How many times did you have sex with your spouse in 2020?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.

[Anonymous]

Maybe 10

[Anonymous]

About 120, given our average. We are 47(W) and 42(H).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.

He's doing it wrong if sex with his girlfriend is stressful. Agree there is work involved with any girlfriend, but having a platonic room mate wife frees up all his romantic energy to be invested in girlfriends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.

He's doing it wrong if sex with his girlfriend is stressful. Agree there is work involved with any girlfriend, but having a platonic room mate wife frees up all his romantic energy to be invested in girlfriends.

Gawd I can’t believe people live like this and act like it’s okay.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.

He's doing it wrong if sex with his girlfriend is stressful. Agree there is work involved with any girlfriend, but having a platonic room mate wife frees up all his romantic energy to be invested in girlfriends.

Gawd I can’t believe people live like this and act like it’s okay.

I know right? 8 times in a entire year is not ok!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.

He's doing it wrong if sex with his girlfriend is stressful. Agree there is work involved with any girlfriend, but having a platonic room mate wife frees up all his romantic energy to be invested in girlfriends.

Living a double life is stressful. Worrying guy will get caught abs covering your tracks and the moral dilemma and self-hate you need to suppress.

All women get needy and want more and put pressure on eventually. Then you are juggling a ticking time bomb.

[Anonymous]

Over a hundred times for sure. Isn’t twice per week the standard?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.

He's doing it wrong if sex with his girlfriend is stressful. Agree there is work involved with any girlfriend, but having a platonic room mate wife frees up all his romantic energy to be invested in girlfriends.

Gawd I can’t believe people live like this and act like it’s okay.

I know right? 8 times in a entire year is not ok!

If it’s okay with both partners it’s okay! Some people have really low sex drives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Over a hundred times for sure. Isn’t twice per week the standard?

Nope, it’s once per week.

[Anonymous]

Maybe 20? Kids home and around all the time really did not work out well for us.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Over a hundred times for sure. Isn’t twice per week the standard?

Nope, it’s once per week.

Maybe if you are 80 years old

[Anonymous]

45-50, I’d estimate. We aim for once a week, but it’s harder with a teen in the house all day. And H’s drive seems to be diminishing with age (59).

[Anonymous]

I got divorced in 2020. But years 2013-2020 were 0 times.
Years 2011-2013 was 1 time. Earlier years...less than 5 times a year.

I am jealous of everyone here who has had a decent sex life in marriage.

With boyfriends before, it was every single day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe 100 times? Less if you count PIV. Then maybe 45.

What is PIV?