My ex-boyfriends ex-wife is stalking me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Block the number. Don’t engage with crazy.

Her number is blocked and I now have blocked all blocked/restricted calls. Earlier in the day a few calls came from spoof/burner phone numbers.

FFS. I get spoof calls (some in Chinese) a million times a day. Maybe my DH has a Chinese AP.

You sound unhinged. Your guilty conscience is out of control.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:At what point does the wife move the f*ck on? It's pathetic

She does not even know that this is the wife. Good lord.

I have been getting a ton of unknown number calls day and night (and texts!) leading up to the election. Robo calls are at their peak.

I get calls about student loans (don't leave a message). I finally picked up. I'm 50 and never had a student loan.

We also get about 50 calls a week from random numbers, sometimes the same 202 number about a property we own and 'someone' wants to buy.

I have a string of numbers from around the US. I don't pick up if I don't recognize the number or it is 'scam likely' or 'unknown'.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At what point does the wife move the f*ck on? It's pathetic

She does not even know that this is the wife. Good lord.

I have been getting a ton of unknown number calls day and night (and texts!) leading up to the election. Robo calls are at their peak.

Op here technically I don't know for a fact she called restricted 23 times in a row. But the one call I did answer ( I think it was #16) was her. I was going to explain but I've probably already said too much.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here

Dated ex briefly before the ink was dry on the divorce papers. Before some of you look too much into this he moved out, lived on his own in a different city I know this because I'd visit and hang out.. He's now legally divorced ( google is free). We are friends, I live alone. Our street was in reference to my elderly neighbor. Some elderly folks notice random cars that are on the street. This car on particular stands out in color and so does she. I know it's her because I answered one of the calls on the off chance it was an emergency I heard something distinct in her background.

So it sounds like YOU have called her before, and now that the tables have turned you don't like it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Block the number. Don’t engage with crazy.

Her number is blocked and I now have blocked all blocked/restricted calls. Earlier in the day a few calls came from spoof/burner phone numbers.

FFS. I get spoof calls (some in Chinese) a million times a day. Maybe my DH has a Chinese AP.

You sound unhinged. Your guilty conscience is out of control.

I have no reason to have a guilty conscience in this situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here

Dated ex briefly before the ink was dry on the divorce papers. Before some of you look too much into this he moved out, lived on his own in a different city I know this because I'd visit and hang out.. He's now legally divorced ( google is free). We are friends, I live alone. Our street was in reference to my elderly neighbor. Some elderly folks notice random cars that are on the street. This car on particular stands out in color and so does she. I know it's her because I answered one of the calls on the off chance it was an emergency I heard something distinct in her background.

So it sounds like YOU have called her before, and now that the tables have turned you don't like it.

I've never called her why would I have a reason to?

[Anonymous]

Is it just one or two scorned wives who are responding to me? I have never been in an ap (that I know of). Many of you jumped to that conclusion. Please read my previous posts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:At what point does the wife move the f*ck on? It's pathetic

Same with APs. My spouse's AP used to call from an unknown number and not say anything. After he dumped her, they increased. I just blocked. Pathetic.

I found out she looked up all of my friends and used to monitor me for the years I didn't even know she existed. She was obsessed with me. She looked up all of my husband's linkedin Contacts and starting stalking the women on there. She knew the names of all of our friends and he had never mentioned them to her.

When I found out about her, she told me she was very jealous of me. Crazy goes both ways. Oh, and she was married too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At what point does the wife move the f*ck on? It's pathetic

Same with APs. My spouse's AP used to call from an unknown number and not say anything. After he dumped her, they increased. I just blocked. Pathetic.

I found out she looked up all of my friends and used to monitor me for the years I didn't even know she existed. She was obsessed with me. She looked up all of my husband's linkedin Contacts and starting stalking the women on there. She knew the names of all of our friends and he had never mentioned them to her.

When I found out about her, she told me she was very jealous of me. Crazy goes both ways. Oh, and she was married too.

Op here that is insane. I hope you got a restraining order.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At what point does the wife move the f*ck on? It's pathetic

Same with APs. My spouse's AP used to call from an unknown number and not say anything. After he dumped her, they increased. I just blocked. Pathetic.

I found out she looked up all of my friends and used to monitor me for the years I didn't even know she existed. She was obsessed with me. She looked up all of my husband's linkedin Contacts and starting stalking the women on there. She knew the names of all of our friends and he had never mentioned them to her.

When I found out about her, she told me she was very jealous of me. Crazy goes both ways. Oh, and she was married too.

She was worried he was cheating on her. A married woman having an affair is worried her married lover is cheating on her. I guess sex with me didn't count as 'cheating' on his part. She just didn't want him to have another AP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At what point does the wife move the f*ck on? It's pathetic

Same with APs. My spouse's AP used to call from an unknown number and not say anything. After he dumped her, they increased. I just blocked. Pathetic.

I found out she looked up all of my friends and used to monitor me for the years I didn't even know she existed. She was obsessed with me. She looked up all of my husband's linkedin Contacts and starting stalking the women on there. She knew the names of all of our friends and he had never mentioned them to her.

When I found out about her, she told me she was very jealous of me. Crazy goes both ways. Oh, and she was married too.

Op here that is insane. I hope you got a restraining order.

I didn't because I didn't want to incite and I didn't want a public record. I did go over once and tell her to stay away from family and she was scared sh*tless and it appears to have stopped...especially because her husband was there and she was worried he would find out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At what point does the wife move the f*ck on? It's pathetic

Same with APs. My spouse's AP used to call from an unknown number and not say anything. After he dumped her, they increased. I just blocked. Pathetic.

I found out she looked up all of my friends and used to monitor me for the years I didn't even know she existed. She was obsessed with me. She looked up all of my husband's linkedin Contacts and starting stalking the women on there. She knew the names of all of our friends and he had never mentioned them to her.

When I found out about her, she told me she was very jealous of me. Crazy goes both ways. Oh, and she was married too.

She was worried he was cheating on her. A married woman having an affair is worried her married lover is cheating on her. I guess sex with me didn't count as 'cheating' on his part. She just didn't want him to have another AP.

You said husband, I hope he learned his lesson. Yikes!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t know which is worse: APs justifying their sluttiness, or scorned wives justifying their craziness.

Do better, ladies.

I am no one's ap.

Have you read the threads on here of people discussing dating while waiting for their divorces to be final? Do you go on their posts calling them sluts?

It was a general statement. If you’re not an AP, it doesn’t apply to you.

So why bring it onto the thread when OP made it clear pages ago that she was not an AP and he was separated when they dated? I agree with the PP who mentioned that women come on here ALL the time and talk about dating while separated. No one seems to have a problem with it when the shoe is on the other foot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At what point does the wife move the f*ck on? It's pathetic

Same with APs. My spouse's AP used to call from an unknown number and not say anything. After he dumped her, they increased. I just blocked. Pathetic.

I found out she looked up all of my friends and used to monitor me for the years I didn't even know she existed. She was obsessed with me. She looked up all of my husband's linkedin Contacts and starting stalking the women on there. She knew the names of all of our friends and he had never mentioned them to her.

When I found out about her, she told me she was very jealous of me. Crazy goes both ways. Oh, and she was married too.

She was worried he was cheating on her. A married woman having an affair is worried her married lover is cheating on her. I guess sex with me didn't count as 'cheating' on his part. She just didn't want him to have another AP.

You said husband, I hope he learned his lesson. Yikes!

Oh boy. After my wrath as well...he's scared straight..and doing lots of individual therapy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At what point does the wife move the f*ck on? It's pathetic

Same with APs. My spouse's AP used to call from an unknown number and not say anything. After he dumped her, they increased. I just blocked. Pathetic.

I found out she looked up all of my friends and used to monitor me for the years I didn't even know she existed. She was obsessed with me. She looked up all of my husband's linkedin Contacts and starting stalking the women on there. She knew the names of all of our friends and he had never mentioned them to her.

When I found out about her, she told me she was very jealous of me. Crazy goes both ways. Oh, and she was married too.

Op here that is insane. I hope you got a restraining order.

I didn't because I didn't want to incite and I didn't want a public record. I did go over once and tell her to stay away from family and she was scared sh*tless and it appears to have stopped...especially because her husband was there and she was worried he would find out.

Wait you didn't want a public record but you went to her house? How did you find her address? What if she would have fought you? Wouldn't that be public?