen. If you think this is somehow appropriate and not rude beyond all belief, again, I can’t help you. A den or a family room is normal to enter while visiting a home. The master bedroom, and the medicine cabinet in this example, are not.

OMG! Are you crazy. You have not taught your children to stay out of peoples dens? That is where they keep important papers! I’m appalled you have not taught your children that.

P.S. vitamins? We know you meant Xanax

You really are having a hard time with the concept of “Public” and “private” areas of a home when you visit. I don’t know anyone in real life this boundary challenged.

And since when is taking certain medications something to be used as an insult? It’s 2021. Do you also still describe things as “gay”?

No I’m not! My den has important papers and my living room has priceless art.

You are having a hard time understanding I have boundaries and you are too invasive and rude to understand them.

Then if you told me I was not to enter these rooms when I came into your home, I wouldn’t, and same with my kids (unlike the post this is based on where the kid continues to enter the bedroom after being told not to). But walking into someone’s living room is not typically considered an invasion of privacy and to liken it to opening medicine cabinets in the master bedroom is laughable

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Anonymous wrote:Fine with my kids entering the master while I’m there but not playing there alone. They are 2 and 4 and there are no toys so they’d just get into things they are not supposed to and likely make a mess.

During play dates I tell the kids the upstairs (where all the bedrooms are located) is off limits. All the toys are on the first floor in the playroom and I can better keep an eye on things.

Waiting for the responder to ask what on earth is in the master bedroom that your toddler is not supposed to get into, and why isn’t it locked up then, since you have to assume everyone who comes into your home sees no problem socializing in your master bedroom and looking through your things, what’s the difference between that and sitting in your kitchen or living room?

His will my friend to my makeup if she doesn’t walk through my bedroom to my bathroom?

Translate?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Fine with my kids entering the master while I’m there but not playing there alone. They are 2 and 4 and there are no toys so they’d just get into things they are not supposed to and likely make a mess.

During play dates I tell the kids the upstairs (where all the bedrooms are located) is off limits. All the toys are on the first floor in the playroom and I can better keep an eye on things.

Waiting for the responder to ask what on earth is in the master bedroom that your toddler is not supposed to get into, and why isn’t it locked up then, since you have to assume everyone who comes into your home sees no problem socializing in your master bedroom and looking through your things, what’s the difference between that and sitting in your kitchen or living room?

Haha, right? I’ll give one example in case they come for me: my two year old went into our master bathroom the other day and spread my expensive face cream all over himself as though it was sunscreen. I was changing the baby in the next room. It’s fine to own things you don’t want your kids to use and fine for your master to be a relaxing adult space where the kids can’t play.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Fine with my kids entering the master while I’m there but not playing there alone. They are 2 and 4 and there are no toys so they’d just get into things they are not supposed to and likely make a mess.

During play dates I tell the kids the upstairs (where all the bedrooms are located) is off limits. All the toys are on the first floor in the playroom and I can better keep an eye on things.

Waiting for the responder to ask what on earth is in the master bedroom that your toddler is not supposed to get into, and why isn’t it locked up then, since you have to assume everyone who comes into your home sees no problem socializing in your master bedroom and looking through your things, what’s the difference between that and sitting in your kitchen or living room?

Haha, right? I’ll give one example in case they come for me: my two year old went into our master bathroom the other day and spread my expensive face cream all over himself as though it was sunscreen. I was changing the baby in the next room. It’s fine to own things you don’t want your kids to use and fine for your master to be a relaxing adult space where the kids can’t play.

Wait are you saying your children aren’t allowed in your master bedroom. WTF?

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

No, leaving these things out aren't "crimes."

But I am in the "locked bedroom" camp when I have any kids over. Other children may not have been trained to only stay in their own bedroom, and may not be smart enough not to touch medication or sex toys or guns.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

That’s why people leave them inside their bedrooms. Are you locking up your vibrator in a gun case in the closet after each use?

[Anonymous]

Medications, drugs, firearms, classified documents and sex objects are to be stored away from children by lock and key. It's the law dumnasses

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Medications, drugs, firearms, classified documents and sex objects are to be stored away from children by lock and key. It's the law dumnasses

This is false. It is not illegal to keep Motrin on the bathroom shelf.

[Anonymous]

I think this has been answered on this thread very well and I'm not sure why some people still can't get it.

Here's a list of things that we have (or could have) in our bedroom:
* prescriptions
* jewelry
* weapons
* sex toys
* gifts

Plus, like the other decent parents on this thread, we are raising our kids to be respectful of other people and to have basic manners.

Our kids know they can't come into the master unless they have permission to get something quickly or we're in there (in which case they know to wait at the door and check that it's okay to come in before they enter).

Our toddler still comes in whenever but from the age of 3 or so the kids are expected to respect the rules. They also can't go into each other's rooms without permission.

This is really basic parenting, IMO.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

I’m not leaving my bottle of lube “out for children” it’s in my bedside table drawer. If your 8 year old opens up that drawer and finds it, that’s on her and on you, not on me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

That’s why people leave them inside their bedrooms. Are you locking up your vibrator in a gun case in the closet after each use?

It's not a joke, google "exposing a child to harmful materials" many cases related to sex toys.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

Lololol it’s not a crime to have “personal lubrication” on your night stand, grandpa

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have to ask? It's an adults bedroom. I could have a vibrator, a gun or drugs on my nightstand. I shouldn't have guest children in my bedroom. I telly kids all the time my bedroom is an adult space. They don't listen of course and like to snuggle with us but there is a big difference if I'm there. I'm being extreme but I just don't feel an adult bedroom is a place for children especially children that aren't mine.

I don't want kids in my children's bedroom let alone my own bedroom.

All of those items are negligence and us illegal moron

My vibrator and my daily medications are illegal? And negligent to keep in my nightstand of my adult bedroom? Interesting. Ok.

Yes it is negligence to leave sexual objects out to children, it is also negligent to leave prescription drugs out as well. Both are crimes.

I’m not leaving my bottle of lube “out for children” it’s in my bedside table drawer. If your 8 year old opens up that drawer and finds it, that’s on her and on you, not on me.

An attorney would argue that it should be locked up. Again see the laws on exposing a child to harmful materials

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think this has been answered on this thread very well and I'm not sure why some people still can't get it.

Here's a list of things that we have (or could have) in our bedroom:
* prescriptions
* jewelry
* weapons
* sex toys
* gifts

Plus, like the other decent parents on this thread, we are raising our kids to be respectful of other people and to have basic manners.

Our kids know they can't come into the master unless they have permission to get something quickly or we're in there (in which case they know to wait at the door and check that it's okay to come in before they enter).

Our toddler still comes in whenever but from the age of 3 or so the kids are expected to respect the rules. They also can't go into each other's rooms without permission.

This is really basic parenting, IMO.

Your kids are too stupid to stay away from items you don’t want them to touch so you gave to forbid them from your bedroom.