How many times did you have sex with your spouse in 2020?

[Anonymous]

Somewhere between 200-300? Married 15 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Once with my wife, more than I can count with my AP.

And is your wife convinced that you have a low sex drive and is posting on dcum about it?

Possibly. I’m sure she’s talking about us to her best friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Given our average, I’d say approximately 230. DW 46, DH 53. Married one year.

We really only want the average of couples that have been together more than 5 years you dope. Of course you bang like a screen door in a hurricane in the first year!

Cute expression, where are you from? (Though I disagree with your post. The newlyweds count)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:0 times. His choice.

Same. Hate him for it and fantasize about him magically disappearing forever so at least I can be sexless and single instead of married and living with a crappy roommate.

[Anonymous]

Every other month so perhaps 6 times?

Are the people who have single digits like us just as lonely and miserable or are they aw shucks we can do better but no biggie? My spouse is the latter, I am getting super resentful.

As newlyweds, somewhere around 500 times a year

[Anonymous]

Every other day/3 times a week, but we skip 4 days during my cycle... so average 2.5 a week more or less? He would like more, I would like less... we compromise (DH 49, DW 36, married 8.5 years and 3 young kids)

[Anonymous]

I would guess maybe 60? It is definitely less thing usual. Having our tween home and awake during all of our waking hours is really cramping our style in addition to the general stress we are all feeling

[Anonymous]

How many times have you had sex in:
1) The bed
2) The kitchen
3) the living room
4) The kids rooms
5) Someone else?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Probably about 30...two teens in the house, one who is an early riser and one who is a night owl hav really cramped our style...but not too long till both are off to college

About 35 for us in similar situation. Teens are always around and awake. If they would go to school we could meet up in the middle of the day for some fun. But not happening now.

[Anonymous]

About 200 times. Our household is us and our 8 year old (who we are homeschooling this year). Normally we are probably 200-300 between vacations/nights away/DS spending more time out of the house and then just a lot of stress and juggling of things since both of us work full time as well.

[Anonymous]

150ish? We are usually at about twice per week, but sometimes a bit more. 40, 2 small kids, married 7 years but together for 15 and living together the entire time.

[Anonymous]

Some of these numbers are pretty high. A week a month I have my period and we don’t have sex then. Probably every other to every third day we have sex.

I actually tracked it because we were TTC and the numbers were lower than I thought though. We both feel like we have sex a lot and it’s good sex. Quality is more important than quantity. We had sex daily during ovulation and it wasn’t a joy.

[Anonymous]

Zero. Same as 2019

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:0 times. His choice.

Same. Hate him for it and fantasize about him magically disappearing forever so at least I can be sexless and single instead of married and living with a crappy roommate.

I am so sorry, I feel the same way. But being single is far, far less lonely than married and celibate. It's hard to leave when it means splitting up the family, and my spouse is a good person in every way except sexually. It overshadows all of her good qualities, eventually.

Here's hoping you find someone in 2021. Hope springs eternal!

[Anonymous]

Any women who would like it more often please direct message me.