Husband gave sex ultimatum

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's cheating on you. His new hair is for whomever he's sleeping with, he's exaggerating his low libido, and he can't get it up because he's no longer attracted to you.

+1

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this guy even taking propecia? So he can be more attractive to a woman who only wants sex a couple of times a year?

Maybe he would like to have hair for his own self image? I mean, that’s probably taken a beating by having a partner that doesn’t want sex so at least he can have a head of hair that makes him happy every day.

Apparently he doesn't mind walking around every day knowing that his dick is dead, which would certainly make me unhappy.

Maybe he has an awesome array of toys for himself?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you don't satisfy your man, it will be easier for him to find another woman.

Good thing you opened up a 1.5 year old thread for those wise words.

[Anonymous]

I can relate to OP's husband. My wife asked me to get a vasectomy. At the time we were having sex once a year, maybe less. I told her no, for once a year sex, we can use condoms, refrain from PIV, etc.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this guy even taking propecia? So he can be more attractive to a woman who only wants sex a couple of times a year?

Maybe he would like to have hair for his own self image? I mean, that’s probably taken a beating by having a partner that doesn’t want sex so at least he can have a head of hair that makes him happy every day.

Apparently he doesn't mind walking around every day knowing that his dick is dead, which would certainly make me unhappy.

If it’s not being used for years on end, what does it really matter?

[Anonymous]

Has OP returned at all???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Has OP returned at all???

From March 2021? Probably at some point, but this was a 15 month old dead thread until today.

[Anonymous]

Just forget about sex. Read books and go the movies.

[Anonymous]

Your husband is right. Not worth it for a few times a year.

[Anonymous]

Op, how old are you and your DH?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:His hair is way more important than sex 2-4 times a year. Have him talk to his doctor about what to do to keep both. Or suggest other alternatives. Erectionbis not necessary. Or maybe he would be fine with you getting a side piece, since it doesn't seem like it would disrupt that much.

You can't keep both.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Propecia is no joke. It absolutely killed my libido.

Did it come back when you stopped taking it? Did you stop?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow...a man who would rather have hair than sex. Girl, I don't know what to tell you especially since you only want it once every six months.

But, that's not the choice he made. He's barely having sex with her no matter what, so he chose to have hair with his pathetic sex life. Or, he could have no hair and a pathetic sex life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, how old are you and your DH?

Well they're both a year older than when see started the thread.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this guy even taking propecia? So he can be more attractive to a woman who only wants sex a couple of times a year?

Maybe he would like to have hair for his own self image? I mean, that’s probably taken a beating by having a partner that doesn’t want sex so at least he can have a head of hair that makes him happy every day.

Apparently he doesn't mind walking around every day knowing that his dick is dead, which would certainly make me unhappy.

If it’s not being used for years on end, what does it really matter?

After my heart attack, I was on meds that killed my libido. I was single at the time, and was not even trying to find someone to date (had to focus on getting better). I was still unhappy that my dick was dead. I felt much happier when I went off those meds and my dick came back. Plus I found out something really neat, which is that cialis is actually cardioprotective - so it's a two-fer, yay!