FWB disappeared. Minimal explanation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Telling you he would “destroy you” if you were to get involved - that’s just a bunch of brooding actor melodrama horses**t, c’mon. If he weren’t famous or sexually attractive then you’d be doing exactly what I’m currently doing (as someone who dated lots of actors in my twenties) - massively rolling your eyes.

I’m sure it was exciting and challenging and getting those rare “I love you’s“ and intense gazes gave you a high but honestly, life is complicated and difficult enough without an elusive partner who would “destroy you” (gimme a break).
He’s done you a favor, what a dou**e canoe.

Op here. Thank you. I really appreciate that. Definitely slaps me into reality - I romanticized his broody and dramatic nature for YEARS.

Why did your marriage end?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Telling you he would “destroy you” if you were to get involved - that’s just a bunch of brooding actor melodrama horses**t, c’mon. If he weren’t famous or sexually attractive then you’d be doing exactly what I’m currently doing (as someone who dated lots of actors in my twenties) - massively rolling your eyes.

I’m sure it was exciting and challenging and getting those rare “I love you’s“ and intense gazes gave you a high but honestly, life is complicated and difficult enough without an elusive partner who would “destroy you” (gimme a break).
He’s done you a favor, what a dou**e canoe.

Op here. Thank you. I really appreciate that. Definitely slaps me into reality - I romanticized his broody and dramatic nature for YEARS.

Why did your marriage end?

Well, she admitted she was cheating with this guy for 2.5 years during her marriage....and it was a short marriage too. Basically the entire time...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Telling you he would “destroy you” if you were to get involved - that’s just a bunch of brooding actor melodrama horses**t, c’mon. If he weren’t famous or sexually attractive then you’d be doing exactly what I’m currently doing (as someone who dated lots of actors in my twenties) - massively rolling your eyes.

I’m sure it was exciting and challenging and getting those rare “I love you’s“ and intense gazes gave you a high but honestly, life is complicated and difficult enough without an elusive partner who would “destroy you” (gimme a break).
He’s done you a favor, what a dou**e canoe.

Op here. Thank you. I really appreciate that. Definitely slaps me into reality - I romanticized his broody and dramatic nature for YEARS.

Why did your marriage end?

OP doesn't sound very bright and doesn't seem to have much self worth...soo....guessing she didn't marry someone of high quality

[Anonymous]

I love this lol. Op's friends are sick and tired of her trying to get attention over having sex with someone famous so now she's trying to get attention off a DC based forum. I'm sure she's on other forums too.

[Anonymous]

I hope your ex has custody. You sound like a disaster for your kid to be around. You hardly sound fit to be a parent.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think OP had an affair with her FWB - her married years was their “off” period...that was how I interpreted it, at least. The cruelty toward OP is intense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Telling you he would “destroy you” if you were to get involved - that’s just a bunch of brooding actor melodrama horses**t, c’mon. If he weren’t famous or sexually attractive then you’d be doing exactly what I’m currently doing (as someone who dated lots of actors in my twenties) - massively rolling your eyes.

I’m sure it was exciting and challenging and getting those rare “I love you’s“ and intense gazes gave you a high but honestly, life is complicated and difficult enough without an elusive partner who would “destroy you” (gimme a break).
He’s done you a favor, what a dou**e canoe.

Op here. Thank you. I really appreciate that. Definitely slaps me into reality - I romanticized his broody and dramatic nature for YEARS.

Good! Remind yourself whenever you slip back into yearning for that ridiculousness (and need another slap, lol).

[Anonymous]

Not sure why you’re surprised by this behavior, OP. Accept that you were (happily?) lost in the sauce those years with him, and move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think OP had an affair with her FWB - her married years was their “off” period...that was how I interpreted it, at least. The cruelty toward OP is intense.

+1.

And either way the disappearing act with one message is still wrong, even moreso assuming this is factual context.

[Anonymous]

He should talk to you and explain things. If you didn’t email him he would not have contacted you at all? Left you at try airport ? So rude.